Engaged first or engaged first?

The order of marriage is engagement first and then engagement.

The betrothal is that the man goes to the woman's house with the bride price and betrothal gift, and makes a written or oral agreement with the woman's house. Engagement ceremony was quite common in ancient times, but now this marriage custom continues in many parts of China.

Engagement is a ceremony before a formal wedding. At this time, the two decided to get engaged and held an engagement party to inform relatives and friends that they were engaged and would soon become legal couples.

At the engagement ceremony, the man will put a proposal ring on the woman's finger. Engagement is usually a formal engagement ceremony held in a hotel where two families discuss the details of the wedding in private in the woman's home. So according to the traditional marriage custom, engagement is engagement first and then engagement.