Traditional Culture Encyclopedia - Hotel accommodation - Someone said, "Don't travel with your relatives, they will become enemies." What do you think of this?
Someone said, "Don't travel with your relatives, they will become enemies." What do you think of this?
There's another real thing. 19 15 We went to Hainan with a group of friends from other places. He took his wife with him. This group of friends are afraid of spending money when they enter the scenic spot. Often drill barbed wire into the scenic spot and leave the daughter-in-law in the car. His daughter-in-law is getting angrier and angrier. Say nothing and go home. They returned the same day. Later, I don't know how the couple got well again and asked to continue to follow the team. We also agree that he should stay in the team. After going to Hainan, I will continue to drive to Laos and Thailand. He will follow me anyway. As a result, there was trouble all the way. Everywhere he goes in Thailand, he buys a lot of clothes for himself. Not for my wife. As a result, my wife was angry again. Began a hunger strike and asked to go home. My wife and I have been persuading them to work for them. On the fourth day, I finally began to eat. This is how the couple stumbled all the way. Finally returned to China. He went straight home. Later, the couple never traveled together again.
So, whether it's relatives or lovers on the road. Be tolerant. There are many problems and things on the way by car, and many things need mutual understanding and tolerance. Only in this way can we go on and have a good time.
You'd better make three rules before you leave. Tourism routes, scenic spots, consumption, and how to deal with problems in the future should be made clear. If you can't get a piece, don't go at all.
If you travel with relatives. Make it clear in advance, preferably AA system. There is a financial controller. When we get back, we'll split it equally. Walking like this, everyone's spirit is not burdened.
I am 70 years old and have traveled to more than 30 countries by car. You can write privately if you have problems driving. Thank you for your attention.
Damn, this seems to be about me. If you want to travel to Jiuzhaigou in spring, you can't do without friends. It's boring to join this group alone. Finally, I called my cousin and asked her if she would go. She wants to go too. Finally, the two of us went, and we had a little altitude sickness. It was already afternoon when we went to climb the mountain. She walked slowly and even had a rest. I was in a hurry to get up, but I was too embarrassed to wait for her. Finally, I can't wait to get to the colorful pool, because the sun is about to set and the tour guide also stipulates that there is time. I was slow, but I didn't catch up. When I arrived at the color pool, the sun just reached one side and I couldn't take a good photo. It will be dark soon, so I hurried back. She waited for me on the road, and then she still couldn't walk down the hill together. The tour guide keeps calling about us. Everyone else got on the bus, and I was more worried. After getting on the bus, a woman talked to us badly. I had a quarrel with her, and then returned to Chengdu from Jiuzhaigou, and we were free for a day. Two people have done the whole strategy together, and we don't know anything. I say we go with someone else, so we don't have to cut our own throat. Who knew that my cousin didn't want to, and as a result, some famous ones were released. I didn't go to several places, but the road was not pleasant. It's more interesting to get back on the train. Mine is the lower berth and hers is the upper berth. People just lie still. I stayed at the bedside for two hours. It's time for bed. I said go to sleep, she said go to sleep, and no one moved. I'm speechless. Whenever she says, I don't want to sleep in the upper bunk, but I can't go. I'm not embarrassed either. I said nothing to her this morning. I think her work is ridiculous. She was very happy when she traveled, but she was not happy when she got it. I advise you to find a good place to play while traveling, or you might as well rest at home.
Never travel with your relatives, it doesn't matter if you don't work hard, or your relatives will become strangers when you come back. I like traveling. I feel lonely and want to take a date out. This kind of companionship can only be found among relatives and friends. Now let's talk about traveling together.
Ten years ago, I always wanted to travel to Guilin, and finally I found a relative who wanted to travel to Guilin, so we went to Guilin for a holiday together. We are free and have not joined the League. We discussed the tourist attractions and routes in advance, and I wrote them on paper. The next night in Yangshuo, I watched the party of "Impression Third Sister" as planned. When buying a ticket, ask if the fare is 300 yuan. He said it was boring to watch, and I couldn't watch it without watching it. He didn't look when we came out together. After three days, that is, the last night I left Yangshuo, I still regretted despising the Party and advised him to read it. He insisted on not watching, so I had to watch it alone. I returned to Guilin the next day and went to Longji Terrace as planned. He said there was nothing to see in the countryside, so he had to go to Longjitai alone. He transferred to Qixing Park in Guilin for free, thus ending our companion trip. He returned to Beijing and I went to Hainan. We haven't been in touch since then.
