The hotel responded that the woman was refused to live with her parents.

Women in Gansu don't want to live with their in-laws and ask their husbands to send them back to their hometown. Why don't women want to live with the elderly?

1. Why is this woman in Gansu so unwilling to live with her in-laws?

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very old topic, and it is also a topic that people often discuss. In Gansu, a married man brought his parents from his hometown to live with them in the city. At first, his wife didn't have any opinions, but after they had children, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seemed to be more and more prominent. Because young people's habits of taking care of children are different from those of the elderly, some elderly people still follow the previous concepts when taking care of children, such as indulging their children in watching TV, playing games and often buying snacks for them. They think this is love for children, but it is not the case in the eyes of young people. Therefore, the contradiction between the two sides is becoming more and more fierce. Finally, the woman simply asked her husband to send her in-laws back to their hometown, and she came to see the children herself.

Second, in taking care of children, parents-in-law should respect the opinions of young people.

It is normal to be loved by grandparents and grandchildren, not to mention that people say that the two places are separated. But some old people's habits are really not conducive to the growth of children. In this regard, they should respect the opinions of young people, which is not only conducive to the growth of children, but also conducive to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Third, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should respect each other.

? Although many people have a headache about the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, some of them are still very harmonious. In daily life, daughters-in-law should respect their elders, and elders should also respect their daughters-in-law. As long as we understand each other and take the initiative to overcome our own shortcomings, I believe this will make the relationship between the two sides more harmonious. In addition, when encountering any problems, we must communicate more to avoid misunderstanding, and the husband should also play a regulatory role, so as to make the whole family more harmonious.