What destroyed the marriage of Big S and Wang Xiaofei?

The most important thing about Big S's work is actually Wang Xiaofei. On the first day when the children went to Taiwan, Wang Xiaofei was on the way to divorce without knowing it.

After he agreed with Big S to move all the children to Taiwan, this was the prelude to divorce. If Wang Xiaofei did not want a divorce or go to Taiwan, then this would be Wang Xiaofei’s wrong first step. The so-called wrong step. wrong!

Wang Xiaofei never thought that she would send her children to Taiwan. If they went to school there, it would be troublesome to get them back. If you can't get your children back, you don't want to go to Taiwan. You can't live in two places for the rest of your life. ! So can we not get divorced?

In fact, really smart women will not divorce. But if you get to the stage of divorce, it would be very smart to talk about Big S. Although the whole Internet is complaining about Big S, I have to say that Big S has done enough to think about herself.

Mother-in-law Zhang Lan lamented to herself why South Beauty is what it is today and why Wang Xiaofei has reached the stage of divorce. Just like if South Beauty had not introduced CDH Ventures, there would have been no change of ownership, and there would have been no change of ownership. It would not come to this. In a public event in August 2011, Zhang Lan bluntly said that "introducing them (CDH) was South Beauty's biggest mistake." If Zhang Lan could let Wang Xiaofei know the consequences of Big S bringing the children to Taiwan, maybe there would be no divorce. Zhang Lan really may not be as good as Big S when it comes to major decisions, nor can he be as refined as Big S. Egoist.

Although Big S’s behavior is really undesirable, it’s not that Wang Xiaofei doesn’t love her children, it’s not that Wang Xiaofei doesn’t love her, and it’s not that Wang Xiaofei doesn’t recruit mistresses outside. During the epidemic, flying back and forth to Taiwan for testing, how much patience does it take! But she never comes to Beijing so that her children will not suffer from testing. She only complains about Beijing. She belongs to the Hari family. Fortunately, she still knows that her ancestral home is Shandong! The three views are seriously incorrect.

I don’t know why Wang Xiaofei drank too much at the party, but she actually saw a beautiful and gentle woman behaved like this? Look at the overwhelming hair that can't be touched again. Her boyfriend heard that she was nervous about her high heels. Nature is hard to change. Nature is hard to change. Nature is hard to change. Even though she was willing to go all out to marry Wang Xiaofei and coaxed Wang Xiaofei around. .

To sum up personally, Big S is really stupid. When he doesn’t get it, he chases after it with all his strength. When he gets it, he finds that it’s nothing more than that, and then throws it away. He is not willing to maintain the basic respect and consideration for the other party. Euphemistically called independent women. Previous boyfriends should understand best.

When I participated in a variety show, my character shortcomings were also exposed. To put it nicely, it means insisting on oneself; to put it worse, it means being crazy. She calls herself "very choking and very fussy."

"Everything happens" in daily life. Reluctant to step out of her career comfort zone, she originally had an enviable and very good starting point. Putting aside Taiwan's economic downturn, Beijing has actually had more performance opportunities in recent years, and can also bring Xiaos together. Coupled with Wang Xiaofei's connections and the popularity she accumulated in her early years, she can definitely shine in Beijing for the first time. For two springs, she just stayed at home in Taipei and took care of her children, which was fine.

For example, when she and her husband participated in the variety show "Happiness Trio", she said in the show that her father peeled shrimps for her since she was a child. After she got married, she ate them only after her husband peeled them. If he didn't peel them, she wouldn't tell her. Let Wang Xiaofei realize it on his own.

After talking about the charioteer's surgery, Wang Xiaofei was so frightened that she didn't dare to say a word. The key is that the other guests also looked at each other in shock!

In "We Are Real Friends", everyone is giving in to Big S. She has to go to bed early and others can't talk anymore. She is afraid of cockroaches and can't even say a word to others. Is this a true friend? Are you the best best friend? Fortunately, my best friend does not live with her every day.

