A sister in the music world, because a song has been popular for many years, was forced into mental illness by two men, and now the situation is worrying.

There is always a song played repeatedly during recess.

-"Sunshine is always behind the storm"

I didn't understand it at that time, but I thought it sounded good.

It was not until many years later that I gradually understood the meaning.

Until one time I searched the original song on the internet.

I found that she has been silent in the music world for many years.

Remember Xu Meijing?

Time has passed for a long time, and Xu Meijing has not appeared in public for a long time.

Her last appearance was as a special guest in last year's Golden Melody Fishing.

Furthermore, on 20 14, she and Stephanie, two representatives of Singapore female singers, performed "Moonlight in the City" at the concert.

Now she rarely appears in the news, does not participate in business activities, does not do too much publicity, like a transparent person, people gradually forget the existence of such a person.

Even though the younger generation may be a little strange to this man, in the early 1990s, Xu Meijing could compete with Faye Wong and Na Ying.

She is an ordinary girl from an ordinary family.

When I was a child, I dreamed of becoming a stewardess.

Both parents are ordinary workers,

I hope my daughter will spend this life healthily and safely.

I don't like her publicity

But Xu Meijing was very rebellious,

Even like to fight against the so-called rules,

Don't behave like most girls.

Xu Meijing made her debut very early.

1992, 18 years old, participated in Miss Chinese in Singapore and won "Miss Friendship" and "Miss Most Photographed".

1993 participated in the "Looking for Superstars" activity sponsored by the record company, which was taken a fancy to by Jiahe Record Company and officially entered the music scene.

1994, Xu Meijing Lightspeed released its first solo album "Know".

This album is a hit in Singapore. Among them, the title song of the same name "Ming Know" once became a popular song.

She sang "I want to forget it, it is better to break up like this, my heart hurts, I love you so much".

In June, 1996, and in February, 65438+ released the albums "Regret" and "The Sleeper".

"Moonlight in the City" and "There is always sunshine after rain" quickly became a popular song sung by the whole people, accompanied and cured countless urban hearts, and became a phenomenal famous song.

At the end of the year, the album "Spread" pursued victory, and the title song of the same name was made into the theme song of the movie "Hail Eye" by Ang Lee;

Xu Meijing wrote lyrics for beauty, mourning Diana, who was separated by thousands of rivers and Qian Shan, and Xu Meijing wrote the words "A kind of pain has withered", which is also considered to be interlinked.

The cause is her love.

He is a famous music producer in Singapore, known as "Jonathan Lee of Singapore", and an able person who is very good at writing stray love songs and creating female singers. All the songs that Xu Meijing became a brand came from him.

At that time, Xu Meijing was participating in the "Looking for Superstars" competition and changing clothes in the locker room when a man pushed the door and came in. This is Chen Jiaming.

When Xu Meijing saw a strange man come in, he was shocked and embarrassed because the zipper at the back of her skirt was not zipped properly. She asked Chen Jiaming, "Why didn't you knock?"

Chen Jiaming didn't answer, but went over and zipped up Xu Meijing, and then said slowly, "Singapore can't find a beautiful voice like you."

This sentence moved Xu Meijing instantly. Also planted the seeds of her tragic life early.

Someone once commented on this golden combination: Without Chen Jiaming, a Bole, and Xu Meijing, a swift horse, it would be impossible to enter the music scene and become a legend.

Xu Changde even commented: "This is another Faye Wong."

There is a popular proverb:

In the eyes of many fans, Xu Meijing's songs, when listened carefully, can heal people's sadness.

Xu Meijing's first album "Know Me" was taken from Ming, and later she sang "Moonlight in the City", which was also taken from half of Ming characters.

She sang her feelings for Chen Jiaming into songs, and closely combined her album with Chen Jiaming.

Just, at that time, Chen Jiaming, like Jonathan Lee and Bobby Chen, was married.

At that time, Chen Jiaming realized Xu Meijing's feelings for himself. He promised the girl: "I will definitely divorce and marry you."

Because of this sentence, Xu Meijing got deeper and deeper.

While singing hard, she developed a relationship with Chen Jiaming, but every time she mentioned marriage, Chen Jiaming avoided talking about it.

After 67 years of struggle, such a wholehearted expectation has not brought good results. In the end, Chen Jiaming didn't live up to his promise. Deeply hurt by feelings, Xu Meijing was disheartened and married Yuan Yaofa, who was eight years younger than him.

However, after a period of time, their relationship was in crisis, and Xu Meijing became pregnant. Yuan Yaofa, who was bent on developing her career, advised her to abort the baby, so they made a scene many times.

During this period, Chen Jiaming said that she was divorced, hoping to relive her old dream and launch a strong offensive against her again, but she still could not promise to get married.

After breaking up, Xu Meijing committed suicide by jumping off a building, but her family found out and stopped her in time. However, her spirit became abnormal, and her family and friends could only take turns to accompany her and receive medication and psychotherapy.

It was not until 2006 that she appeared in the newspaper again.

According to Singaporean media reports, Xu Meijing suddenly followed a stranger into the Ritz-Carlton Hotel. After the passengers entered, she suddenly knocked on the door and called others out.

When the passenger opened the door, he saw a stranger and was about to close the door. At this moment, Xu Meijing pointed at him and shouted, "Call me God".

After that, she asked the passengers to kneel and kowtow.

When passengers see something wrong, they immediately call the hotel staff, who will call the police when they arrive.

When the police arrived, they arrested Xu Meijing for "mental disorder".

Later she explained that

Fortunately, however, her condition has improved now.

Zhihu has such an evaluation:

There will never be a second Van Gogh in this world.

Xu Meijing's real golden age is short-lived,

She became famous, and then she was silent for a while.