What if my girlfriend is so cute?

Then you must constantly improve yourself, otherwise your girlfriend is too cute and easy to be taken away. Here are four ideas to improve yourself.

1, be kind to time. Having a family and IQ is something we can't choose and control, but there are times when we can choose and decide. What you do with your time, you will get what kind of life. At the same time, others are constantly learning new knowledge, honing their skills and exercising, while you are sitting on the sofa and constantly brushing your mobile phone. There may be no difference between you two days a day, but after a long time, the gap is getting bigger and bigger.

2. Think regularly. Knowing how to think for yourself is the beginning of changing yourself. "Am I satisfied with my present study, work and life? Can I do better? How can I do it better? " These are all things worth thinking about. If the present life is not what you want, then you need to change your life and work mode. If these changes can't save you, then you should find ways to make yourself take a bigger step, such as reading a new degree, taking a new certificate, changing jobs and so on.

If you don't know what you want to do, what you should do, and you are particularly confused, then you should do your own thing well, and then read more books, and the book will give you the answer.

3. Continue to study. Both students and people who work after graduation should constantly learn and improve themselves. In the process of reading, we should learn and develop the habit of reading purposefully and emphatically, so that we can be good at discovering key points, new problems, new ideas and new materials when reading. If your reading efficiency is low, you can learn elite speed reading and master the ability of speed reading.

4. Learn self-discipline. Self-discipline is not forcing yourself to get used to doing things you don't want to do. Self-disciplined people are driven by some internal factors such as thinking mode, cognition of the world, and perspective on problems. Self-discipline is a kind of "performance" after you find your own goal and have your own motivation.

The essential problem is how to find your own motivation and goals. My suggestion is three words "try more", to get in touch with more new things, feel your inner voice in different States, and expand your cognitive level of reality.