What are the bad habits you hate most about weddings, funerals and weddings in rural areas? What is the reason?

There are five bad habits in rural weddings and funerals:

1. extravagance and waste. It's not easy to earn some money in the countryside! In order to show their wealth, some people will make a lot of ostentation and extravagance and order a lot of dishes, but they can't finish them at all. Anyway, it doesn't feel necessary

2. Marriage behavior. The groom was tied to a tree in front of a hotel on the wedding day, and flour and soda were sprinkled on him. I believe everyone has seen this video and may have their own opinions. But I think this practice is a bad habit and should be banned. In our hometown, there is a similar marriage, but it is not the groom, but the parents of the bride and groom who are forced to wear rags, paint their faces with painted faces and ashes, and wear a high hat to let the newlywed wife and her father-in-law do intimate actions. Torture bridesmaids, bridesmaids. This kind of marriage should stop!

Laughing and cursing at the funeral. Many people took part in white affairs in rural areas. It stands to reason that people should show a painful and serious expression in white things. However, in many rural areas, in the process of doing nothing, there are still gongs and drums, firecrackers and even jokes. Because whether it is red or white, it is very particular in rural areas. The most important thing is not to go wrong, otherwise it will be unlucky and taboo.

4. grab food. Everyone swarmed to see who could hold the food quickly. Many people put food on the plate in front of them and grab it crazily when eating, no matter whether they are full or not, especially when eating elbows. Some people are eager to catch them. That look is really shocking. I have put the food in front of me into a convenient bag and taken it home. Some people even smoke more napkins when they leave, for fear of losing money with gifts. People who are embarrassed to rob others are really not suitable for banquets. Every time you are not full, you have to eat another bowl of noodles when you go home.

5. gossip. I hate being dragged by my seven aunts and eight aunts, forcing me to do things I don't want to do and asking questions. It's really disgusting. I can't breathe. I also hate others taking photos and videos and sending them to friends, because no matter what the red and white events are, the protagonist is someone else and should not do so.