Emotional Diary: The Beauty of Life

I used to feel that mature men made me have the urge to admire me, and I felt naive, so I studied hard, practiced, summed up experience, realized and reflected, but, suddenly I thought, I am only in my twenties. , is it too unnatural to mature so quickly? Being young is good, you can play, make trouble, go crazy, make mistakes, express your youth, inspire writing, and do what you like to do. But when you are in your twilight years, when the sun sets, you may not have such energy and time. I used to think that I could have a happy life without worries, but after experiencing it, I discovered that happiness and sadness go hand in hand. Without the feeling of the latter, I would not talk about the pleasure of the former. I like to think about the pain. Sweet, recalling the past, intoxicated by the infatuation and reverie of the student days, not knowing how high the sky is, and lacking the baptism of the world. Only after suffering, being knifed, injured, heartbroken, shed tears, and dry eyes can I understand, Life is suffering, and suffering is life. Although I have never had the pleasure to read the works of Khenpo Sodarji, but by combining them with the profoundness of Buddhism, we can get the true taste. There are no obstacles in life, and there is no ups and downs of the melody. How can it be said to be pleasant to the ear? What's exciting? A song may only last three to five minutes, but life may last for decades, maybe longer, maybe shorter, the difference is huge. However, we are using the arrogance of taking fifty steps to laugh at a hundred steps to practice this seemingly difficult but interesting life. How to finish life, how to be proud of life, how to feel happiness, how to be wonderful, we all have it. If compared, my answers are superior or inferior, which makes people either happy or worried. But when you appreciate it alone, a sense of beauty flows into every drop of blood. Only by personal experience can you feel the same.

Everyone is different, and I can’t change it. However, talented people from all walks of life are leading the way. This is what people yearn for and is a common phenomenon in the world. May all of us be enthusiastic and write on our own white paper. A wonderful pen brings forth flowers and a unique ingenuity.

When you lose everything, you know what the only thing you want is

Many times, we always hope for the good of others. At first, I couldn’t be more grateful. But after a long time, I got used to it. When you get used to someone being nice to you, you take it for granted. One day someone doesn't treat you well, and you feel resentful. In fact, it’s not that others are bad, but that our demands have increased. When you get used to getting, you forget to be grateful.

The more stories people have, the calmer and simpler they are, while the more superficial and frail people are, the more restless. The real strong person is not the one without tears, but the one who still runs with tears in his eyes. Be patient, be strong, and even if you can't see hope, still believe in yourself. The first thing that causes us to age is not our appearance, but our reckless ambition. Sometimes, you have to dare to carry burdens beyond your expectations. After you really work hard, you will find that you are much better than you imagined.

Life cannot be perfect, there will be shadows under the sun, it depends on how you look at life. Life is just like this. Either you control your own life or let life lead you by the nose. How you go is up to you.

Not all memories are good, and not all people are worth remembering. The river of time is too long, and most people and things will be ruthlessly washed away.

If you have endless work, stop and relax; if you don’t make enough money, take a look at the things outside of you; if you are uncomfortable with the secular world, just be quiet and let nature take its course; if you are endlessly sulky , talk about it, and the mood will be broad; the endless entertainment, just say a word, is good for health; the endless filial piety, go for a walk, go home to see; the unfinished favors, weigh them, and act according to your ability; There is an endless journey ahead, take it easy and walk through life!

The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; the most precious thing is not money, but emotion; the most powerful thing is not the boss, but nature; the most terrifying thing is not disasters, but the helplessness after disasters; the best thing is not professionalism , just watching; the most terrifying thing is not lovelorn, but mental and physical insufficiency; the most comfortable thing is not the hotel, but your own home.

If you don’t chase what you desire, you will never have it. Give time, let the past pass and the beginning begin.

Life is short, only a few decades. Living is a blessing, and health is a blessing. Since we are alive, choosing happiness is a day, choosing pain is also a day, then why not choose to be happy and live our lives in an ordinary way? What about this life? Maybe there is something more than satisfying about life, but what else is important if you are not alive? What's more important than health?

If you are still single, enjoy this. You are single not because you are not good enough, but because no one is worthy of you yet.