A few years ago, a family of eight relatives went out for a week. They traveled completely as planned, and all accommodation and transportation were arranged by the travel agency. They had a good time. After they came back, they had differences on accommodation. We used to get together at his house every two years, and every time we got together, the home didn't feel very warm. Young people sleep on the floor of the living room. They have been used to it for so many years that they think it will be the same when they come back from this trip.
When we came back from the tour, the host arranged for us to stay in a hotel, saying that it was inconvenient for many family members, so we paid for the hotel and invited everyone to dinner the next day. We originally planned to stay here for two days, and we went home after eating early the next day. I paid the bill and we paid for the hotel ourselves. Considering that the host is a distribution center, we still owe the host 1 0,000 yuan in travel expenses, so the family trip ended in discord.
Women love gossip, and the more they talk about it, the more outrageous it is, the less they feel. Although a lot of positive work has been done in the middle, I also feel left out. When we parted, I smiled and said, Let's get together again next year. I vaguely feel that this is the last time. It's been seven years since this happened. In these seven years, not only have we never traveled together, but several people have not seen each other for seven years. Some people may not even pass a phone call in these seven years, which is the result of relatives' business trips.
These two trips broke my idea of traveling with my partner, and since then I have embarked on a journey alone. In the past three years, I have traveled about 30,000 kilometers by train and traveled more than half of China, and I can go wherever I want. It's really good to travel alone.
Finally, I remind you never to travel with relatives. When you come back, your relatives are doomed.
I don't agree with you. What's wrong with traveling together as a family? My family started traveling in the past five years. A dozen people in the whole family played together, sometimes by car, sometimes in groups, and had a good time. In July the year before last, seven people from my family went on a self-help tour in Xinmatai. Everyone happily went to Reyang Island in Malaysia and kissed the sea for three days. The youngest 5-year-old nephew brings a lot of happiness to the whole family! Play is fun, but the travel expenses are all paid by young people. The old people in the whole family just play everything, eat and live, the young people line up, hit the plane and surf in the sea several times. Eating and playing together as a family makes us feel that 70-year-old people are young again in an instant. In the play, the family cares and loves each other, which is happier than traveling with a group. We still have to pay the bill after each performance. AA system is our natural rule, and brothers all know how to settle accounts.
At the beginning of this year, the wives of three friends of my husband and I joined a tour group to Russia. The four of us started the journey happily, and the tour guide's itinerary and shopping were indispensable. Several of us bought cosmetics. Mrs. Lu is the richest among us. Her husband often tells friends that there are hundreds of millions at the age of 65, and the money can't be spent. What should I do? I often talk about it. Mrs. Lu bought more cosmetics than we did, so she couldn't get past the cashier. The secondary card she took was restricted by her husband. Embarrassed and angry. Finally, Mrs. Chen paid. This journey began when I was unhappy, and Lu Tai kept exposing my husband's faults and hatred. I have long wanted a divorce. The three of us can only persuade and comfort. The tour guide led a group of people to the exhibition hall selling platinum. Mrs. Chen and her sister bought it eagerly, which stimulated Mrs. Lu to climb the counter and let the shopping guide take a look at everything from 200,000 to 300,000. We had to stay at a respectful distance, not afraid to lend her money to buy it, for fear that her husband would have a problem with us. As long as it is a shopping road, try it with your eyes open. I advised her that there are many opportunities to buy it, and I will buy it later. But she hates me and keeps talking to me. Take it out on me.