At any rate, Wang Xiaofei also knew how difficult it was for her mother, Zhang Lan, to struggle to this day, so she chose a woman who did this. Marrying a practical entrepreneur or businessman with a celebrity is risky. At least you can't find a celebrity, but you can't find someone who is too accomplished. You should be low-key and down-to-earth with acting skills. You will have to take all the blame on yourself.

It is also very important for parents to control their children’s marriage.

Wang Xiaofei, who had a bad temper before marriage, was actually afraid of adults. Marriage is about helping each other and understanding each other.

Big S seems to be very dependent on Wang Xiaofei in life, but every word and every expression is full of guns and sticks, trampling the man's self-esteem under his feet.

But this also shows that if a woman is facing a husband who loves his wife and children, you must at least give him positive praise in return. Instead of taking pleasure in attacking others and appearing superior, who can stand this for a long time! Cai Shaofen is a typical example of praising her husband. The small family is harmonious, both parties' careers are taking off, and everything is prosperous when the family is harmonious!

Big S: Looking at one thing from a civilian perspective, if a woman is very rich, she can be financially independent. It is not easy for the two to live apart for so many years. For the father’s shortcomings in the children There is no difference between not being by your side during the most critical period and being in a physical marriage. Living the same life without a man and with a man will feel that there is not much meaning in maintaining a marriage...

Wang Shaofei: Since I originally thought that the elder S would return to her family in Taiwan to compare If it is better to live in Beijing, then it will be a question of whether I go to Taiwan to develop in the future, or I stay in Beijing and implement a long-term separation. Is it good for the children? So it is reasonable to get divorced today. Calm down and think about what you want. As the saying goes, your children will be at home wherever they are. Life is like this. An occasional choice will leave a lot of regrets no matter what, and many people will do this.

Comments from outsiders:

Wang Xiaofei is indeed too straight. A perfect marriage will have shortcomings. If you have children, try to be considerate of each other. Especially when his mother and daughter-in-law fell into the water, he answered that he should save his mother first. In fact, this question was very annoying. Just like when his husband and his father fell into the water, I would definitely save my father first. As long as you think like this, you will have a psychological balance! However, on TV, Wang Xiaofei's answer to this kind of proposition was really not tactful enough. Big S probably couldn't stand it. She looked playful on the show, but the seeds of unhappiness were planted in her heart at that time.

Big S’s strength is not very intelligent. She is strong but also requires men to pamper her like a little woman, which is very divisive. Either be a strong woman who can support and lead the whole family, or be a little woman to the end, with only half a bottle hanging around. If it is a eldest sister, it will all be the eldest sister's style, or it will be a little woman who is gentle to the end. This kind of woman often calls the shots, but also has to pamper herself in everything and let her little woman do what she wants. This is a foolish and powerful way.

She chased every ex-boyfriend with all her strength at first, but then gave up after chasing her. Life was not about romance, but about daily necessities and daily necessities.

There is no person in this world that we cannot live without, and no obstacle that we cannot overcome. I hope that one day you can't live without each other, and that one day you can take a step back and the sky will be brighter.

First of all, there is a big difference in the values ????between the two. Wang Xiaofei is a rich second generation in Beijing who was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. He has a good family environment since he was a child. He looks mature but is actually weak at heart. As a family member, his wife The backbone of the family, one person carries the burden of the whole family. Behind the weak appearance is a strong heart. The different family backgrounds lead to very different values ????for the two people to treat things. In addition, both of them have bad tempers, and it is inevitable that they will encounter trouble. Arguments will break out.

The second reason is that Wang Xiaofei speaks unscrupulously in public. As we all know, when the news of the two people's divorce first came out, it was because Wang Xiaofei was worried that her family would not be able to get the vaccine, so she started complaining on her social platform. This incident made Big S very angry. At that time, she There was news that the two were divorcing. Unexpectedly, after a few months, the two still reached the stage of divorce.

In addition, the most important reason is that the two have been separated for a long time. Da S, who grew up in Taiwan, cannot adapt to the climate in Beijing. He has complained several times about the dry weather in Beijing and feels very uncomfortable. After giving birth to a child, the elder S simply stopped living in Beijing. Instead, her husband Wang Xiaofei traveled between places. Wang Xiaofei’s mother once praised Wang Xiaofei as a very good man. He flew more than 700 times in one year. Dissatisfaction with Big S can also be heard in his words. Therefore, long-term separation is the main reason for the marriage of the two people.

