Eight steps of mature women's chat-up skills

Speak calmly and don't be frivolous.

Mature women are not the kind of girls who don't understand the world, nor are they the kind of women who are happy when they hear good things and don't know how heavy they are. Mature women have their own accurate judgments and their own self-judgments about likes and dislikes. For a man whose language is frivolous and unstable, a mature woman will not look at it easily. If you want to successfully strike up a conversation with mature women, you should calm your language, don't talk nonsense, and don't talk nonsense in heaven and earth.

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Be polite and know the minimum manners.

There may be some women who are not very steady in their behavior and don't care much about the behavior of men who don't know manners and etiquette, but if you are dealing with a mature woman, then she will definitely care about these. You are welcome to speak, and the first impression that a man speaks like "hello, who" or "are you deaf" is ruined. Generally mature women will have a good impression on men who are polite and have at least manners. For mature women, such a mature and attractive man will naturally add points to your first impression.

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Don't do too much body movements when communicating.

This doesn't mean touching a mature woman. Besides, if you want to talk to a mature woman, you will act like a touch at first. A mature woman is lazy if she doesn't slap you. I mean, when you are in front of or communicating with a mature woman, don't make too many physical movements, such as shaking your legs, picking your nose, coughing, or chewing gum. Remember, these are the little men's tricks that mature women with connotations dislike the most.

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If you want to see each other, just look them in the eye and don't hide.

As for me, I don't like men who secretly look at women. No matter what his status is, if he looks at women with evasive eyes, then I will definitely give him a big white eye and despise him severely. Some women may think that a man secretly observes himself because he is attractive, and even think that it is love or admiration. But what I want to tell you is that a normal woman will like a generous and aggressive man. Although you can't stare at each other all the time, you can look directly at each other generously and don't secretly show a wretched expression.

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Speak and listen moderately.

No matter how patient I am, no matter how much I like that man, if I keep listening, my patience will gradually disappear. Then, when chatting up mature women, please don't feel that because mature women are listening carefully, we should keep looking for topics to talk about. Even if the other person is a taciturn mature woman, he won't have so much patience to listen to your chatter and have nothing to say. You can choose a topic to talk about, but you have to give the initiative to mature women, and then you can quietly be a listener. Switch freely between telling and listening, so that mature women will not be disgusted with you and will not feel noisy.

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Self-introduction is true and reliable, don't talk nonsense.

Of course, you can be humorous. Mature women don't really only like serious women. Humorous language will attract the attention of mature women, but don't talk too much nonsense, especially about your self-introduction, be reliable and true. Because she is a mature woman, she is no longer the frivolous woman, and certainly not the kind of "old aunt" with a straight face. They can judge for themselves the truth of your words. If your head is full of unknown addresses, she will directly sentence you to death. So when chatting up mature women, remember to introduce yourself as truly as possible. Of course, you can choose the right language, but you must not talk nonsense.

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Express your good feelings directly

Although mature women have wisdom and experience that little girls don't have, it doesn't mean that mature women are really willing to guess everyone every day. She will understand very well that you accosted her. She will know exactly what your purpose is. But she is still willing to listen to you personally, at least it shows that you are a real man, not that kind of man. Don't think that mature women have certain wisdom and love guessing games. The most indispensable interpersonal communication of mature women every day is "guessing hearts". In the face of a man who wants to strike up a conversation with himself, you should bother to guess, and mature women will resent it. Well, it's better to express your good feelings directly.

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Show a little domineering belonging to men.

Mature women generally don't have intimate relations with a little boy. Even if you like the sunshine of a little boy, you are fearless, but it is only limited to liking and will never develop into a further relationship. Mature women are also eager to be conquered by a man they admire. They also want to be the weak in the relationship between men and women and the little women protected by men. Remember, if you want to successfully strike up a conversation with a mature woman, you think that being careful will only make her drift away from you, occasionally show your unique domineering belonging to a man, let her know that you are a big man, and you can conquer her and give her enough sureness and security.

In a word, if you communicate with mature women more sincerely, and use a little wisdom and a little "means", you will certainly not be far from success.

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