The pick-up system teaches you how to pick up girls quickly, and you can catch fleeting beauties even if you are not familiar with them.

When you meet a beautiful woman on the street who turns around and disappears, your heart will beat faster. Do you choose to go up to her and ask for her contact information? Or do you choose to miss it? I think many men want her contact information, but they just don’t know if they will get slapped if they go up to her. Tips on how to pick up girls quickly using the pick-up system Your method of quickly picking up girls allows you to know how to impress fleeting beauties.

1. How to strike up a conversation with a fleeting beauty in life

To strike up a conversation is to strike up a conversation, and strike up a conversation with the purpose of dating. In any situation in life: on the street, bus, subway, bookstore, library, party, restaurant, etc., there may be such a scene - you suddenly see her who makes you excited or even long-awaited. If I don’t get it, the opportunity may be gone forever, and I can only pass it by with a sense of loss; if I get it, what should I say? What should I do if she ignores me? How shameless? And in front of the beautiful woman you like, you will You become stammering, and this thought makes you even more afraid to have sex.

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2. Why should we learn to flirt

We must understand that in our lifetime (mainly young and In middle age) there are not many opportunities to meet a woman that excites us. If we don’t seize the opportunity, the biggest possibility is that we will never meet her again. And the chance that the beautiful woman we want to meet will naturally become our classmate/colleague is extremely low, so don’t wait for fate.

Don’t be misled by society’s wrong ideas and regard eating as something improper. Craving is one of the many ways to socialize, and there is nothing wrong with it. The more civilized and progressive a society is, the more developed the pick-up culture is. People who have been educated in progressive Western countries will not have this wrong idea. Everyone has a love for beauty. Face your thoughts and feelings about wanting to meet the opposite sex honestly. Don't suppress your instincts because of unreasonable restrictions from society. Don't worry about other people's opinions. In fact, although there will be people who don't agree with the behavior of eating, in their hearts they envy you for daring to do what they want to do but don't dare to do. It's natural to talk to people you want to know.

Shengqi can exercise a person's communication skills and hone a man's self-confidence and self-cultivation. Living is a noble art, containing courage and wisdom. After reading this book, when you can interact with people you really want to know, you will live happily and freely, be full of interest in people, and your life will become extremely sunny.

3. How to overcome psychological pressure

The biggest challenge in life is how to overcome the fear of failure.

When facing a girl you don’t care about, you can still talk and laugh even if it’s the first time you meet her. Even if she ignores you, your self-esteem will not be hurt and you won't think it's okay. You may even think that the other person doesn't know the goods and has no cultivation.

But when you meet a top-notch beauty who seems to be in good condition, you will hesitate and become stammering. It's the same possibility of being rejected, but you have a completely different reaction because you're afraid of failure. The fear of failure brings you psychological stress. And psychological pressure will make people unable to perform at their normal level, leading to actual failure.

So the root cause is fear of failure. The reasons for fear of failure include: fear of hurting self-esteem, lack of confidence in oneself, and caring too much about results. Please note that these are all feelings you have imposed on your own psychology. They are subjective and have nothing to do with the beautiful woman you want to pick up.

4. How to overcome this psychological barrier?

A. It is normal to feel shy and embarrassed when you start smoking, but you should always refer to this book and practice more in your life. Eventually, you will get better slowly.

B. The more natural and stress-free you are, the more natural and stress-free you will feel to the other party, so the key is to adjust your mentality. The more confident and self-righteous you are in talking to her as a friend, the more she will follow your words and talk to you.

C. Even for those who are experts in consuming food, the success rate is not high. Some people succeed and some fail. However, the more times there are people consuming food, the more successful cases there will be. But you have to remind yourself that you should remember more about successful experiences to encourage yourself and sum up the experience.

D. Be indifferent to the experience of encountering cold faces, or explain to yourself that the other person may be a girl who lives at the bottom of society, and often comes into contact with messy people, so she is very wary of people; or she may be very wary of people; She comes from a family with feudal and backward educational concepts.

E. Even if the experience of failure brings you temporary fear, after you overcome this psychological barrier, you will have a large forest for you to use, so you have to thank her for this tree. Your chance to practice and grow into a master.

F. Don’t focus on the results, but focus on the habit itself, and aim at whether you develop a habit. The purpose of developing the habit of smoking is to cultivate a positive attitude towards life, so that we can be confident in ourselves in any situation, talk confidently with the people we want to know, and establish friendly relationships with them. relation.

G. When you are addicted, don’t approach her with the intention of “wanting to have sex with her”. You should be like an emperor selecting a concubine, and only consider it after screening. Even if you don't actually have such courage, you still have to have such a condescending mentality. Such a mentality can help you overcome your fear of food cravings and face food cravings with ease.

In short, don’t be discouraged and lose your confidence, so as to maintain the motivation to continue eating. If one day you become a master, you will realize that the other person's reaction no longer has an important impact on you. What a real man values ??is whether he is worthy of your thoughts and sincerity in wanting to know the other person.

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5. Women’s psychology towards raw food

Usually women do not dislike the raw food of strange men in their hearts, because they subconsciously think that this is It is proof that you are attractive. They remember the experience of being eaten alive in their lives. Such experiences are often talked about by them, which greatly satisfies their vanity. Therefore, regardless of whether she accepts you or not, you are doing a charity to satisfy her vanity and protect her self-confidence. In order to give women more experiences that bring them a sense of pride, we have to work hard on ourselves and work hard!

6. Opening remarks

Don’t ask her and just answer “yes or "No" or "good or bad" opening remarks can easily cause the topic to get stuck and not continue. Such questions include "Can we get to know each other?" "How about making friends?" "Are you a student?" "Let's chat, okay?" "How about we go to dinner together?"

So what should be the first thing to say when you have a craving? The best is the "compliment + question" routine, please refer to the "compliment" in "How to Talk to Make a Woman Like You" in this book.

When you first meet her, try to avoid complimenting her appearance. Even if you are attracted by her appearance, you should express that you are not only attracted by her appearance, but focus on her special features. , no matter how insignificant this "special" actually is. For example, "How high are the heels of your shoes?...You are not like other girls who rock like a tumbler when wearing such high shoes."

7. The compliment in the opening line should be subtle and without trace. .

When you praise her, don't consciously wait for her reaction. Even if you have this consciousness, you can't let her notice it. For example, after complimenting her, you should not just smile and wait for her to reply, but continue talking. Another example is in a bar, first compliment her "Your earrings are very beautiful!", then turn around and chat with your friends without looking at her; or immediately ask the bartender for a drink after complimenting her. If she doesn't talk to you backwards, later on you just start with "Hey, 'Earring Girl'..." or something.

If the situation is that you directly express your desire to get to know the other person, after you express this desire, do not look at her and wait for her to say whether she is willing, but immediately go on to talk about your own situation, such as your work. class.

A good opening line is:

A. "Where are your parents from and why are you so white/tall?".

B. "Are you Japanese/Korean?"

C. "My watch is broken, what time is it?" (Set your watch slowly or quickly first. )

D. "The people in my dormitory said that you are the beauty of X department. With so many boys chasing after you, then you will be too busy every day, right?" (Whether she is originally the beauty or not, She will definitely come to deny it, and she will have a good first impression of you having the confidence to talk to her even though she knows she has many suitors).