Why do beautiful women easily miss good men?

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It is easy for us to find a strange phenomenon in our life. Beautiful women tend to marry poor men with the least capital, while good men tend to marry women with average or even a little ugly looks. This statement will immediately attract many people's opposition, especially the opposition of beautiful women, because it is not entirely true, of course I know this, but although it is not all the facts, it is indeed a very common phenomenon that good men do not marry beautiful women. Of course, everyone loves beautiful women. No matter whether this man is good or bad, handsome or ugly, tall or short, men have a beauty complex called "heroes save beauty" and "don't love mountains and rivers, don't love beauty" It can be seen that it is not subjective and intentional for a good man not to marry a beautiful woman, nor does he want to marry, nor does he dislike beautiful women, but there may be other reasons. Of course, a good man here is not equal to a handsome man, more precisely, a high-quality man with all kinds of capital, while a poor man is not equal to an ugly man or a short man, but a gangster man who does not make progress and achieves nothing. Then why don't good men marry beautiful women? Did you get married because you were not confident enough? Or give up knowing that you can't get married? Obviously not. The Excellence of a good man will never give up because he can't get married, and he will never give up because he lacks self-confidence. Compared with men with little capital, a good man can't have the problem of self-confidence. That's weird. I like beautiful women and want to marry them. I have the ability and capital to touch women's hearts. Why are good men and beautiful women more likely to miss marriage? Why don't good men marry beautiful women? In fact, the key issue is that although good men also like beauty, they value inner things more. And beautiful women often become vain because they have been admired and sought after for a long time, and they have developed a "hobby" that likes to be chased by men. Of course, not all beautiful women are like this, but it is undeniable that this is a common phenomenon. The appearance of the beauty she is most proud of is not what he cares about most. Although it is very important to a good man, it is inevitable that there will be "two incompatibility" between a good man and a beautiful woman. Beautiful women like to be chased by men, and good men should cater to this demand of beautiful women. It can be seen that a good man is stingy and not broad-minded, but this is obviously a misunderstanding of the original intention of a good man. It's not that good men don't take the initiative, nor that they don't chase beautiful women. It's just that good men often stop chasing beautiful women. He will never chase down or chase again and again, nor will he bite at the sight of a beautiful woman like a fly. Once a good man confesses to a beautiful woman, but the beautiful woman is ungrateful or even deliberately making things difficult, a good man often chooses to leave. So I missed a good marriage. Some people may say that if a good man is too ungrateful, women should chase after him, especially beautiful women, who need to spend more time chasing after him, or even pursue him repeatedly. In fact, love is a matter between two people, and it should be based on each other's feelings. In essence, there is no question of who is chasing who. Considering the relative passivity of women, men should of course take the initiative, but as a beautiful woman, if she really feels the truth, why should she be so vain? Even deliberately create difficulties? Some people will say that this is a test, but there is no real test in the early days of love. Facts have proved that you don't necessarily cherish what you are chasing. The greatest advantage of a bad man lies in his resilience in chasing beautiful women. Even if the beauty hates him at first, as long as she sticks to her like a fly and pursues her, the beauty will sooner or later enter his bag, which is really a great sorrow for the beauty. Beauty is a gift and love from heaven, but besides appearance, beauty should also have real love and a happy marriage. Ordinary-looking women can marry good men, and beautiful women should also marry good men. Why can't a beautiful woman put down her vanity in the face of a good man she loves? Even if women chase men, why not? Of course, it is difficult, but we should not be too proud and deliberately embarrass the suitors. You know, a bad guy doesn't care about your difficulties at all, because he doesn't have any capital, so he is good at chasing after you. If you are moved only by this pursuit of him, or marry a man he doesn't love because of his final weakness, it will be hurt by his vanity. It's not that a good man doesn't chase beautiful women, but he will never chase them too hard, because what he values most is the inner things. He must have found your excessive vanity, and your vanity only comes from beautiful appearance rather than inner things, so he will choose to leave. Of course, every woman has vanity. In fact, men also have vanity, but not too much. If they go too far, they will be harmed by vanity. After all, marriage is a lifetime thing. In fact, love and marriage are destiny takes a hand's fate in the final analysis, but fate is only a general concept. In the end, who you fall in love with and get married is largely in your own hands. It doesn't mean that a beautiful woman must marry a handsome guy, nor does it mean that a bad man without capital can't marry a beautiful woman, because no matter how bad he is, he still has considerable advantages without capital. Therefore, the purpose of writing this article is not to advocate that marriage must be suitable or talented. Of course, ugly men can marry beautiful women, ugly women can also marry handsome men, talented women with incompetent men, and good men with rogue women. There is no uniform standard model for love and marriage. Just don't miss a beautiful marriage because of so-called face and vanity. A beautiful woman doesn't mean that she must marry a good man, because marriage is sometimes variable, but at least she shouldn't miss the good man in front of her, especially the good man who professes to you because of vanity pleasure. After all, the beauty of appearance is only temporary, and beauty will eventually grow old. For those pursuers, beautiful women should keep their eyes open. What did he see in your pursuit? If it's just appearance, it's probably time for him to abandon you when your beauty fades. Whether a man really loves you can't be measured by whether he pursues you. If you are indifferent to his pursuit and confession, you don't love you. A good man who knows love will not pursue a woman who doesn't love himself unless he has other designs, for example, all he wants is your beauty. He doesn't care whether you love him or not. He's only after you, that's all. And a woman who can only be captured by chasing her is simply a brainless woman without her own judgment. All she wants is the vanity pleasure of being chased, and a really good man is bound to stay away from such a woman. Therefore, beautiful women should see this clearly and have a rational and profound understanding of it.