A 24-year-old wife in Chengdu moved into the home of a male colleague. Her husband tried hard to get her back but was rejected. Why did the wife refuse?

A 24-year-old wife in Chengdu moved into the home of a male colleague. Her husband tried hard to get her back but was rejected. The reason for the rejection was that the wife did not want to take care of the children or be a housewife. Let me tell you what our female friends feel like. After getting married, our female friends gave birth to and raised children, became stay-at-home mothers, and had no income.

My wife’s reason is very reasonable. It’s too tiring to raise children. My wife is 24 years old. At this age, she works outside and leads a carefree life. But my wife is a mother of two. She has given birth to two children and has not worked for at least 6 years.

A wife needs freedom, needs to make money, and needs to have a life circle instead of revolving around the children. The wife is too tired to take care of the children at home, and the husband makes too little money. The wife chose to go out, ran away from home, and found a job as a hotel waiter. I find happiness and joy here, meet colleagues of similar age to myself, take good care of myself, and find a life of my own.

My husband is a good husband, with a monthly salary of 3,500. Leave five hundred pocket money and give three thousand to your wife. From this aspect alone, the husband takes care of the family, but three thousand yuan is too little and does not cover expenses. Living like this, my wife is too tired, and without family to help me, it is really tiring.

Many times, we blame our wives. As a woman, I understand my wife’s approach. 24 is the age when many people graduate, but their wives give birth to and raise children. The mistake in this marriage was that the wife was at the wrong age at marriage.

Don’t be a stay-at-home mother. Women need to be financially independent and find joy in life. Life is not only a test for women, but also a growth experience. Don’t get married too early. The best age for marriage is 26. At this time, we are mature and can take care of our family.

When the wife gets married and has children, the husband and the husband’s family should step forward and help the young people get through these years. Don't think that the children belong to the wife alone. The wife needs to work and grow.

If you love your wife, let her go to work, let her have financial capabilities, and let her find the value of life. Be more tolerant and caring towards your wife.