The saddest thing for people is not that they lost too much yesterday, but that they are immersed in yesterday's sorrow. The most stupid thing about people is not not discovering the trap in front of them, but falling into it the second time. The loneliest thing about a person is not that the person you want to wait for has not yet come, but that this person has already walked out of your heart. The most boring thing about a person is not dialing a random phone number, but keeping talking when someone else dials the wrong number.

Everyone has his or her own nature, a lifestyle that suits them, and everyone has their own value for existence. Don’t belittle yourself and ignore other people’s doubts, because there is only one you in the world.

The so-called maturity does not mean that the heart grows old, but that we can still keep smiling even though tears are rolling in our eyes; there will always be a time when we shed tears and we grow up in an instant.

Many things in life are hard to come by. Those who are deliberately forced cannot get it, and those who are not expected often come unexpectedly. Therefore, you must have a calm and comfortable mind, let everything take its course, do not be resentful, do not be impatient, do not overdo it, do not force it, do not take pleasure in things, and do not feel sorry for oneself. Resigning yourself to fate is not about resigning yourself to fate, but facing life with an open-minded attitude.

At every stage of life, cherish every moment with the one you love.

The only thing in the world that can get something for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that can make something out of nothing is dreams. Nothing can be achieved without taking action. Although the world is cruel, as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way; you cannot see the beauty because you have not persisted in walking. There is no need to regret moving forward. If it is good, it is called wonderful; if it is bad, it is called experience.

The sun will not stop rising tomorrow because of your frustration; the moon will not stop setting tonight because of your complaints. Covering your own eyes does not mean that the world is dark; covering other people's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to you!

In life, you always need to have multiple eyes to protect yourself. It does not mean that the higher the scheming, the higher the city, the deeper the city, but the happiness of staying strong despite the waves.

What faith can give a person is inner peace and dependence, rather than "negotiating conditions and exchanging favors" with gods - if I believe in you, I can get rich; if I believe in you, I Then we can have a harmonious family; if I believe in you, all my dreams will come true from now on. When faith is reduced to an exchange of interests, it loses its meaning.

The words we have said, the things we have done, the roads we have traveled, the people we have met, every moment now are our memories in the future.

People need to have such a person in their life: even if they are thousands of miles apart and have not contacted each other for several years, they are still relaxed and natural and have endless topics to talk about when they meet; or, sitting next to each other, each is busy with his or her own business. In front of this person, you can lower your eyebrows and lament, you can be arrogant, you don't have to be promising, you don't have to have an image, you can have flaws all over, this person is your confidant.

There is no path to despair in life, only a desperate heart. The other side of despair is hope, and the end of crisis is opportunity.

Some things are destined to have no fate with you. No matter how hard you force them, they will eventually leave you. Some people can only be passers-by in your life. No matter how much you miss them, all your expectations will eventually come to nothing. If it doesn't belong to you, then give up. The world is vast and vast. What we can have is limited after all. Don't let endless desires bury the original joy and happiness. If you try to catch everything, you will end up catching nothing.

Only when the soul has a home can life have a path. Only when you learn to be alone with yourself can your soul be cleansed, your mind mature, and your mind broad.

When a person feels contented, his mind is not upset, his body is not tired, he has nothing to ask for, and his mind is at peace, happiness is there. When a person feels that he can eat, play, sleep well, has no worries, and is satisfied, happiness is there. Giving up what should be given up is helplessness, giving up what should not be given up is incompetence; not giving up what should be given up is ignorance, and not giving up what should not be given up is persistence.

Life is so charming

The summer of July is a hot season; going to the countryside three times is a wonderful experience. Forty people, spending these ten days together, is such an unbearable thing.

When I first arrived, the classrooms and corridors were covered with dust, like a messy battlefield. We clean the classroom and clean the floor together to pave the way for our teaching life in the countryside. Dust was flying and water was splashing. In the evening, the teaching building successfully counterattacked and became clean and bright. Afterwards, the setting sun shone slantingly, and smiling faces filled every corner of the campus.

The next day, there were still 30 minutes before the assembly time, and the children poured into the classroom like running water. Their enthusiasm made us very happy. After Director Ke, all the children, and team members arrived, the class opening ceremony officially began. Director Ke spoke with dignity and melody about the main purpose of our trip, also mentioned the safety issue, and expressed his full support for our three rural areas. We were moved and applauded unconsciously. After the meeting, the team members were very encouraged.

