Gavin Gao was acquitted of "sexual assault". Should Dong Xuan forgive him?

We also write gossip, but it's not just gossip. The "butterfly effect" in the entertainment circle, marriage and even the whole life can be seen in the heated Gavin Gao incident.

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72 1 A few days after being accused of sexual assault in Gavin Gao, the result was finally announced.

After seven trials, the jury finally found Gavin Gao and Jing Wong "not guilty".

These boots, which have been on the entertainment topic list for nearly two years, finally landed. But obviously, the controversy about Gavin Gao's acting career and the direction of marriage and family will still boil for a while.

When the verdict was announced, Gavin Gao put his hands together on his chest, and Jing Wang burst into tears. The two men bowed deeply to the jury, and their excitement was beyond words.

It dates back to March 29, 20 18. According to foreign media reports, Gavin Gao was arrested in Sydney for allegedly sexually assaulting a woman, and another man, Jing Wong, was also involved.

According to foreign media reports, Zhang, a woman accused of sexual assault, is a local Chinese in Sydney, married and has children, and is the co-producer of the local new CP drama "Anaya's Love".

For a time, public opinion was in vain. Because of the same name, Jing Wong, the director of the Hong Kong film, also lay his gun innocently and was once scolded as a sieve on the Internet.

For Gavin Gao, this once enviable star family is facing a devastating test.

Seemingly weak, Dong Xuan, as a betrayed and injured person, was extremely brave after the incident and rushed to Australia with her daughter and mother-in-law.

As if overnight, Dong Xuan became old. She closed her lips and faced the reporter's camera. She changed from talking and laughing to silence and vigilance, with obvious dark circles under her eyes and no previous look in her eyes.

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How tragic is the cost of litigation? It can be seen from what happened within four months after Gavin Gao was arrested:

3 million Australian dollars (about RMB 6.5438+0.465 million) bail;

Report to the police station twice a day and give your passport, daughter's passport and mother's passport to the police station;

Don't go near the airport (for fear of running away);

No contact with the victim (fear of retaliation);

Wear electronic monitoring equipment to monitor daily trips (at your own expense);

Spend about 400,000 RMB to rent a year-round apartment in the Chinese area of Sydney;

The couple's business operations are completely interrupted and they lose tens of millions every year.

Until the retrial of the case in February 65438+, Gavin Gao's bail application was revised again and was still restricted. He reports to the police station every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. ...

These are just visible to the naked eye, and there are more cruel mental injuries. Neighbors refused to live with what everyone called "sexual assault", and the family was forced to change houses before settling down.

With the continuous fermentation of the lawsuit, the details with Zhang * * * in the hotel were gradually stripped off, and layers surfaced:

That woman is in her physiological period. She was kneeling as the man KJ, and Gavin Gao took the initiative to kiss her. ...

It is hard to imagine that the exposure of her husband's extreme privacy, and the ensuing abuse and humiliation, are a great embarrassment and repeated harm to Dong Xuan and his lovely daughter's dimple.

Dimple was only two years old at that time, and it was the age of coquetry in her parents' arms every day, but she had to face these incomprehensible ugly existence in the adult world.

The long suffering in the middle will not be detailed.

On March 16 this year, the case finally ended its closing arguments and entered the jury sentencing stage.

The judge pointed out before: since all the charges occurred in the hotel room, the basis of all the charges in the hotel room is that the woman's testimony is credible.

However, in the trial records of many times before and after, the testimony of the woman Zhang was inconsistent and vague, and she answered many times with "I don't know, I don't remember".

▲ The testimony of the woman Zhang disclosed by the media.

Most importantly, several witnesses witnessed: He and Zhang kissed each other for 2 minutes while singing at the party that night, and their expressions were natural, as evidenced by KTV surveillance video. At the gate of the hotel where he stayed, other colleagues asked Zhang if she wanted to go home together, but she refused and was still reluctant to go.

All these details directly decided that in the closing statement, lawyer Gavin Gao pointed out that the woman's testimony could not "go beyond reasonable doubt".

Today, Gavin Gao was finally acquitted.

However, the legal level and the character level are different. It is an indisputable fact that he cheated in his marriage with Dong Xuan.

At the end of 20 18, after the storm, Dong Xuan stood in front of the public for the first time and attended a speech by Starlight Glimmer.

She cut off her long hair for many years and wore a white shirt and khaki skirt, which was not as sweet and charming as before, but more simple and capable.

As soon as she opened her mouth, she confessed, "I have never been so nervous."

"Do you know what forgiveness is?" Under the blue beam, Dong Xuan stood on the stage with a wry smile. "I don't care anyway. All I know is that I am still the stubborn girl who trains alone in the training room. I can't be distracted or vent. I can only use all my strength to solve the immediate problem ... Now I am the only one at home who can do things. "

Yes, when the whole family was swallowed up by the swamp, she really didn't have the time and strength to argue with love rat.