Because I don’t love it! If Wang Xiaofei was still one of the "Four Young Masters in Beijing" and if Wang Xiaofei was still the young master of South Beauty, I don't think Big S would divorce him. The most fundamental reason for the divorce was Wang Xiaofei's career failure. Big S was an independent person and she was unwilling to accompany a man to make a comeback.

The two people had a weak emotional foundation. They got married after meeting four times. They only knew each other for three months. How much time did they have to understand each other? Some people just fall in love at first sight, and falling in love is okay, but if they live a life of daily necessities, it is easy to expose the shortcomings of both parties; moreover, I have always felt that Big S has never really loved Wang Xiaofei.

Big S once told the media: It is best for women to have children before the age of 35. If you are over 35, I am not sure I will have children! Wang Xiaofei and Big S met when she was 35 years old. Perhaps she needed a man and a stable home too much. At this time, Wang Xiaofei's appearance happened to meet her desire for marriage.

I heard that Big S’s previous relationships all ended with her being too forced into marriage. This shows that she is too eager to get married, or she is too eager to have children of her own. Her strong character directly dissuaded her from dating, and her ex-boyfriends avoided her.

So, when she met Wang Xiaofei, an outsider, Wang Xiaofei was immediately attracted to her. He doesn't have to worry about her status in the circle, and he may not know much about her rumors. At this time, she may just have a good impression of Wang Xiaofei and not like her much. Then why did she choose to have a flash marriage with Wang Xiaofei?

I think first of all, she has reached the age where she hates getting married. My sister is already the mother of several children, but she is still alone.

The second is that she needs a man to warm her. Da S lacked father's love since he was a child. He grew up with his mother and experienced the hardships of life. When she met Wang Xiaofei, a young second-generation rich man, she decided to have a flash marriage with Wang Xiaofei at all costs. She had an unpleasant quarrel with her friend An Yixuan because of this incident. Only a few of them knew the inside story; it was said that An Yixuan was not present at the wedding. Go and attend.

Also, Wang Xiaofei is regarded as her emotional sustenance. Big S's first few relationships were also vigorous, and she took the initiative to pursue them every time. Despite her extremely high IQ, she actually has a bit of a love brain. She invests too much in relationships but doesn't get the return she wants. This may also be related to her strong personality. It's okay to fall in love with such a girl, but I'm afraid she would be a little hesitant to get married. Big S is also a person with personality. If you hesitate, I will dump you.

In the end, I was attracted by the aura of Wang Xiaofei. At that time, Wang Xiaofei still had the aura of one of the "Four Young Masters in Beijing" and was the young boss of the listed company South Beauty. She was young and promising and a rich second generation. She was still six years younger than the elder S. So when she met such an outstanding man, How could he let go easily? They got married after only four meetings. This is the reason for the two people to have a flash marriage!

Da S has been living in Taiwan since her marriage. She said she could not adapt to the climate in Beijing. Do you think this is a sign of loving your husband? You are married to a mainland man, but you refuse to live with him. How can Yi Nengjing and Cai Shaofen adapt to it, but you cannot adapt to it. To put it bluntly, she doesn’t love and is unwilling to give. On the contrary, Wang Xiaofei keeps running back and forth between the mainland and Taiwan! I heard that he has bought more than 700 air tickets in these years. It can be seen that he loves his wife. How could he be so humble if he didn't love her.

Marriage and love are two different things, but these two people got married before they were in love. Long-distance marriage was the main reason for divorce, and the secondary factor was Wang Xiaofei's career failure. He is no longer the suave "Four Young Masters in Beijing" back then, nor is he no longer the young boss of a listed company. In 2016, South Beauty acquired 83% of its equity due to a gambling agreement; in 2017, all of Zhang Lan's assets were frozen; in 2018, Wang Xiaofei's investments in hotels, oolong tea, real estate companies, etc. all ended up losing money.

I heard that Big S also sold two houses to make up for Wang Xiaofei’s shortfall, and also used his connections to promote business for her husband.