In the afternoon after the meeting, we received a notice that the secretary and head teacher of the School of Chemistry will visit our school tomorrow, and this will be their first destination of the trip! We immediately made preparations to welcome the arrival of the secretary and class teacher. Although a little hasty and poorly prepared, the secretary still showed a satisfied and happy smile during our donation session.

On this trip, we traveled a long distance and the journey was bumpy. However, the enthusiastic hearts of the team members washed away the fatigue on the way one by one, bringing waves of refreshment. Cleaning the teaching building, opening the class, and welcoming the secretary all require the full cooperation of our team members to succeed. We also hope that in the process of supporting education, we can bring some unforgettable memories to the children, and we will have a place in their eyes when they look back.

July is a hot season; going to the countryside is a wonderful experience. Forty people spent these ten days together. Yangxi Social Practice Team, this trip is destined to be unforgettable.

20 Sentences on Love: If you have love, don’t be ambiguous anymore.

1. There is a kind of single that can do anything for love. All they are waiting for is for the person they are waiting for to understand their feelings, then choose themselves, and then hold hands and walk together. Don't be afraid of others' ridicule, because they always believe that the person waiting will come to you and embrace themselves.

2. Love means working hard to be together. Don’t believe in the so-called Japanese and Korean soap operas about leaving because you can’t make each other happy. Have you ever thought that you are each other’s happiness? Love does not allow you to evade the responsibility of making each other happy, but requires you to work hard to fulfill the obligation to make each other happy.

3. Many girls will fall in love with each other quickly once they are touched by someone. But I have always wanted to say that romance is not love, and asking for help is not love. Real love is sacrificing a certain part of yourself to fulfill you and make you better. You don't want someone who can move you, but someone who truly loves you. Quotations Network

4. Love will make people grow. Some things are really hard to look back on, but please don’t run away from them. If you get true love, you will never regret it. Love is the most precious wealth in a person's life. When one day you are too old to walk, I believe that the richest person is yourself.

5. A beautiful encounter, a gorgeous opening that has reached its end. Just like love that is too young is never suitable to pursue, because we are still on the way of growing up. Some people can only leave; some things can only be given up; some memories can only be buried in our hearts.

6. The person who truly loves you wants to walk with you into the future; true love is not a commitment and confession at a certain moment, but the years spent together; true fate is not It was a predestined arrangement, but the two people believed in each other.

7. In love, people who really love may break up. This is normal. People change, feelings change, this is normal. What is abnormal is that people like to use the past they once loved to kidnap him or her for the rest of their lives. Holding on may not be true love, and letting go may not mean you don’t understand love.

8. When you fall in love with someone, you will be very interested in getting to know him and be willing to devote yourself to him, even if he makes you very angry and makes a cruel decision. You have to forget him and ignore him from now on, but when he says a word softly, you forget all the complaints and just want to love him properly.

9. Love is also divided into two categories. One type is suspended in time, swelling like fire and passion. One kind is precipitated in the years, accumulating like still water, deep. Some feelings always go very slowly and come very late, it doesn’t matter, as long as it is true...

10. The best love is when he is indifferent and has a clear ambition, and is not mercenary. He is able to cope well with various challenges and temptations that arise in life. When he is with you, when he is brilliant, he will be proud of your glory; when he is down, he will cheer for your frustration.

11. True love is the result of running for it. If there is no result, it can only be called once loved. No matter who you have loved, there is only one result, and that is to stay with you until the end. The kind of person who talks about love but is actually getting further and further away from you is just a lie. The kind of person who talks so much about true love and refuses to suffer any loss is just passing by.

12. Be kind to the person who loves you, the person who doesn’t want you to be troubled, so he forces a smile on his face and lies to you that he is relieved, the person who silently pays attention to you and never leaves, if you are still hesitant Well, if you still care about his every frown, you might as well give him and yourself a possibility.

13. Love is always mixed with various feelings, but these feelings are fickle. They are not love itself, but the temperature of love. But as long as you are willing, you can decide what to do with it. Treat each other with the same attitude. The best is like water, following the good is like flowing, follow the circumstances and follow your heart.

