Li Wei Guangdong Hotel

When Li Wei sent me WeChat, it was past two o'clock in the middle of the night. Because of her long-term insomnia, she didn't fall asleep so late. Faced with her husband's betrayal again, she was completely desperate, but this time she still couldn't make up her mind to tell her husband the word divorce. What happened to the woman who forgave her husband's betrayal? After reading this true story, I suddenly realized!

After her husband's first betrayal was discovered by Li Wei, she knelt on the ground at home and apologized to Li Wei. Looking at her husband, who was crying and vowed to guarantee herself, Li Wei relented. After all, I have lived together for many years, and besides, I have no job and no financial resources. Moreover, my husband called and broke up with the other party in front of her, and also blacked out all the contact information of the other party.

In this way, under the husband's initiative to admit his mistake, Li Wei chose to forgive. She thought that her generosity and tolerance would be appreciated by her husband, so after her husband betrayed her, Li Wei did not stand above her husband's mistakes like other women, but treated her husband better than before. She believes that only in this way can her husband feel guilty and be better for her and her children.

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Li Wei's accommodation was not as good as her husband's, but was aggravated by her husband again and again. Last Valentine's Day, Li Wei's husband didn't come home all night. The next day, he came back and told Li Wei that he was drunk at a friend's house and was staying at a friend's house. Also let a friend call to prove himself, Li Wei had to believe what he said.

Since then, Li Wei found that her husband seems to work overtime more and more, and women's perfume can often be smelled on her clothes. Li Wei looked through her husband's mobile phone at night, only to know that her husband had betrayed herself again. On Valentine's Day, he actually checked in with a woman outside.

This time, in the face of Li Wei's questioning, the husband didn't deny it, but he didn't kneel down to apologize to Li Wei as he did for the first time, but he didn't feel guilty at all. How to blame Li Wei, he is deadpan, a dead mouse scratching the cold expression.

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Li Wei talked about the divorce in a rage, but her husband said indifferently, "Whatever, I'm fine anyway. Look at yourself. At this age, you have no job. Think about it! Never leave, just make do, and leave me alone. Forget the divorce, can you raise a son? "

At this time, Li Wei has lost the courage to divorce. Indeed, as her husband said, she is older than before, and she doesn't even have any savings. If she is divorced, it will be more difficult to live alone with her son. She doesn't know whether she should continue this marriage. She didn't want to but didn't have the courage to come out.

After reading the message sent by Li Wei, I sent her a paragraph like this: "A man with a weak sense of self-discipline will have a gambler's psychology of pursuing enjoyment. Such a man betrayed the first time, there will be a second time, even countless times. Their greed will be addictive and will not change. "

I don't know if Li Wei can really understand what I said. In fact, I just want to tell her that there is no need to entangle this marriage. In order to be herself better, she can come out as soon as possible. This is the main reason why men betray their families again and again: their self-discipline is too low, which is also related to women's repeated lowering of their bottom line.

Uncle Qing wrote a love letter:

Will those women who forgive their husbands for cheating live well in the future? The divorced woman told the truth! Therefore, in the face of compromise that betrays men, women should never do this: after seeing men admit their mistakes, they forgive each other easily and even treat each other better than before. Doing so is to lower your bottom line and tell men that betrayal doesn't matter, as long as you admit your mistake and come back. This will only make him feel that his betrayal has nothing to do with it. Once he has the chance, he will betray you for the second time, even countless times.