The wedding room was occupied by my brother-in-law, and my mother-in-law secretly supported it. The girl made a dash for the door after decorating. Did she do something wrong?

Of course, I did nothing wrong. The married house can be occupied by my husband's family. What should I do in the future? Are you just waiting to get married and be a free nanny, and look at other people's faces humbly all your life? In this case, we must resolutely break up. Never get married without formal marriage. Married people should divorce as soon as possible, and they will be in trouble if they have children.

The ins and outs of the matter Xiao Min and Xiao Hang finally decided to get married after years of long-distance love. Xiao Min has been trying to make money and save money to help her fiance share the pressure, hoping to pay for the wedding banquet and house decoration.

After Xiao Hang's new house was ready to get married, he also took Xiao Min to visit. Xiao Min is also very satisfied with the size, orientation and location of the house, but the wedding room has not been renovated. So, in order to show his sincerity, Xiao Min contacted the workers and friends in the design industry at his own expense to decorate the wedding room beautifully.

After the wedding room is decorated, Xiao Min thinks she can enjoy this beautiful and warm new home with her future husband. Unexpectedly, just after the wedding room was renovated, her future mother-in-law (Xiao Hang's mother) had the idea of this wedding room and let Xiao Hang's younger brother move in without saying hello.

Mandy just felt a little uncomfortable at first, but after that, she became a family and didn't care so much. It is also reasonable for the brother-in-law to stay in the wedding room for a period of time.

Unexpectedly, when the wedding day of Xiao Min and Xiao Hang approaches, the brother-in-law still has no intention of moving out. Xiao Min's mother-in-law even said directly, "Xiao Min, anyway, you and Xiao Hang are working outside all the year round, so this wedding room is left to Xiao Gang. You two still live in your old house. "

In the face of her mother-in-law's words, Xiao Min could not restrain her inner anger. She looked at her fiance again, hoping that he could persuade her mother. Unfortunately, Xiao Hang chose silence.

Now Xiao Min finally broke out her emotions. She smashed the wedding room that she had spent money and energy decorating, and then slammed the door, and her relationship with Xiao Hang came to an end.

02. Before getting married, you must keep your eyes open and realize that your future husband and his family are men's favorite wives and closest mothers. No matter which side you are on, you will offend the other side. This difficult choice is enough to make people have a headache. However, no matter how difficult the choice is, men need to stand up after all. Silence is what cowards do. A real family man should be a mediator between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Take Mandy as an example. The mother-in-law forcibly occupied her wedding room for her brother-in-law. This is obviously the fault of the mother-in-law. As a man, Xiao Hang should bravely stand up for Mandy and convince her mother. If Xiao Min doesn't let Xiao Hang spend money to buy things for her mother, then Xiao Hang should persuade Xiao Min from the standpoint of her mother, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be maintained.

If Xiao Hang doesn't dare to take a stand on the issue of principle and blindly listens to her mother's arrangement, this kind of mother-in-law is a nightmare for marriageable girls, and her life after marriage is also in dire straits.

Therefore, before getting married, a girl should not only see her future husband clearly, but also carefully examine the situation in the man's home so as not to step into the fire pit.