14. When you meet the one you love, you can say you are lucky. No matter what the ending is, you can say you are happy. It is good to grow old together, but if you fall in love and break up in the end, or are sad for love, you are also very happy, because after all, you have loved...

15. Some people are suitable for you but you don't love them. Some people love you but are not suitable for you. If you want to know whether you love someone or not, don’t listen with your ears but see with your eyes. No matter how good the conditions are, you can’t ask for something that makes you cry all the time. What makes you laugh all the time is worth the hardship. It is better to laugh and be tired than to cry and enjoy.

16. If you have love, don’t touch ambiguity anymore. In the face of precious love, we need to stick to it till the end. Withstand temptation and loneliness, only in this way can we give each other the greatest sense of security, and the road to love will go smoothly.

17. In love, no one is superior to anyone, no one can look at you equally, please stay away from him; all confessions should be cherished, all holding hands should be blessed, don’t look up easily Whoever, don't lie to yourself against your will; love deeply, don't be afraid of losing, superficial love can easily dry up.

18. When you are hurt, you will feel pain; however, one day, you will thank those who you loved but also hurt you. It's all a grind. Then you will grow up, mature, and gain wisdom. (This article comes from Quotations.com) After crying all night, you will be grateful to all the people who have known each other, loved each other, hurt each other, and failed to stay together in the end. They make you.

19. Two people who cherish each other should not want to possess each other too much, but feel good when they think of each other occasionally. It is clearer than ambiguity, and also shyer than ambiguity. No need to commit, you know in your heart that meeting like this is the most beautiful thing. If you ask for more in the name of love, that is not love, it is possession.

20. Because we love him, we are afraid of losing him. We were afraid that if we were not careful, he would be abducted by some woman. As a result, we begin to lose ourselves and become sensitive and suspicious. If we love Him, then we must believe in Him. Only if you believe in him can you be happier.

In the days without her, he always thought that

In the days without her, he always thought that maybe after he was drunk, he would never be awake again. Missing and sad, maybe after he is drunk, he can still dance with her carefree in the clouds; maybe after he is drunk, he can hold hands with her in tears in dreams, and talk about love, maybe he After getting drunk, he no longer felt a little sad, but he was wrong.

If you bloom, butterflies will come. If you are wonderful, God will arrange it.

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The best feeling is: no fear. There is no fear of loss, no fear of pleasing, no fear of doubting love, no fear of not being seen, no fear of hiding, no fear of the future, no fear of external interference, no fear of suppressing compromise. Without fear, you can fully accept what is given, and love will only accumulate when you are safe and relaxed. He can be him, and you can still be you. You are pure peace with each other.

II

It’s not that I don’t understand, I don’t regret it.

三

Life is about occasionally admitting the stupid things you do, and then occasionally accepting the stupid things others do.

四

There are many people you thought you could forget. Actually no. They are always in a corner of your heart. Until the end of your life. At the end you will miss the light in the darkness in every corner, because they make up your memories and feelings. But you can no longer hug them. I can only understand in the end that the journey is an unforgettable process of loss.

Wu

I think one day, I will be compatible with someone enough that we can live without a computer or mobile phone all day long. You can eat delicious food, listen to music, and chat about topics from all over the world. It is also natural for two people to sit quietly and look at each other for a whole day, whether it is friendship or love.

Lu

We should think better of others and always be grateful for small things. It's none of the other person's business because he doesn't need to know what you're thinking. Doing so will just make you happier.

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When I was young, it was easy to mistake good feelings for likes, to mistake liking for love, and to treat a temporary moment as a lifetime. This is called naivety.

When you grow up, it’s easy to mistake your likes for good feelings, your love for your likes, and your whole life for a while. This is called missing out.

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If you bloom, butterflies will come. If you are wonderful, God will arrange it.

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Love is a process in which both parties constantly expose their shortcomings

Love makes people naive, love makes people grow, love makes people hurt, and love makes people forget the hurt. This is the meaning of love.

In the eyes of many people, my EX is a top performer, and my long-distance love relationship with him is equivalent to a performance art of mental self-abuse. But in those years, I always had a sense of superiority and believed that those who didn't understand why I liked him lacked basic aesthetics and understanding.

