Do the parents of the man have to attend the engagement party?

The man's parents attended the engagement party.

It is very important that both the parents of the engaged man should answer the door. If the woman invites the man to her home, and only the man is present, it will be very bad. The woman will probably think that it is the man's neglect of the woman and must not agree. Unless the man and the woman are far away, it is really inconvenient for the man's parents to go, and the woman's parents can understand that they don't have to go. Moreover, when the man and his family go to the woman's house, they need to prepare some bride price, which has always been a tradition in China.

The following is a relatively complete engagement ceremony process:

1, ancestor worship. Before the man leaves for the woman's home, he needs to hold an ancestor worship ceremony in his own home. Bless your marriage happiness through ancestor worship;

2. The man set out. The number of motorcades for the man to go to the woman's house should be even, and the elders of the man's house should be present to preside over the overall situation in the betrothal team;

3. that's just. When the man is about to arrive at the woman's house, both men and women should set off firecrackers to show their celebration and welcome. When the man enters the house, he must wash his hands and submit a bride price to the bride's father and brother.

4. Serve sweet tea. Accompanied by the matchmaker, the bride sent sweet tea to the relatives and friends who came to the man's house to express her gratitude.

5. Press tea. When the man's relatives and friends have finished drinking sweet tea, put the red envelope and the finished teacup on the saucer and wait for the bride to take it away;

Step on the stool. The bride is supported by a blessed woman and stands on the stool to win more joy for herself;

7. Wear a ring. The groom takes out the engagement ring and puts it on the middle finger of the bride's left hand, indicating that their marriage is a foregone conclusion.

8. Burn the gun. When the man puts the engagement ring on the woman's hand, the main process of engagement has been completed, and firecrackers should be set off to celebrate at this time;

9. Engagement wedding banquet. The woman's family should prepare an engagement wedding banquet and entertain relatives and friends who come to the banquet.

To sum up, whether the parents of the woman and the man should attend the banquet can be done according to local customs. Generally, the parents of the woman's wedding banquet will not appear, nor will the relatives and friends of the man, but the groom must appear. In other places, it will follow local customs. In some places, the woman has no parents, but the man's parents will attend and speak at the wedding banquet. In some places, the man's parents must go.

Legal basis:

Article 1049 of the Civil Code of People's Republic of China (PRC)

Both men and women who want to get married should apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Those who meet the requirements of this law shall be registered and issued a marriage certificate. The marriage relationship is established when the marriage registration is completed. Those who have not registered for marriage shall re-register.

Article 1050

After registered marriage, according to the agreement between men and women, the woman can become a member of the man's family, and the man can become a member of the woman's family.