Why did you pick up the bride at midnight?

Receiving the bride is a very important part of the wedding. Some places are in the morning, and some places are in the afternoon. There are also some places where relatives are picked up in the early hours, such as Chaoshan area. Then why did Chaoshan take over the family in the early morning? What's the reason for picking up the bride at midnight? Let's have a look.

First, the reason for picking up the bride at midnight

1. Traditional customs

In traditional wedding customs, in some areas, the wedding time should be avoided during the day and chosen at night. So the groom will choose midnight to pick up the bride. This is a custom since ancient times, and it is still observed in some areas now.

2. Geographical location

In some areas in ancient times, the geographical position was not good and gangs were rampant. When someone marries a daughter-in-law, gangsters will rob her. In order to avoid the bride being robbed, she chose to pick up the bride quietly in the middle of the night to ensure her safety.

Second, why go to Chaoshan to pick up relatives early in the morning?

1. Get married in the morning

In ancient books, marriage is actually "faint", that is, at dusk. When you get married, you should salute at dusk, which is the idea of harmony between man and nature. Chaoshan area still follows this custom, so many Chaoshan people will pick up relatives in the early morning.

Pick up relatives during the day

In Chaoshan area, if you must choose to pick up relatives during the day, you need to take an umbrella for the bride. After the bride holds an umbrella, it is also a traditional custom to call it "not seeing the sun". However, with the changes of the times, some young people meet their relatives directly during the day and do not follow this custom.

Summary:

The above content is about the introduction of the custom of picking up relatives and relatives in the middle of the night, hoping to help everyone. In fact, this unreasonable traditional marriage custom can be ignored. After all, picking up relatives at night is easy to cause fatigue driving and inconvenience to the bride.