Just 30 years old, what potential rules of society have been exposed?

There are many classic dialogues in the play, three of which are the most heartfelt lines, revealing the extremely frightening social hidden rules.

0 1: "I believe you can change it, no wonder!" Do you often hear people say that "having children can enhance the relationship between husband and wife?" But is this really the case? Zhong has a lot of dissatisfaction with her husband. Chen Yu often doesn't answer the phone or return messages. He cares more about fish than his wife. After Zhong became pregnant, she heard a colleague say, "When a woman is pregnant, it is a highlight moment, just like a queen. When I am pregnant, I want to eat pizza at 4 am. My husband got up and bought it from me without saying anything. "

Qin Xiao believed it. Chen Yu must be very worried about herself when she thinks that she is pregnant. After dinner, she called Chen Yu to pick him up. Chen Yu said, "I'm busy here" and refused her.

In fact, he is busy with his fish. Sleeping until midnight, Qin Xiao told Chen Yu that she wanted to eat sour plum soup. Chen Yu asked her to buy it with mobile phone software. Qin Xiao said that he married someone, not a mobile app, and he had to get up to buy it. Chen Yu said grumpily, "What's the fuss about in the middle of the night?" She fell asleep.

Qin Xiao shouted angrily: "I believe you can change!" " "

Once a man's habits are formed, it is difficult to change them because of the arrival of children. I know a little sister whose husband wants her to have a second child. She said, if you smoke and drink and don't have children, then I won't have children. Her husband vowed, "As long as you have a second child, I will quit smoking and drinking." As a result, she gave birth to a second child. What makes her angry is that instead of giving up smoking and drinking, her husband is more fierce than before.

He got his wish and gave birth to a son. He was so happy that he had to smoke and drink. Men don't change just because women have children. He should do whatever he wants. Besides, the woman has given birth, can you put the child back in your stomach? A leopard cannot change his spots, so a woman should think twice before deciding whether to have children: if your husband takes good care of you, he will continue to have children. If he always ignores you, believe me, even if you have children, he is likely to go his own way.

02: "The customer is paying for this brand again. You changed this dress and walked out of the shop. Who are you? " Wang Manni was framed by her colleagues, saying that she took the customer's receipt to exchange points privately. This is a no-no in any shopping mall, and you will be fired.

Mannia came to the assistant manager and asked him to protect her. She can't do such a stupid thing. The deputy store manager said that she didn't believe Wang Manni did it, but with her personal ability, she couldn't influence the opinions of other leaders of the company. Wang Manni took out her own "killer"-she had 12 high-quality customers and followed her for many years.

Manny said that if the mall didn't find out the truth of this matter and exonerate her, she would take all these customers away.

The assistant manager told her to stop and never say such things again. The deputy store said: "The customer pays for this brand of cattle. You changed this dress and walked out of the shop. Who are you? " .

There are many people in Rainbow Manny. They always mistake the platform for skills. When Arnold Schwarzenegger was governor of California, he attended the opening ceremony of a hotel named after his statue. The hotel owner said to him, "You can come over at any time and we will reserve a room for you." Schwarzenegger listened, but when he left office as governor, he went to this hotel again. The style of painting of the hotel owner suddenly changed, from being polite to being disdainful now. The boss said he should pay. Their hotel business is booming and the demand for rooms is in short supply. So, he slept under his statue in anger, took photos and posted them online, lamenting that times have changed so much.

He said: "When I was in an important position, they always praised me. When I lost this position, they forgot me and broke their promise. Don't trust your position or money, your strength or your wisdom, which won't last long. " Man's greatest misfortune is to think that the earth can't turn without himself. This is a kind of sadness, a kind of chaos without self-knowledge. Who were you when you actually left your seat? When you lose your wealth, beauty, wisdom, status and power, really few people can recognize you.

03: "It turns out that it was me who was laid off in the group photo of these wives and friends. "Gu Jia graduated from a prestigious school, started a business with her husband and opened a fireworks company. After having a son, she became a full-time wife. In order to get her son into the top kindergarten, she gritted her teeth and bought a luxury house worth 10 million yuan. Mrs. Wang took her to the rich woman's party. She put on the most formal dress and carried her most expensive bag. She went confidently and proudly.

Unexpectedly, she was slapped in the face by reality soon: she could not enter this circle at all.

When she arrived, she carefully put her bag behind the stool. A lady next to her said, "The stool is so small, and you still have a bag. Is it crowded to sit like this? " Gu Jia said, a little. Then she took out her bag. Looking around, she found that the ladies' bags were thrown on the ground at will and should not be taken care of like babies at all. Gu Jia took a group photo with his wives. She is a smart person and knows that her bag is dwarfed by those of her wives. So, she carried the bag on her back.

Here comes the most exciting scene. Back in the car, Gu Jia looked through her circle of friends and found that she was not in the photos of the ladies. She suddenly realized: "It turned out that she was the one who was laid off in the group photo of these ladies' circle of friends. "

In real life, there are many people like Gu Jia who desperately want to squeeze into a circle stronger than themselves and try their best to prove that they are the same kind of people. As we all know, when you are not qualified, people in that circle look down on you. Squeezing in can only ask for trouble. The author Juck Zhang said in "Different Circles, No Need to Be Powerful": "Value exchange is the answer to everything." The exchange of values is dynamic: a circle that can't be integrated for a while doesn't mean that the future doesn't belong to you. If you want to enter the circle, it is either useful or glorious. Therefore, instead of getting into a certain circle, it is better to improve your ability and help others solve problems; Either enhance your own value and make people in the circle proud of knowing you.