Excuse me, what is the custom of marriage in Luoyang, Henan Province?

The engagement should be given to the families of the engaged parties for dinner.

One month before the wedding, the man should bring enough wallet to buy clothes and jewelry for the woman and buy several sets of clothes to wear at the wedding.

A few days before the wedding, the two families discussed the details of the wedding.

The sooner the groom picks up the bride on the morning of the wedding day, the more blessed he will be.

If the bride has a "closed" brother or nephew, the man's family should prepare enough red envelopes for the closed party, and the bride will not "get off the bus" unless the door is opened.

The "doorman" also holds the keys to the cabinets and boxes that the bride wants to marry him, a bunch of keys and a red envelope.

When the bride enters the groom's home, she will worship the heaven and the earth. After the ceremony, the master of ceremonies will preside over the bride's "changing her mouth", that is, calling "mom and dad", and the groom's parents will pay the "changing her mouth fee".

Then everyone went into the bridal chamber to prevent the bride from changing clothes. After that, the groom's sister or niece brings a washbasin of water to the bride, who can wash her hands and then give her a red envelope.

Then everyone played around, basically pulling the groom to paint the bridesmaids and groomsmen of the bride and groom black. These people should be smart and dodge, or they will get on their clothes, which is very distressing.

Then have dinner and have a big meal

There are eight hot dishes and eight cold dish soups.

Eight eight four seems to have lost four soups or cold dishes.

Eight bowls, four thinnest seats, eight hot dishes and four cold dishes.

On the third day from the wedding day, the son-in-law will go back to her mother's house and set the table for a treat.

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That's about it. There are still great differences between different regions.

Now everyone invites guests to dinner in restaurants, and there is not so much pressure. With enough money, everything can be solved.