In fact, Big S once wanted to accompany Wang Xiaofei to make a comeback, but in those years, Wang Xiaofei was really unsatisfactory, so she had to pay for it. When a man loses his career, he loses his charm, and Big S gradually loses his patience. In addition, the two of them have lived in different places for many years, have different living habits, different ways of thinking, and lack of the same language, so this leads to Today's marriage fails.

If I ask, what destroyed the marriage between Wang Xiaofei and Big S?

I think it should be reality and not love.

If Wang Xiaofei was still the famous rich second generation, Big S would definitely continue to appreciate him. Wang Xiaofei's career suffered repeated setbacks, which directly led to the dissolution of their marriage. Big S didn't love him much at first, they just met at the right time. She was too eager for marriage and children of her own. Big S said that the first time he met Wang Xiaofei, he wanted to have a child for him.

Then there was the long period of time away from home, which brought the relationship between the two people to an end. Not to mention celebrities, even us ordinary people, long-term distance will make each other emotionally estranged.

Now that their twelve-year marriage has disintegrated, Wang Xiaofei generously left most of his property to his ex-wife, which speaks volumes about this man’s character. I hope Wang Xiaofei can cheer up soon and develop her career well. If you bloom, butterflies will come! It would be great to find a girl from the mainland who has the same outlook on life, but don’t live in a different place. There are many good girls from the mainland. Forty years old is the golden age for men, and there is still time for everything.

I think the fact that Big S and Wang Xiaofei spend more time apart than together is an important factor in their divorce.

If two people do not live together for a long time, it is inevitable that various conflicts will arise. Because of the epidemic, Wang Xiaofei cannot go to Taiwan, and Big S can only live in Taiwan with her two children. Not being able to see each other for a long time made her collapse. Wang Xiaofei still had troubles from time to time in Beijing. She began to say that the divorce might have been impulsive. As a star, she had no control over things developing. There is no winner in every failed marriage, and two young children are heartbreaking.

The divorce rumors between the two have been on and off for 5 months. Now, the news of Wang Xiaofei and Big S’s divorce has been confirmed. Some people find it surprising, while others think it is expected. . In fact, this matter has already been traced.

On November 5, Wang Xiaofei posted on Weibo: I remembered my original real name. My name is not Wang Xiaofei, my name is Wang Shaofei, and this is my real name.

Wang Xiaofei also deleted the relevant updates with Big S on some platforms. The personal introduction of the video account also deleted Big S's name and directly changed it to "Xiao Yue'er's father", which is surprising. One has to doubt the marital status of the two.

In fact, in addition to this year's "divorce drama", we can also find some clues from the two people's past interactions.

1. Big S lacks a sense of security

Big S’s father is a man who likes alcoholism and domestic violence. Her parents separated very early. Children who grow up in such a frightening environment without father's love often lack a sense of security and have some wrong perceptions about marriage. That's the case with Big S. She pinned the source of her sense of security on Wang Xiaofei, always making herself sentimental and worrying about gains and losses.

In "Happiness Trio", Big S found that Wang Xiaofei was not with him, so he muttered: "Why did my husband abandon me without saying a word?" He looked very disappointed. Later, Big S asked Wang Xiaofei where she had been and why she didn't tell her. Wang Xiaofei was very surprised: "Where can I go in this house? I need to go to the toilet." Big S said "Oh" and felt even more uncomfortable: "If you don't tell me, I'm afraid."

< p> Big S always wants to confirm her husband's feelings for her through some words and actions, but often her husband's casual words or some insignificant things are considered very complicated by Big S and amplified infinitely. .

Wang Xiaofei was riding a bicycle with Big S. One second, Big S was laughing and teasing Wang Xiaofei for not listening to her, and the next second she was crying: "It's terrible. I told you to stop, but you didn't stop. "Because she felt that Wang Xiaofei didn't stop when she called to stop, so he didn't care about her feelings. Later, Wang Xiaofei patiently coaxed Big S and taught him how to ride a bicycle to divert her attention, and Big S turned from sadness to joy.

