How do boys keep girls when they bring them home?

First of all, the girl promised to go home with you, whether you said cooking or eating Doby cats and Doby dogs.

Now you have got on the elevator and arrived at the door.

Change shoes

The first thing to do after opening the door is to change shoes. You should change your slippers first, and then let the girls change their slippers.

Whether girls wear flat shoes or high heels outside, changing shoes in the door is a thing to relax their feet. Then girls are generally willing to do it.

Of course, slippers should not be too low, as long as the conditions at home are ok. Girls want to put on slippers when they enter the door.

Take off the coat

If it is winter, girls will definitely wear some coats or overcoats. At this time, my suggestion is to take off my coat and put it on the big hanger at the door. If not, just put them on the sofa.

Turn on all the lights in your house.

Because these things must be done first, when girls change their shoes and take off their coats, you should turn on all the lights that can be turned on at home.

Because when a girl just enters a strange environmental space, she will want to see this space clearly.

It's like we go to the hotel to get a room and open the door of the hotel. First, we will look at the hotel environment.

You will look at the whole room first, then at the bathroom, and then at the bedroom and balcony, if any, to see if there are any problems.

In fact, girls are the same, so turn on all the lights in your house so that girls can see your environment clearly.

The next step is to adjust the temperature to a more comfortable temperature. It's hot in summer, so turn on the air conditioner first. It's cold in winter, so turn on the air conditioner first.

When all this is done, you are seated now, but the atmosphere may be a little awkward at this time, so you need some voices to ease the embarrassment between you two.

If there is music, you can turn on your Bluetooth speaker and put some light music to relax and relieve the girls' mood. If there is a TV, turn it on.

Under normal circumstances, the other party should stay in the living room for at least 15 minutes. Then the time in the living room is also an opportunity for the other party to get familiar with the environment.

When a woman sits on the sofa, you can do the following two things:

1. Why don't you open your refrigerator, see what's in it, and then ask the girls what to drink, whether it's drinks or fruit juice, or let's have some wine?

At the same time, the feeling you are talking about must be this provocative feeling, which is done to relieve the pressure on girls.

2. Go back to your bedroom and take off your clothes (of course not to let you go out naked! )

I want you to put on some household clothes before you come out, maybe a big white T-shirt, then a pair of shorts and slippers.

The purpose of this is to subtly convey to the girl that you don't want to send her away, but you want to stay here.

When a girl sees you coming out in a housecoat, she will think, "This man is not going to take me home. He has taken off his clothes and put on his home clothes. "

Next, you will begin to enter the interactive stage in the middle half.

Now you can watch movies, chat or drink with this girl.

There is a very important knowledge point at this time, that is, don't worry, don't worry, don't worry!

I found that some brothers began to touch girls now, for example, thinking about hugging girls and saying they wanted to kiss them.

Girls will think: I just arrived at your house and you touched me. The atmosphere is wrong, and I don't even know how to wash it afterwards.

So at this time, girls will begin to be reluctant. If your previous date may not be particularly good, girls will think that this boy is probably not what I want, and then they may leave with their bags.

Therefore, the correct way is to communicate with girls normally and do what you like according to your own routine. For example, if you like to play games, you can play a game. If you like listening to music at ordinary times, you can drink some wine. Don't think that what happened today is about girls.

The last stage is to transfer girls from the living room to the bedroom, so there are several ways to transfer girls from the living room to the bedroom:

1. If it is shared, tell the girls that it is not convenient for people to come out in the living room in the future. Let's go and sit in my bedroom.

Tell the girl to visit my bedroom. I'll show you what's in my bedroom, and then take the girl to the bedroom.

Of course, since you want to show girls around the dormitory, you must be prepared in the dormitory.

The preparations in the bedroom can be divided into the following categories:

(1) Features: If you have any talent, such as playing the guitar, put a guitar in your bedroom. Or what awards you have won, put some trophies and medals you have won before in your bedroom. Or if you have some pictures and photos, you can hang them on the wall.

(2) Value category: If you are in good condition and usually shoot some luxury goods, such as some bags or watches, then you have to take them out at this time, so girls will buy some luxury goods when they see you and naturally know your value.

If these are not available, you can buy some books or import snacks.

Make the above preparations, so that girls can get to know you better, and at the same time, they can successfully get through the embarrassing period when girls just enter the dormitory.

Then the girls come in and talk to you about some related topics you have prepared before. At the end of the conversation, you should open your closet, take out your large T-shirt, throw it in her direction, throw it at him, and tell her: wear this to sleep tonight.

At this time, girls are usually silent and don't talk. Then, if you see the girls don't talk, continue to say that I have prepared a towel and toothbrush for you to remove makeup, and I will give it to you in the bathroom. Feel free.

If you get everything a girl needs ready, she will think that you are more careful and that you have arranged everything for her, and then she just needs to relax and she will have a good impression.

Why do many brothers encounter difficulties in private space? Many times it is because you don't understand empathy, which leads to new problems for girls every step.

After encountering new problems, after all, girls are embarrassed to say it, so they were embarrassed for a time.

Finally, after you get everything ready for her, you need to quit your bedroom, because girls have to change clothes in the bedroom. After all, girls don't want to change clothes here in front of you, and they will feel a little embarrassed after all.

Let the girl change clothes and take a shower by herself. Usually, she goes to bed by herself. When the girl is finished, you can go back to your room, take a shower and go back to sleep by yourself.

Then ... I don't need to say more, hehe.