Back-to-door banquet taboo 3 days back-to-door 4 kinds of gifts

Huimen banquet is a wedding custom of Han nationality since ancient times. There are some taboos when returning to the door. Let's look at the taboos of the back-door banquet.

First, the back door banquet taboo

1, the time to return to the door

The time for returning to the door is the third, sixth or seventh, eighth and ninth day after marriage, and in some places it is one month before returning to the door. Therefore, it is suggested that the specific return time should be based on local customs.

2. Dress for the back door

Generally, the bride doesn't have to wear a wedding dress on the day she returns to China, but the newlyweds should also pay attention to dressing up, and it is best to keep a beautiful posture, and the groom should dress up handsomely on that day. If the banquet is held in a hotel, it is suggested that the bride still wear a simple dress or cheongsam, which looks more noble and elegant. The color suggestion is red series, which is more dignified and atmospheric.

Step 3 return the gift

When returning to the door, the newcomer is not slack enough, but he should be polite. The groom needs to bring some gifts home to honor his parents-in-law, and it is better to prepare even-numbered gifts, which means that yes-men will have a happier marriage in the future.

4. Don't repeat the ceremony

On the wedding day of the couple, if they have been to church and made a toast, there is no need to repeat these ceremonies at the return banquet. I would like to say a few words briefly, thanking my parents for their upbringing and thanking the guests present.

Two or three days, four kinds of gifts.

1, four common gifts

In the tradition of China people, these four kinds of gifts are generally cigarettes, famous wine, candy and tea. These gifts are generally well-known brands, so that people have face.

2. Four other gifts

(1) health products

In addition to children, middle-aged and elderly people also need to replenish their bodies. Middle-aged and elderly people generally have some minor health problems, so they can send some health care products to their parents appropriately. However, in some places, some people think that health care products are unlucky, and they should know the local customs before sending them.

(2) Fruit milk

Fruit and milk are never wrong gifts. At the same time, it also shows that you are considerate and express your mind, and you can buy some high-end milk and more expensive fruit.

(3) Massage apparatus

The lumbar vertebrae and cervical vertebrae of middle-aged and elderly people are not very good, so they need regular massage to relax. So I suggest that you can choose massage equipment, so parents will like it very much.

(4) Hometown specialties

You can bring some local specialties to the woman's parents when you go back to visit. After all, every local specialty has a different flavor, which will make the woman's parents feel more at ease.

Summary:

This paper introduces in detail what four kinds of gifts are taboo about back door banquet and three-day back door banquet. I believe everyone knows more about the back door banquet, and I hope it will help you. Flower wedding electronic invitation, providing a variety of wedding invitation templates, so that you can easily get super-beautiful wedding invitations and press your circle of friends to make you look good!