What do you say when it rains when you get married? What do you need to pay attention to?

1. What are the opinions on rainy days when getting married?

Some say that raining on the wedding day is a symbol of auspiciousness, because it means that God has cried for the bride, and the bride will cry for her life. If you don’t cry, you can be happy and happy; some say that if it rains on the wedding day, it means that the groom married a sweet wife (water wife); others say that if it rains on the wedding day, it means that the daughter-in-law he married is powerful and can take care of the house. Some people believe that water is a sign of wealth, and if it rains on the wedding day, it means that you will get rich in the future.

Many traditional newlyweds and their families are confused about whether it will rain on their wedding day, whether it is good or bad luck. So let’s take a look at what folklore experts say.

Experts point out that the most important thing in the traditional culture of the Chinese nation is the "unity of man and nature", that is, the harmony between man and nature. For example, when the weather is sunny, people will be in a good mood, and when the weather is gloomy, the mood will be good. Is it bad to follow? This concept has a psychological impact on marriage. As a result, various theories spread among the people.

For example, if the wind blows on the day of the wedding, it means that the mother-in-law is powerful. This probably comes from the saying of "crazy mother-in-law"; and as the saying goes, "a married girl throws water", and because it is the time for marriage, Rain, everyone understands it as "the water splashed very hard", so there is a saying that "the daughter-in-law is powerful"; also, if the sun is strong on the day of the wedding, there is a saying that "the father-in-law is evil", this may be the origin. From the saying of Father-in-law of the Sun.

Conclusion: Experts point out that the above discussions about whether raining on the wedding day is good or bad are actually people's psychological effects and have no scientific reason. It can be windy or rainy, and the moon can be cloudy or round. Yes, this is the law of nature and no one can change it. The personality of a daughter-in-law is related to nature and acquired experiences; the future prospects of the marriage depend on the joint management of the couple and have nothing to do with the weather on the wedding day. It is recommended that people treat it with a normal attitude and not let the weather affect their mood.

2. What to do if it rains when you get married

1. Have a good mood

Getting married is a happy event, but if it rains, most newlyweds will not Will be happy and irritable. Raining on the wedding day will definitely cause a lot of trouble, and it may also affect the entire wedding process.

Coping tips: At this time, the newlyweds must adjust their emotions, prepare themselves mentally in advance, keep themselves calm and maintain a good mood, and treat it as if it rains and God helps me add a beautiful and romantic atmosphere. At this time, there is nothing you can do except calm down. It is better not to get married. When welcoming the bride in the morning, the atmosphere should be a little more playful, so that everyone will be in a happier mood. Here I wish the newlyweds to join hands and go through the ups and downs of life.

2. Wedding cars and safety

Because rain will affect the view, and it is easy to slip, causing traffic jams or accidents. Therefore, be sure to remind relevant staff (such as makeup artists, photography and photography masters) to leave early and drive carefully and slowly. Especially when the groom welcomes his bride in the morning, he must leave early to avoid delaying the auspicious time.

Many newcomers like convertibles very much, and they also plan to use a convertible as their main car. Although the weather in November will blow people's faces off, they still hope to be able to use their favorite convertible. But if it rains, don’t even think about it. Although some people say that you can retract the top, but I think the convertible with the top retracted is really ugly? You should change your mind in advance and discuss the style of the wedding car. The groom should act handsome that day, not the driver. And considering that the weather in November is indeed relatively cold, I can just pass it with the convertible, and there is no need to worry about whether it will rain that day.

If you are there, you should also pay attention to the fact that the floats should be decorated with flowers. They will look beautiful even after being soaked by the rain. Don't use lace trim with dolls, it will look ugly if it gets wet in the rain...

3. You will get caught in the rain when you go out, and you can't hold an umbrella

I guess the most scary thing on rainy days is going out. You can't hold an umbrella on your wedding day, because it's said to be an unlucky homophone - umbrella = scattered. Although I personally don't think there is any merit in this, but if the elders of both families are very taboo, it is better not to use an umbrella.

I have seen someone say that you can use a blue umbrella, but it will be difficult to disperse. However, I personally feel that holding an umbrella is always inconvenient. For example, when the bride is being carried out, holding an umbrella is very troublesome.