2. Big S’s hypocrisy

The separation of his parents in his early years made Big S very obsessed with family perfection; when he was 17 years old, he took his younger sister Xiao S to enter the entertainment industry , which makes her long for love and the warmth of family; and the environment in which she grew up makes her long for being cared for, which is also one of the reasons for her "hypocritical" character.

In the "Happiness Trio" program, because Wang Xiaofei ate the meal sent by Fukuhara Ai, Big S asked Wang Xiaofei: "Do you regret marrying me?"

Big S wanted to serve the rice, but there was not much rice in the pot. Big S thought that Wang Xiaofei deliberately did not leave any food for her, and asked Wang Xiaofei: "Why are you so afraid of me eating?"

Big S prepared sushi breakfast for Wang Xiaofei. Wang Xiaofei ate several pieces and couldn't eat any more, but Big S said: "I don't think you want to eat it at all."

Fukuhara Ai let Big S eat shrimp, and Big S S directly refused: "I won't eat it because I don't like peeling shrimps. To eat shrimps, a man must peel them for you. So after I married my husband, if he didn't peel them for me, I wouldn't tell him. If he peeled them for me, I wouldn't tell him." Just eat."

You know, Wang Xiaofei is a Beijinger with a hot temper, but for Big S, he is willing to change himself to accommodate the other party. When Big S is scolded, he just smiles and admits to being cowardly; whatever Big S wants, he will satisfy her request. Even while driving, he has to answer his wife's phone call immediately because he dare not not answer it.

3. Wang Xiaofei behaves intimately with the opposite sex

To be honest, it is not easy for Wang Xiaofei to tolerate and accommodate Big S for ten years, but Wang Xiaofei also has many problems herself. This caused more and more conflicts between the two.

Wang Xiaofei often makes gaffes after drinking, makes some inappropriate remarks, and even scolds others. Once, after Wang Xiaofei got drunk late at night, she had a live broadcast with a female anchor, and her words and deeds were very intimate. As a married person, Wang Xiaofei's words and deeds were too inappropriate. Although Big S didn't react to this, he must have felt sad countless times.

In fact, Xiao S has said in the show before that Wang Xiaofei always looks at others with his eyes wandering here and there, and is a very thief.

4. Wang Xiaofei doesn’t understand his wife

Anyone who is familiar with Big S should know that she is extremely strong. In order to work, she can work all year round; in order to become gray, she frantically tries various products, even if there are side effects; in order to lose weight, she only eats one banana every day for several weeks. From his debut to the present, 28 years of hard work have shaped Big S’s tough and strong heart.

Big S, who has always put his career first, recognized Wang Xiaofei as his significant other and the father of his child when he first met him. From the moment they met and got married, in less than a month, they only met 4 times in total.

In 2011, when Wang Xiaofei and Big S got married, Big S was already a well-known artist. For Wang Xiaofei, she gave up her popular career and focused all her attention on taking care of her family.

In order to become pregnant, Big S changed her vegetarian habit for many years and worked hard to gain weight. After three years, Big S finally got pregnant as she wished, but her body became fatter and out of shape, and once reached over 160 pounds. Gaining weight during pregnancy is a normal thing, but Wang Xiaofei's attitude towards Big S during her pregnancy is very sad.

In "The Coming of Kangxi", Big S described that when Wang Xiaofei saw that she had gained weight during pregnancy, she would show a frightened expression, an expression like seeing a ghost but pretending not to see it.

Big S has always loved beauty, but Wang Xiaofei's attitude has made Big S in a state of self-doubt since she became pregnant, and she was almost giving up on herself. Big S also said that when he weighed himself, he almost fainted when he saw that he weighed 160 pounds.

Little S comforted her sister that she was not very fat and that she should eat more and good food during pregnancy. However, Wang Xiaofei complained that Little S is the person who can harm Big S the most. She also said to Big S: "Your sister is hurting you and you don't always listen to her." The implication is: Big S should not gain weight. , it is best to be thinner.

Not only that, in "Happiness Trio", Big S smiled and said there were dragons and Santa Claus in the sky, and Wang Xiaofei said bluntly, "It's impossible, you saw it wrong." In fact, Big S may be looking for some interesting topics, but Wang Xiaofei doesn't understand and kills the interest with a stick.