They don’t understand him, so they don’t understand the mystery. But as the person who knows him best and is closest to him in the world, I clearly know all the good things about him. And to this day, those reasons why I was obsessed with him are still valid.

Often he hasn’t changed, and I haven’t changed either, so why? Will a relationship end?

Because two people will experience various situations together: increasing age, increasing experience, changes in the environment...all will cause subtle changes in how you view each other and your feelings.

The characteristics of him that attract you. Because your love has become an incomparable advantage.

The same characteristics that have hurt you will become unforgivable shortcomings because of your resentment.

When you complained about all his unconventional and unreasonable things, you probably forgot to think about it. Isn’t it because of his uniqueness that you never looked back?

You will fall in love with an artistic person because your idealization is not unrealistic, and his beauty caters to all your wandering imaginations.

The reason why you will fall in love with a complicated person is because your curiosity is great and you will have more impulses towards people who you cannot understand.

The reason why you will fall in love with an indifferent person is because you never lacked love when you were growing up, you just lacked the rebellious psychology of your opponent.

Did you finally complain about his indifference? Please reflect on how you treat those boys who are so passionate that they text you every hour?

Do you regret his selfishness in the end? Please reflect on how you allowed him to behave the same way over several years until it became a habit for both of you.

In the end, did you attribute the reason to the inability to communicate? Please reflect on how you have indulged in this unpredictability and unexplorability for many years.

So let’s take a look. This period with EX is as inevitable as fate. Of course, all of this has nothing to do with character issues, and all the reasons for the breakup are concealed. Now I know it deeply. All this is fucking fate.

I really want to be a happy resentful woman. Set yourself up as a tragic heroine to win everyone's sympathy and the best's rebuke. But the sad thing is that after I reflected on it bit by bit, I found that all the plots were arranged by myself.

I will definitely fall in love with such a person, and I will definitely be obsessed with his characteristics. I will eventually be wounded to death by the same characteristics. Am I not a top-notch person?

Now I know: my personality determines who I will fall in love with, my perception of things determines what temperaments I will be moved by, and my style of dealing with things determines the problems I will encounter...all of my The injuries I suffered were all due to blind spots in my logic and weaknesses in my character.

Because it doesn’t have a happy ending, it is necessary to position him as the best, and define this relationship as a failure?

No. Why can’t my aesthetic appreciation of men be justified? Of course I know, I love his kindness, honesty, talent, talent, depth, dedication to ideals, and single-mindedness in feelings. And the maturity that is not commensurate with his age and the beautiful world hidden deep in his heart... Also because of these overly mysophobic personalities, he is unable to adapt to many imperfections, stays in a bad state, and is wary and suspicious of beautiful and smooth things. And he laughed at my blind optimism. He finally couldn't open himself up, and finally hurt me, the person closest to him.

And during that relationship, because we were sincere and dedicated, we were able to do so with a clear conscience. We were friends, lovers, partners, and rivals. Because we have shared that we have grown up together for so many years since adolescence, we don’t feel lonely in life because of each other’s presence.

Do I actually hate him? No, I hate myself.

I hate that I cannot use optimism to get him out of negative moods; I hate that my tolerance and understanding are not enough to get us through all the difficult times; I hate that my idealism still has to become more and more complicated. I bow my head before difficult problems; I hate myself for loving in an immature and unskilled way, which results in a situation that neither party can afford.

In the past, I could not let go of all my investment and was unwilling to face emotional problems rationally. I downplayed all this too much but I admit now that he made me, a stubborn and proud person, lower my head and admit my failure. He helped me understand myself better and know who to love and how to love. This is his final breakup gift to me, and this is the best blessing I have ever received.

I found something I didn’t have, and I experienced another state. My experience has changed. I've entered a new phase.

In the final analysis. Everyone’s a little “weird,” right? Everyone is the best to other people, and everyone has a silly side in the eyes of others.

Love is a process in which both parties constantly expose their shortcomings. If you look at him with love, he will always be gentle and lovely.

When you go through a long time together, you will always gain valuable experiences.

Love makes people naive, love makes people grow, love makes people hurt, love makes people forget the hurt. This is the meaning of love.