Never travel with relatives. What a nightmare. I went on a trip with my husband, sister and her daughter, and I don't want to see these two wonderful flowers again when I come back! My husband helped his sister decorate for 9 months. His sister gave us money and we didn't want it. His sister said that she invited our family to travel. I told my husband that we don't need to go out together and bear it separately. What should we thank for helping each other? So I booked all the trips and hotels online and paid for them. As a result, when I first arrived in Hong Kong, I found that his sister and children knew nothing, including how to take the subway, including how to buy tickets ... His sister and children were both 26 years old, and I kindly told her that I came out to learn these life skills. Hearing this, his sister proudly said, we invite you to travel because we don't want to take care of anything, and we don't want to take care of anything. Next, his sister started various jobs. I checked the snacks and restaurants I wanted to eat, and she was picky as if I were a waiter. Ask her if she will go. If she doesn't go, ask someone else. They said she was fine and wanted to go again. It's a pity to eat it. When you eat, you say you are not hungry. When you finished eating, she said she wanted to eat, and everyone waited together ... She said that when she left Hong Kong for five days, she said she didn't buy anything, so she had to stay for two days temporarily. The hotel hasn't decided how much it will cost. The most disgusting thing is eating snacks. She refused to eat double skin milk, but I bought her a cup anyway. Because double-skin milk has many flavors, she packed a bag before leaving, and then on the way back to the hotel, she began to think about this double-skin milk. Almost to the hotel, she didn't bring anything along the way. She offered to help me with double skin milk, but I knew her intention and gave it to her. The next day, she wisely said that she forgot to break up yesterday and gave it to me. She eats double skin milk when she is hungry at night, and she doesn't want to eat it anyway. I'm too lazy to talk to her. I bought an Apple apd and a mobile phone in Hong Kong. When she got home, she asked her daughter to call me and tell me that she liked me. Her mobile phone was cut by the key. As soon as my husband heard my sister's purpose, he gave her the mobile phone. As a result, his sister said in front of his parents that she gave us 30 thousand cash in the New Year ... I was really speechless. Who is it? If you have courage, you have courage!
I think this statement is biased. Let's talk about my own experience! It was 20 1 1 year, and a friend suddenly talked about how good the scenery of Old Town of Lijiang and Lugu Lake was. After the conversation started, everyone suddenly decided to travel. By the way, there are sixteen people who want to travel together. Four of them are female colleagues at work, and several of them are good friends at ordinary times. After everyone's research, we decided to drive four private cars of our own to travel, with four people in each car, which is exactly 16 people. Before going out, I expected a question, that is, how to pay the money? Who will keep it, who will keep it, and who will be in charge? After some discussion, we made the following decision:
First, the boss of our unit is the commander-in-chief, who has full authority to make decisions on daily life and play, and all personnel must obey unconditionally;
As the treasurer, I am responsible for collecting 3000 yuan from each person for daily expenses. At the end of the tour, it is considered a person to retreat more and make up less. In addition, designate a person to be responsible for bookkeeping, and check all the expenses of the day with me once a day to ensure that the accounts are clear and correct. And the next day, I will announce to you how much money I spent on the first day and how much money I have left, so that everyone can clearly understand the consumption.
In this way, no one who travels can be special and no one can pay less. Everyone spends equally, has fun, and won't resent who took advantage. If you travel with relatives and friends, you might as well try my method. Plan how much it will cost first, and then collect money according to the head. Choose a person to take care of money and accounts. Don't go without charge if you want to take advantage. In this way, the situation mentioned by the subject can be avoided less.
Tourism is to see the sky and scenery, followed by consumption. Since it is consumption, it is necessary to use money, and there are many things with money.
The year before last, I traveled to Qingyan with my wife. I was happy and disappointed. That night, I proposed to stay in the scenic spot hotel, and my wife would go back to the city to live, saying that the scenic spot hotel was unsanitary and caused a lot of trouble. When I bought local products the next day, I didn't think so much, so I bought some casually. My wife didn't speak in the car when I came back. When I got home, she said why I didn't buy it for her father and her sister, and that I was not nice to her and didn't say a word to me for a few days.
Last year, I went back to my hometown to eat wine, and my relatives organized a trip to Baili Rhododendron. It is agreed that the cost of each car will be solved by each car. Eight cars, more than 20 people set off in a mighty way, and things came out of the toll booth. My nephew asked my cousin to pay the toll when driving, and my cousin said you should pay it first. The two quarreled, and the traffic jam was caused by exceeding the point. Later, because my nephew gave me money, I refueled. When eating in the scenic spot, both of them drank wine, and one of them didn't like it. Finally, for a glass of wine, my nephew beat his cousin, got 13 stitches in his head and went back to the local hospital for two months. It turns out that the contradiction between his two families is very deep, and they don't usually go back and forth. My nephew was often beaten by his cousin when he was a child.