At this time, regardless of whether anyone in the family is taboo about umbrellas, it is best not to use an umbrella, and not to use a blue umbrella. Everyone has their own opinions on this, so let it go. Bar. I was going to buy a bunch of disposable raincoats to prepare, and give one to everyone who helped during the day. Wearing this way is better both in terms of convenience of movement and the meaning of the speech.

4. Firecrackers get wet easily and are difficult to light.

Firecrackers are always set off when going out in the morning. Some families will use firecrackers to lay a line on the ground. The fireworks continued to be set off near the car, with the firecrackers going off and the newlyweds following behind. It was also a very festive scene. But if it rains that day, the firecrackers will get wet, and it is completely impossible to use firecrackers to open roads in this way. It can be said that the festive feeling is lacking in shortcomings.

Regarding this, there are two ways. One is to continue to use firecrackers, but do not release them in advance. Instead, just put them under the eaves of the corridor entrance of the community; the other way is to learn A few years ago, when the ban on setting off firecrackers was the most stringent, doing that was like stepping on a balloon. However, because it was rainy and the ground was dirty, I planned to tie balloons all the way from the corridor entrance to the door of the main car. There are many places to tie balloons in the alleys, and then I would use things to pop the balloons along the way. That’s it.

5. The face is prone to water and makeup

If it rains heavily on the wedding day and the rainwater gets on my face, I will most likely wipe it on casually. Water? Normally it’s nothing, but on a wedding day with such detailed makeup, it might be ruined. I believe this is something every bride can never bear. She must look beautiful on such an important day.

Tips to deal with this problem: To deal with this problem, you need to rely on the constant attention and reminders of the bridesmaids and makeup artists. Therefore, it is best to use waterproof cosmetics. Once you find water, use a tissue to absorb the water in time, and then quickly reapply your makeup. And you should also remember not to apply water or rub your eyes with your hands. I have such a bad habit.

6. During the day, the wedding dress is easy to get dirty, making you very sloppy.

No matter how you avoid the rain during the day, it is probably difficult to keep the floor clean. When attending a friend's wedding, even if two people followed her and grabbed the hem of the skirt, the skirt was still stained, and it was so dirty that it was all over the skirt in the end, and the bride's legs were muddy, making her whole body very dirty. Dirty, this is what the bride is most worried about.

When going out in the morning, prepare Chinese-style clothes that are more convenient for movement. In fact, when it rains and the temperature is low, keeping warm is even more important. Secondly, the hem of Chinese-style clothes is not that long, which makes it easier to move. You don’t have to worry about the hem of the skirt hanging on the ground and getting dirty. The natural image is more dignified.

7. Wedding dress

The bride and groom have to welcome and see off guests. If it rains, the temperature will definitely drop sharply. The bride can add a cute little shawl or coat outside the wedding dress. Cute and dignified, the most important thing is to keep warm. You have a busy day, and if you get sick, it will be over. We should also pay attention to the cleaning of wedding dresses. Most wedding dresses are rented from photo studios. If they get dirty in the rain, it will cost a lot of money to clean them. So the bride might as well be romantic and walk in the rain. There is a place for your husband to hold you, you are married, you are so sweet, and no one blames you.

Although we cannot control the weather, getting married is a happy event, but we must not let rain affect us. Just do your homework. I believe we will have a perfect wedding!

8. It is not possible to shoot on location

It can be said that this is basically a must-have item on the wedding day. Not only the newcomers themselves, but also the friends who help are looking forward to the outdoor shooting. If it rains on the wedding day, then this location will most likely not be available. Facing a little rain may be better, but if it rains heavily, you really have to give up the much-anticipated location. . It can be said that it will become a regret.

Coping tips: Although it is not absolutely necessary for outdoor shooting, I still hope to be able to shoot a little bit. Therefore, even if it rains heavily, we can still choose a place that can protect us from the rain. For example, the pavilions and pavilions of the Forbidden City of the Ming Dynasty, the long corridors in nearby parks, etc. can all be photographed. There is also a subway station. It's a very good location for outdoor shooting. If it's worst, you can go to a hotel and take some photos in the hotel room.

If you insist on shooting on location, you might also be able to create a different feel. But after taking the photo, be sure to change into clean clothes and drink a cup of ginger soup to prevent colds. Couples who don't insist on outdoor shooting can also take this opportunity to have a good rest and prepare for the dinner party in a better spirit.