The elderly are helpless, the children are young, their careers are stagnant, and they are riddled with lawsuits. As the hostess of a family, she is like the helmsman of a ship in the tsunami. The urgent task is to prevent the ship from sinking.

The people she saved at all costs and fame were not her lover, but her daughter's father, her parents' son-in-law, her in-laws' son and her partner.

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Before Gavin Gao was involved in the lawsuit, the two had been famous model couples in the circle, and Dong Xuan had been playing the role of "a good wife and a good mother" in this nearly eight-year marriage.

However, after the violent shock, Dong Xuan's self-repair ability is admirable: he runs his own parent-child restaurant, performs a play and produces a new play, which fills the workload.

▲ Parent-child restaurant operated by Dong Xuan? Source: Weibo: @ pusan never leaves the party.

Their marital status has never escaped the complicated eyes of the public.

Last summer, some media reported that Dong Xuan had divorced Gavin Gao by video and telephone.

The people who eat melons are divided into two groups: one group thinks that she is completely disappointed and exhausted; The other is that it is a fake divorce, which is the best way to protect your property.

▲ Screenshots of media reports at that time.

In any case, Dong Xuan showed the greatest endurance in this marriage. Even if the "cloud divorce" is true, it is decided after exhausting energy to spend the most difficult time with Gavin Gao.

On March 16, just before the verdict of Gavin Gao case, Dong Xuan was just promoting the new film. She wrote in Weibo: "Don't please others, don't wronged yourself".

This 10 is interpreted by many netizens as a double meaning, a propaganda work and an allusion to marriage. But the reason, Dong Xuan did not explain anything.

Gavin Gao is free, and everything is settled?

How is that possible?

From the moment he walked out of the court, he embarked on another equally difficult road.

At home, there is another lawsuit waiting for Gavin Gao. Because the story of Ba Qing starring him was implicated in the scandal, the broadcast became far away, causing huge losses. 2065438+On April 4, 2009, Tang De Film and Television, the former partner, finally became overwhelmed and sued Beijing Yi Xuan Cultural Organization Co., Ltd. to freeze its assets of more than 60 million yuan.

In this regard, Gavin Gao rarely sent Weibo to emphasize that Tang De only sued himself and had nothing to do with his wife Dong Xuan. Then there was the "cloud divorce" mentioned above, and netizens speculated that it was to protect property and divorce.

It's not just Dong Xuan that is affected by the Gavin Gao storm. The butterfly effect caused by the incident has made too many people miserable.

For example, just after the incident, the shares of Tang De Film and Television evaporated by 850 million yuan overnight, and the daily limit was once lowered.

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The terrible consequences of trembling!

In China, Gavin Gao once played an important role in many hit dramas. Handsome appearance, good acting skills and loving star couples made a splash for him.

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▲ In The Legend of Mi Yue, Wang Yiqu, who loves her boyfriend deeply, is bursting with strength, alas. ...

But now, everything is back to zero. Everyone can see how difficult it is for negative artists to come back.

If two years ago, Gavin Gao and Jing Wong were in a hotel room, facing a sexy woman who was neither a wife nor a real girlfriend, they could calm down for a few seconds and imagine the consequences of the domino-like mass collapse disaster, and they would never be interested in sex again anyway.

How tragic will men pay for a one-night stand?

As early as 1987, the famous director adrian lyne produced an allegorical Fatal Temptation, which can be called a textbook-level case of "derailed men encountering nightmares".

Tom Galloge, a married lawyer, has a harmonious family and a successful career, and is well-known in the circle. But he couldn't resist the temptation and accidentally made a mistake that men all over the world would make. He spent the Spring Festival with Alex, a blonde he met at a reception in the publishing industry.

Unexpectedly, after a one-night stand, the blonde was pregnant, and he was so entangled. The nightmare began, and the following series of experiences were like thrillers:

Gallog failed to appease his lover, so he had to confess to his wife for forgiveness, and quickly moved with his wife and daughter, but he still couldn't get rid of the ghostly threats and surveillance. My daughter's pet rabbit was cooking in the kitchen pot, and the woman hiding in the bathroom rushed up with a sharp knife while her wife was taking a bath. ...

At the end of the movie, there was a gunshot and no winner.

Gavin Gao paid a terrible price, and too many innocent people were involved. I hope more men will remember this fable.

Sober, self-disciplined, for love, but not just for love.

Really don't think it's just for fun-it may take a lifetime to repay yourself.

The news comes from Beijing News, Sina Entertainment and Phoenix Entertainment.