16 Things a Married Man Should Do as a Husband

16 things your husband should do

1. Book a hotel.

The newlyweds can first determine the type of wedding banquet to be held and the approximate number of tables. After the decision is made, the groom can choose a suitable hotel according to his needs. After deciding on a few, he will take his wife to see the venue, check and sign the contract, and then negotiate with the hotel about the cost of electrical equipment, etc.

2. Wedding car arrangements.

There are currently two situations for wedding cars: renting a car or asking relatives and friends for help. When renting a car, you can just ask the wedding company for recommendation. Ask relatives and friends for help. Remember to give thank you gifts or red envelopes to friends who help.

3. Determine the best man.

Of course the groom will arrange this himself! It is best to find friends who are socially awkward and can have fun and liven up the atmosphere.

4. Select and purchase groomsmen clothing.

The bride has to buy too many things for her wedding, so she should decide on her brother’s clothes by herself. Ask her good brother about his height and weight. Open the shopping software, search for "groomsmen outfit", select a store, ask the customer service what size it should be, and add it to the shopping cart to purchase.

5. Buy clothes for your parents.

This is very important. Go shopping for clothes and settle the bill at the same time. My parents have worried a lot about themselves, and they need to give back at this time.

6. The groom’s clothing selection.

Generally speaking, when the bride orders her wedding dress, the groom’s suit will also be ordered together. However, the groom can buy some small items such as ties, bow ties, spare shirts, suits and socks by himself.

7. Buy diamond rings and three pieces of gold.

Generally speaking, the groom’s family pays for the three gold pieces + diamond ring + matching ring. What the groom has to do is to communicate with his parents when to take his wife to buy three pieces of gold and a diamond ring. Or the parents directly give the groom money to buy it, and don’t let the daughter-in-law feel that the bride has to come for it at any time!

8. Buy wedding cigarettes and wedding wine.

Generally, the newlyweds choose wedding candies together, and the groom can focus on choosing cigarettes and wine.

9. Pack/take wedding candies.

Generally, merchants selling wedding candies now have also upgraded their services and will help the newlyweds pack the wedding candies. The newlyweds can just inform the merchant in advance, and the groom will drive to pick it up by himself. If you buy them online, the groom can install them at home first and take them over before the wedding banquet.

10. Arrange the wedding route.

Generally, the route is from the bride’s house to the groom’s house, or from the groom’s house to the hotel, and during the free time, you can go out to take pictures on location. The groom can arrange this route with his friends, and after confirming the route, test the conditions of the road section.

11. Make arrangements for the personnel on the wedding day.

Person picking up relatives: Inform the person picking up relatives about the time of picking up relatives and the order of taking the car.

Salute gunners: when and where to fire the fireworks.

The hotel welcomes check-in personnel: when they arrive, check-in begins.

Hotel item coordinator: handles the delivery of drinks, beverages and candies to merchants. Notify hotel staff to come down and move at the hotel time.

The person who keeps the red envelopes (can be given to the best man): Keep the red envelopes when receiving the bride and the gift red envelopes received by the groom from friends. Reasonably arrange various routes and travel time.

12. Prepare your wedding vows.

Prepare your wedding vows in advance so that you can be calm and relaxed at the wedding venue. Otherwise, it will be difficult to impress everyone present without saying "I love you".

13. Production of electronic invitations.

Many girls can make this item themselves. In fact, they can arrange it for their groom. Because most of the electronic invitations are sent to their friends, it is okay. If you are not satisfied, you can modify it later.

14. Image management.

The groom should arrange for his hair to be cut before the wedding and pay attention to his diet before the wedding. Don't get acne and don't eat too much. After all, a good image will make the wedding more special.

15. Pack red envelopes.

Boys should prepare money accordingly according to the situation of picking up and sending off a bride.

16. The groom’s wedding room decoration.

Ask your good brothers or relatives and friends to help decorate it together.