9. The problem of late guests

It can be said that guests being late at wedding banquets is actually a very common problem, but it is usually only individual people who are late. But if it rains, a lot of people will be late. This will not only extend the time for us to welcome guests, but also the guests who come first will probably have to wait for a long time.

You can advance the time on the invitation slightly so that everyone can come earlier. If it really rains that day, you can also say hello to relatives and friends from both families when you welcome the bride in the morning and during lunch. It would be nice if everyone went to the hotel a little earlier in the evening.

10. Prepare umbrellas and plastic bags

The newlyweds will be picked up and dropped off by car. Raining will basically have no impact, but if you get off the car and get home or go to the hotel, you must use an umbrella to cover it. Since it's raining, let's make it more romantic. For weddings, prepare special umbrellas, like the transparent ones, which are both romantic and windproof. The umbrella should be big enough to open and protect the bride's dress and shoes. The color should not be too confusing, especially not a black umbrella.

3. Precautions for newlyweds on their wedding day

1. Requirements for flowers

For couples getting married in May, June, July, September and October, Due to the hot weather, floats, bouquets, and corsages usually tied up at noon will wither within a few hours. Therefore, when you get married in hot weather, you must consider this issue when choosing flower types. Tulips are the best choice. Not suitable. In addition, ask family members to prepare empty bottles with a few holes in the caps, or a special watering can to sprinkle water on the shower regularly. In addition, the groom's corsage must be backed up. It is often found that due to the long time of holding the bride, the groom's corsage is in the shape of 3 o'clock at the beginning of the ceremony, which greatly affects the effect.

In addition, there is the problem of scattering petals. Almost everything prepared by the wedding company is the garbage prepared to be thrown away by the flower shop, which is not very auspicious! So it is better to get a handful of roses and tear them apart before the wedding ceremony. The quality and quantity are guaranteed, and there are flowers as backup. If anything is missing, it can be replenished in time. Be more prepared and use flower petals to cover one or two hearts on the wedding bed. It will look much better than the bed full of bubbles!

2. Bridal makeup and wedding car

The schedule on the wedding day was tight and there was no room for any delay. However, there are two areas where problems tend to arise, namely the makeup and floats used during wedding photography, especially on the wedding day. Often, because there are so many people, waiting for your turn will be much later than originally expected, which ultimately affects all subsequent processes. Therefore, you must make two preparations in advance. First, communicate well with the original half-time makeup artist. It is best to reserve time for you before 12 o'clock. If there is a problem in the wedding photo studio, the half-time makeup artist will be transferred to the full-time makeup artist. Second, most wedding companies do not provide floats. In fact, they subcontract to some small flower shops, which is more likely to cause the previous problems. Therefore, it is necessary to make it clear with the wedding company that the wedding car must have been tied up by the time the wedding car is picked up. If not, the latest time for completing the tie-up of the floats must be clearly stated in the contract, as well as the liability for breach of contract if it is exceeded. If you are making your own floats, it is recommended to prepare a little more advance time to avoid accidents, especially when the days are particularly good.

3. Storage of items on the day

Storage of items is very important, but many couples forget this detail. The most terrible thing is that before the wedding begins, the ring cannot be found. You can only ask others to borrow it, which makes the bride keep drooping her face and the atmosphere is gone.

In fact, I brought all the things with me because they were put together with other things, so it gets mixed up when there are too many things. You also need to prepare your own champagne and the least noticeable prop? Matches. Therefore, it is recommended that newlyweds must have a dedicated person responsible for the ring and stay close to them. Prepare a list of items in advance, and ask relatives and friends who are responsible for them to check them again after arriving at the hotel, and indicate their locations to avoid unnecessary mistakes.

In addition, the most important thing is the red envelopes. If you miss a few, you will be in a bad mood, especially when there are many people and several pairs are held at the same time. But it is actually quite difficult to keep it safe, because the bride, groomsmen, bridesmaids, and parents of both parties will be present during the ceremony, so the best custodian is a trusted relative who should keep an eye on it at all times. If the hotel room provides a safe (it is recommended to request this in advance when arranging the hotel room), lock it as soon as you change your first set of clothes. If you don't provide it, then you will have to watch and die. It is recommended not to spend the night in a hotel with red envelopes, but to ask your parents to take them back carefully in advance.