I thought about the distribution of money when I left, but I didn't draw it carefully. If we hadn't traveled, this wouldn't have happened. Therefore, when relatives go out to travel, it is best not to go with relatives who usually don't get along well or have contradictions. Otherwise, playing unpleasantly will easily escalate the previous contradictions and cause unnecessary harm.
That makes sense. My mother's aunt, Fa Xiaoyu X, has two daughters and a son. One year, several women from her family went to Shaoshan, Hunan Province to travel together. After the trip, the daughter-in-law ignored her inexplicably. So, she was very upset and came to our house to complain. My mother asked her if anything happened along the way. Thinking hard, she replied: "On the way, my two daughters secretly told me that they would bear my travel expenses;" And their little sister-in-law pays her own money (on the grounds that her little sister-in-law is a hairdresser and tailor and has money) ... "Unfortunately, the two daughters refused to explain because of their face, so Sanniang lied to her daughter-in-law every time she ate, saying that she was not hungry, and let her daughter-in-law eat it after a few hours; I visited Chairman Mao's former residence (which is a variety of tourist attractions anyway) and didn't buy tickets with my sister-in-law. I always ask my sister-in-law to buy tickets first, and then my mother buys them ... My mother smiled at that time, thinking that their mother-in-law really didn't obey the rules (if it were me, I would pay in advance first, and then I will tell my sister-in-law when I get home, let her make up a copy or tell my sister-in-law that the three younger generations will share the mother's expenses together. Later, my mother met Aunt Yu X's daughter-in-law, and the other side said angrily, "Those three women are sneaking around all the way, secretly discussing something, which really annoys me ..."
You are absolutely right. Do not travel with relatives. It doesn't matter if you don't work hard, or your relatives will become strangers when you come back from your trip. I like traveling. I feel lonely and want to take a date out. This kind of companionship can only be found among relatives and friends. Now let's talk about traveling together.
Ten years ago, I always wanted to travel to Guilin, and finally I found a relative who wanted to travel to Guilin, so we went to Guilin for a holiday together. We are free and have not joined the League. We discussed the tourist attractions and routes in advance, and I wrote them on paper. The next night in Yangshuo, I watched the party of "Impression Third Sister" as planned. When buying a ticket, ask if the fare is 300 yuan. He said it was boring to watch, and I couldn't watch it without watching it. He didn't look when we came out together. After three days, that is, the last night I left Yangshuo, I still regretted despising the Party and advised him to read it. He insisted on not watching, so I had to watch it alone. I returned to Guilin the next day and went to Longji Terrace as planned. He said there was nothing to see in the countryside, so he had to go to Longjitai alone. He transferred to Qixing Park in Guilin for free, thus ending our companion trip. He returned to Beijing and I went to Hainan. We haven't been in touch since then.
A few years ago, a family of eight relatives went out for a week. They traveled completely as planned, and all accommodation and transportation were arranged by the travel agency. They had a good time. After they came back, they had differences on accommodation. We used to get together at his house every two years, and every time we got together, the home didn't feel very warm. Young people sleep on the floor of the living room. They have been used to it for so many years that they think it will be the same when they come back from this trip.
When we came back from the tour, the host arranged for us to stay in a hotel, saying that it was inconvenient for many family members, so we paid for the hotel and invited everyone to dinner the next day. We originally planned to stay here for two days, and we went home after eating early the next day. I paid the bill and we paid for the hotel ourselves. Considering that the host is a distribution center, we still owe the host 1 0,000 yuan in travel expenses, so the family trip ended in discord.
Women love gossip, and the more they talk about it, the more outrageous it is, the less they feel. Although a lot of positive work has been done in the middle, I also feel left out. When we parted, I smiled and said, Let's get together again next year. I vaguely feel that this is the last time. It's been seven years since this happened. In these seven years, not only have we never traveled together, but several people have not seen each other for seven years. Some people may not even pass a phone call in these seven years, which is the result of relatives' business trips.
These two trips broke my idea of traveling with my partner, and since then I have embarked on a journey alone. In the past three years, I have traveled about 30,000 kilometers by train and traveled more than half of China, and I can go wherever I want. It's really good to travel alone.
Finally, I remind you never to travel with relatives. When you come back, your relatives are doomed.
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