5. The "pain" of long-distance couples

Even in marriage, Wang Xiaofei and Big S have some problems, but as long as Wang Xiaofei tolerates and loves Big S as much as he shows , the marriage may be able to survive.

However, once conflicts accumulate and are not properly handled, the patience of the two people will be exhausted little by little, and the marriage will slowly break down. The main reason for this result is that the two have been in different places for a long time and cannot communicate well.

Wang Xiaofei is from Beijing and Big S is from Taipei. With a distance of more than a thousand kilometers, love alone is far from enough.

Their eating habits and living habits are very different. Wang Xiaofei once said that she could not adapt to life in Taiwan, and Big S could not adapt to life in Beijing. She also posted an article complaining about the climate in Beijing. Therefore, within a few years of her marriage, she lived in Taipei with her two children.

Moreover, due to the epidemic, the two of them spent less time together and more time apart. Wang Xiaofei had to run in both directions. It was very difficult to even see her children. She could even wave to each other through the window and talk to her from a long distance. The combination of getting along, one-sided travel and various pressures will inevitably make Wang Xiaofei complain, which seems to have escalated the difficult-to-get-together conflict between him and Big S.

In fact, the personality compatibility is already a test for Wang Xiaofei and Big S's marriage. Coupled with the fact that they live in different places, the two are more likely to become suspicious and have conflicts. Sometimes they may get divorced if they quarrel.

Although the two have been married for 10 years, the trivial things accumulated in life will always affect their marriage bit by bit. What's more, they still have some irreconcilable conflicts, such as different places and cultural differences... Therefore, no matter how tender they are, one day they may explode, eventually destroying their marriage.

In fact, whether it is ordinary people or celebrities, the road to marriage may not be smooth sailing without twists and turns. Marriages that go through trials and ups and downs are the norm, while marriages that tolerate and understand each other are the longest lasting.

Toss! Tantrum! Strictly speaking, it means that I don't love you anymore, I'm tired of it, and everything else is an excuse. Of course, these excuses add up and eventually lead to a qualitative change that leads to no longer loving you. In the end, their marriage was ruined.

Secondly, the two have been married for ten years and have experienced what they should have experienced. There is no guarantee that the woman will see that the man’s family situation is not as good as it used to be, and she will not like it. It is also possible that their respective goals have been achieved and they feel that their respective assets We no longer need each other!

It is also possible that the epidemic has caused distance and ultimately led to estrangement, but the most likely one is that one party cheated, which is generally the trigger for this kind of divorce.

I don’t know the personalities of the two people. In fact, it is difficult to tell the right and wrong responsibilities in married life. One slap cannot make a difference. Both people have responsibilities. I personally think Wang Xiaofei is a bit too doting. Love is equal to both parties. Mutually, if one party is too low, it will not be balanced enough, and the final result will be divorce [stunned][stunned][stunned]

If a couple is separated for a long time, problems will definitely arise after a long time

< p> Perhaps the best way to describe it is that the three views are inconsistent.

The marriage between Wang Xiaofei and Big S has great symbolic significance. Going back 20 years ago, the Big S sisters were stars in the Wanwan entertainment industry. They represented the golden age of Wanwan's radiation and influence on mainland culture at that time. Whether it is Meteor Garden or Kangxi Is Coming, they are the originators of idol film, television dramas and variety shows that have influenced an entire generation or even several generations.

Everyone has seen the subsequent development, including but not limited to cross-strait marriages such as Ruby Lin, Huo Jianhua, Gao Yuanyuan, Chao Youting, Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao, all of which were influenced to some extent by this couple. At that time, cross-strait exchanges were very frequent and in-depth in all aspects.

But everyone has seen the subsequent trend. Not only did Wang Xiaofei express her disapproval of everything online many times, it also exposed the differences in the thinking styles and living habits of artists on both sides of the Taiwan Strait. Although the personalities of the two people also have a great impact, they are indeed inseparable from the general trend. After the epidemic, people have to be quarantined for a long time at a time, which will really drain the relationship between both parties. So don’t think that family is just about the family itself. In fact, it is inseparable from the general trend.