4. About diet

(1) Diet of the bride and groom

I have asked many newlyweds that the first feeling after the bridal chamber is that they are so tired. I was so hungry in bed (of course the happiest thing was after taking a shower and the two of them counting red envelopes in bed), but the careless parents always prepared wedding cakes for the newlyweds. Think about it, when you are tired, thirsty and even drunk Who can eat such sticky and sweet things when you are so high? So based on the opinions of many newcomers, the best thing at that time was instant noodles. Of course, you could also ask your parents to prepare some pastries for the banquet, which were much better than cakes. But remember to prepare mineral water and other drinks for the newlyweds. If you are hungry, don’t forget to be thirsty!

(2) The best time to eat before the wedding

The bride and the bridesmaids are the hungriest people on the wedding day. From the time they put on their makeup to the wedding ceremony, they basically can't eat or even drink much water. Therefore, it is recommended that newlyweds prepare some pastries and drinks they like (not too sticky) in advance and put them on the wedding car when they leave the wedding room. The only time of the day when you can eat is on the way to the hotel after the location shooting. It basically does not affect the shooting and worry about makeup. Let the bridegroom, bride, groomsmen, and bridesmaids fill their bellies by then!

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5. Precautions when setting off firecrackers

Weddings should be more creative, so it is recommended that couples make some improvements in some traditional ceremonies to enhance the atmosphere of the wedding. For example, when setting off firecrackers, why not make two or four strings (one long string is enough) of small firecrackers and large firecrackers into one or two heart shapes? When setting off, start from the apex of the heart and both sides of the heart at the same time. If it is set off, the effect will be much better.

1. Physical strength

On the day of the wedding, the couple spends as little as five or six hours, and as much as ten hours, from dressing up to entertaining guests. During this long day, the newlyweds spend most of their time walking around and chatting in a spirited manner. This is a test for the physical strength of the two people. Therefore, you should especially be kind to yourself and never give up any opportunity to sit down or be quiet. Even in the interval between toasts, you can hide in the dressing room, drink a glass of water, and spend 10 minutes to rest and recuperate before coming out.

2. Attitude towards guests

If you suddenly feel that your mind is completely blank when you enter the wedding venue, it is not a big deal. It doesn't matter if you forget everything else, just remember one thing and always put a smile on your face. Of course, on such a big day, the newlyweds usually naturally show their joy. However, some newcomers will subconsciously show a dull expression or even a worried look when they are nervous. If you think you are usually a person who is good at putting a smile on your face, then you must work hard on your wedding day. Keep smiling to reassure your lover, reassure your parents, and make your guests happy. Slowly, you will forget about your nervousness and start to truly enjoy this beautiful moment.

3. Communicate with elders

Although most of the other matters in the wedding are borne by others, there is one thing that the couple must do themselves, and that is to fully express their feelings at the wedding. Show respect for your elders. During the toasting process, do not rush past the tables where grandparents and other elderly people are sitting.

Slow down, take a few minutes, and connect with them. Quickly greet them as they enter. When they leave early, interrupt your toasting activity and send them out of the banquet hall in person. The wedding occasion is a reflection of family traditions and values, and it is the obligation of the younger generation to respect their elders.

4. Master the toasting time

When toasting with other guests, pay attention to the allocation of time and control of the rhythm. Don't rush by in a perfunctory manner, and don't make too many stops. Show due courtesy to the guests at each table and wait until the end of the order. This is especially important at a wedding with a large number of tables. Otherwise, by the time you arrive at the last table, many guests may have already finished their meal and left.

6. With your lover

(1) Think about each other

Who is the most important person to you at the wedding? Of course it is your partner and spouse. In the noisy, busy and overwhelming situation, don’t just focus on greeting others and ignore the person around you. After all, this wedding belongs to you. Always remind yourself to hold the other person's hand and see how he or she is doing. Show your love and consideration for each other to the fullest on this day. Don't neglect to smile at your partner just because you're tired, compliment them on their performance that day, and care about whether they're tired. You two have worked hard on your wedding day. Let the warm love between you bring a perfect ending to this day.

(2) Treasure memories

On this day, give full play to each of your senses and examine every process and moment. Know that after this day of hustle and bustle, you will recall it for countless days to come. In order to treasure every detail of this day, let a part of yourself free from the coldness and hospitality, and quietly savor everything that surrounds you.