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What should the waiters call each other?

A salutation is a friendly greeting and the beginning of communication between people. Whether you should address the other party by his or her name or by using a title? The way you address people not only differs from person to person, but also in different situations. Appropriate address is a sign of respect for people and a display of one's own accomplishments. It’s best to call “waiter” directly Confusion in life: Question 1: Is it okay to call “miss”? After the reform and opening up, the foreign custom of calling young girls “miss” has also spread to the mainland, and most of the people working as restaurant waiters are young women, so people Young waitresses also began to be called "Miss". But later, due to the special meaning of the word "Miss", people also expressed the opinion that "you should not call Miss everywhere". Generally speaking, it is not rude to call you "Miss", but it will make people uncomfortable if you call them "Miss" over and over while dining. Question 2: Is it okay to call you yatou? If people of the same age call them yatou, it means being frivolous towards each other, and it is not a formal title in public situations. Question 3: Is it okay to call a girl? If you meet some older waitresses, it is obviously rude to call a girl. This kind of title is very inappropriate between customers and service personnel who are in a service relationship with each other. Question 4: Is it OK to call the waiter "comrade"? In the past, it was not appropriate for people to call waiters "comrade" because "comrade" means having like-minded people and pursuing a career. Morning News reminds: More people have questions about what the male waiter is called. Theoretically speaking, the counterpart of Miss is Mr. However, in Chinese customs, Mr. is not only a gender title, but also a respectful title for teachers. Calling him "young man" doesn't seem to respect the other person, and it's also inappropriate to call him a relatively close relationship. If you encounter a male waiter in his thirties or forties, it will be even worse. And the term "guy" means condescending, which is not appropriate. Likewise, in a shopping mall, people face the same problem of how to address a salesperson. So what should we call the waiter? Many waiters said: "Just call us waiters." The four etiquette models of civilized titles. Professors should be called by others. Some people often like to call their positions when introducing themselves on the phone, such as "I am Professor Li", "I am Director Zhang", especially some primary and secondary school teachers always introduce themselves as "I am Teacher Li" when contacting students' parents on the phone. This is actually not in line with the self-effacing etiquette of us Chinese. When introducing yourself, just say your name. If necessary, say your name first and then introduce your identity. For example, "Who am I? I am a teacher at your daughter's school." Don’t mistake relatives when addressing people. Some people like to use titles like “eldest sister” and “eldest brother” to express intimacy. In fact, this kind of indirection is not a sign of respect for others, and will also arouse resentment from others, especially some young girls, who are very reluctant to be called eldest sister. In fact, being overly affectionate is also rude. "Farmer" cannot be used as an adjective. Nowadays, many people often use identity words such as "farmer" and "migrant worker" as adjectives when joking with friends, calling each other "you farmer", or simply using "peasant" as a title. Call each other in public places. But for others, this is a kind of harm. In addition, people sometimes shout "Blind man, I'm here" to friends who don't see them, or "Why are you dressed like a nanny?" This is very rude behavior. Don't let others "kneel down" when writing letters. When people write letters to address each other, they often like to use some literary words, such as adding "respectfully" or even "kneeling down" when addressing the other party. In fact, this way of writing is not only a big joke in terms of language understanding, but also does not express respect. On the contrary, it is self-defeating and rude to others. In the language of letters, "Jing Qi" means asking someone to open the letter with respect, while "Kneeling Qi" means asking others to kneel down to read the letter. The title should be "self-effacing and respectful to others." In daily life, our ancients followed the principle of "self-effacing and respectful to others" and had to use various etiquette to reflect it. Addressing is the first lesson in communication between people. It is important to use respectful addresses to others while using modest addresses for yourself. In ancient times, after the crowning ceremony, a man would choose a name when he reached adulthood, in order to avoid being impolite by others calling him by his first name. Parents usually put a certain hope in the name when choosing it, so that it would sound more pleasing to the ear and be heard. Only the father and the monarch can be called by their first names, and it is considered impolite to call them by their first names. In letters, even more attention is paid to the etiquette of address. Between the lines, the etiquette expressed in the address is indispensable. Today, some titles are still a reflection of ancient honorifics. For example, ancient emperors were called lonely, Taoist and widowed. This is a modest title.

Also, the word "ma'am" is used exclusively to refer to the other party or other people's wives. You must not call your own wife "my wife". If the other party is highly respected, you can add the word "公" after his surname to become "a certain public". This is still retained in today's Chinese intellectual circles. Also, when referring to things you give to others, you should use "fei", "qin", "inch", and "bo". For example, have a glass of wine and chat with each other. Inviting someone to a meal is called a little feast. It is polite to remember other people's names. Li Zonghan, film and television actor. In the entertainment industry, the way people address each other is very important. An actor's courtesy shows his cultural level and cultivation. In the crew, we usually call the first person the teacher, which will make us have a harmonious relationship with each other and make our work happy. What I find unacceptable is that people can't remember my name. Once when I was filming in the mountains, a fan followed me for a long time just to get an autograph. But when he approached me, he said: "Ah, you are playing that guy, but I forgot your name..." …”Although I signed his name, I still think it’s very rude not to remember other people’s names. Please call Dr. Doctor. Follow-up question: I am new here. She is three years younger than me, and she taught me. what do I do? Answer: Follow her instructions,,, and wait until you are familiar with the environment...put her aside...