What do you think of the hidden secrets in Liu Qiangdong’s case?

The prosecutor decided not to prosecute Dongdong because there was insufficient evidence to convince the jury to convict him. The prosecutor also said that in order to avoid "secondary harm" to the woman, many details will not be released. But it was confirmed that Dongdong had sex with the woman. In American law, evidence means facts. Dongdong has damaged the image of himself and JD.com, and deeply hurt his wife and family. This also reminds those successful people to be careful in their words and deeds when going abroad, especially to control their lower body. To be honest, Liu's moral standards are not enough to keep him clean

The sexual relationship must have really happened. The dispute lies in whether it is more of a push or a compromise. People themselves have said that they are just sorry for the family, the market value has also been lost, and the women have not benefited. If you ask me what I think, I am also very helpless.

I think he would rather spend several times the money to hire a lawyer to litigate, and lose billions in stock market value, than reconcile with the woman. It is divided into at least three stages:

1. In the first stage, when the two of them were in the room, the girl asked for money. The man felt that the matter would not be a big deal, and it was just an ordinary drunken incident. You know, he went to the United States with his wife and mother-in-law, and he still dared to stay up all night. It is conceivable that he did not realize the seriousness of the matter at first.

2. In the second stage, after the photo of his suspect was exposed one day later, he felt that this was not the case and he would never pay to give a girl an advantage. This has something to do with his personal character. He became famous at a young age, has monopoly power in the company, is extremely confident, and has a Chinese-style "local hero" feeling (he has done a lot for his hometown of Suqian, and he has done a lot for JD.com employees. Few benefits, including an open letter stating that employees are dedicated young people).

3. In the third stage, things continue to ferment and billions of dollars evaporate from the stock market. After thinking about this stage again and again, I think Brother Dong must regret why he did not spend money to eliminate the disaster in the first place, but in this If the time comes and he spends money to withdraw the lawsuit from the woman, it will be a self-inflicted crime. He can only bite the bullet and move forward. If this happened to ordinary people, it would be a trivial matter and no one would care about it

Why would everyone not forgive it once it happened to a celebrity? I think it's still your own problem. To put it bluntly, you usually take celebrities too seriously, thinking that they should be superior to ordinary people in every aspect, and invisibly you voluntarily become Japanese. In fact, in terms of human nature, there is really no substantial difference between celebrities and other ordinary people. If you are more knowledgeable, your mind will be much calmer. The dust of the incident has settled and its impact is lasting and far-reaching

Basic facts: Liu Qiangdong made a mistake: He made the mistake that a successful man is most likely to make and the one that should not be made.

Possibly being trapped: No matter what the background of this event is, and whether active or passive, the trap is there, but you can choose whether to fall into the trap or not, and you can choose how to untie the trap.

The cost is heavy: image damage, career setback, family injury.

Basic lesson: Celebrities must have more self-esteem, be cautious in their words and deeds, and be strict in self-discipline. Everyone should be careful. There is no pie in the sky, but there are always traps on the ground. The rich should cherish their blessings. When starting a business, they can brave the wind and rain and move forward bravely. To enjoy themselves, they must exercise self-restraint and propriety and look forward and backward.