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The way to give gifts-what gift should a friend give for his birthday?

China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and has always advocated reciprocity. "Book of Rites Quli Shang" said: "Courtesy is reciprocal, going without coming, indecent assault, coming without going, indecent assault."

Gift-giving is human nature and one of the most important daily "diplomatic" activities. Colleagues, bosses, friends, family members, different people and different communication relationships all have a deep understanding of gift giving. Gifts reflect what kind of image you want to establish in other people's minds, a person who can appreciate others, an elegant person, or a person who knows how to end a relationship with a smile. More importantly, it is also a declaration to the recipient: his loyalty has been recognized by you, his perseverance is commendable, his leadership ability is crucial to this department, his health is worrying, and his mood makes you dream. In a word, he deserves to be thanked and given this gift.

Friends are the most important role in our daily communication. There is a lyric, "It's hard to find a bosom friend in a thousand miles. With more friends, the road is easy." The existence of intimate friends in life, partners in work and friends has always maintained our network. Therefore, giving gifts to friends on their birthdays has become one of the most important activities for us to maintain "diplomacy". However, how to send and what gift to send is often a headache. Practical ones don't necessarily need it, expensive ones don't necessarily like it, and extravagant ones often can't afford it themselves. It is impolite because it is too cheap, and unbalanced because it is too expensive, which leads to awkward relationship between the two sides. Therefore, it is particularly important to learn how to give gifts.

1, the gift is appropriate.

Generally speaking, the gift is too light and meaningless, and it is easy to be misunderstood as looking down on him, especially for friends who are not close. If the gift is too heavy, he may refuse it, which will directly lead to the gradual alienation of your relationship in the future.

2. Understand customs and taboos

Different places, customs are often different, and there are many taboos you don't know. For example, Shanghainese are forbidden to give apples when they are sick, and dialects are homophonic with "death". For example, sending a clock is "sending it out". Therefore, if you don't know in advance, sending inappropriate gifts is likely to lead to irreparable results.

3. Gifts should be meaningful

Gifts are the carrier of feelings. Any gift expresses the special intention of the giver, or returns, or asks for help, or contacts feelings and so on. Therefore, the gift you choose must be in line with your mind, and let the recipient feel that your gift is unusual and precious.

In fact, the best gift should be a meaningful and thought-provoking gift chosen according to the other person's hobby, with extraordinary quality but not obvious. For example, "God Blessed Auspicious" brand clothing and pendant series gifts.

The brand "God Bless Good Luck" originated in Hong Kong, 1939. At first, a former monk opened a tailor's shop. With a compassionate heart, Mr Lu saved the world and served the people. His clothes are not only of high quality and low price, but also sold to the neighborhood after being taken to Kannonji to pray for every consumer. Therefore, for a long time, "God bless good luck" has been widely praised in the neighborhood and Chinese community. Later, in order to benefit more people, Emperor International Group Limited was formally established, 1996. While inheriting traditional culture, the company boldly innovates, conforms to the development trend of the times, and develops blessing gifts more suitable for modern people.

"God bless good luck" means to bless luck, luck and good luck. Send your friends clothes that are blessed by God and lucky, and express your best wishes and sincere wishes to your friends.

The significance of opening the light

"Opening the light" has two meanings: from the phase point of view, opening the light has a ceremony, which can protect the wearer with the help of the power of Buddha and Bodhisattva; Theoretically speaking, in order to open the starlight of all beings, the ceremony can transmit the compassion spirit of Buddhism and the blessing power of Buddhists and Bodhisattvas to the people who open the light and give them special spiritual power, so that they can pray for blessing, ward off evil spirits or adjust the atmosphere, and play a role in ensuring peace or promoting prosperity and wealth.