What the bride price wants is not money, but an attitude of the man. Do you agree?

Bride price is a bad habit. If money is an attitude, then why talk about love? Just pay for it.

This belongs to the kind of saying that you have to be a bitch and set up a memorial arch. Originally, as a traditional wedding custom in some places, a moderate bride price is understandable, but the reality is that in many places, this kind of bride price is getting higher and higher. In order to marry a daughter-in-law, the man's family often borrows money from scratch and owes a lot of money after marriage. In this case, it is even necessary to say something like attitude. The person who holds this statement is a bitch who has set up a memorial arch.

How much is the bride price? It is the embodiment of the marriage contract between men and women, the starting capital of the newly married couple's new life, and the sincerity of the man's family to the woman's family.

In fact, the bride price money in poor areas is generally reserved for the woman's parents as a subsidy, while the city people generally use it as a dowry, even much higher than the bride price money. It is normal for people with conditions to marry off their houses. Therefore, the poorer the bride price, the more important it is, and the poorer the better. When people no longer care about and discuss how much the bride price is, it shows that society and economy have indeed improved.

Regarding the amount of bride price money, it is necessary to consider the literacy and wisdom of girls. If you value each other's personality, you won't care about the bride price. If you value money above everything else, or even force others to bear it, and you don't understand other people's difficulties, then your value is nothing more than that, which virtually discounts your personality. If it is the latter, please think carefully before marriage, and don't harm others and yourself! The failure of some marriages is the initial curse.

There are two opinions about the attitude of giving bride price: one can understand that the man is really in financial difficulties and has no ability to give it. The other is that the man has money and doesn't want to give too much. Of course, there are other people's plans and reasons. There is no need to find out. Curiosity can easily kill cats. Are you going to get married or get a bride price? If you really can't get through that hurdle, then you can consider not getting married.

Some people say that the bride price is the guarantee of marriage and the constraint of the man. If the woman has no confidence in herself, why should she get married?

In fact, how much is given is the mind of the husband's family, as well as the woman's valuation in the eyes of the man. So don't force this kind of thing, some things can't be won, and tens of thousands more will make you happy? When livestock are sold in the market, there are many opportunities to make money when young people get married. Why make both sides unhappy in order to ask for tens of thousands of bride price money There is plenty of time, but at least the family has to get along well in the future.

Rich parents will not hesitate to spend money on their children.

Newcomer, please give yourself a good start!

Fenghua Wei' an

June 3(rd), 2020

Xie Wukong invited: I beg to differ from this sentence! If you say so, it belongs to: self-deception, duplicity, shattered glass. What is a bride price? It's either money or things. No matter how much bride price you give a woman, it doesn't mean that this is a man's promise to a woman. Sometimes a man even gives his life to a woman. Doesn't that represent a man's attitude? People should dare to face the reality and tell the truth. I think there is nothing wrong with women asking for a bride price. Parents bring up their daughters, even if they don't save some private money for themselves, they should also give their parents some support and pension money. This is understandable, as long as it is not a lion's mouth. Familiar, free love, bride price may be less. Do not know, through the introduction of the matchmaker, bride price as a means of trading. The more bride price is given, the higher the marriage rate is. Some people take a fancy to each other's huge bride price not for the feelings of two people, as long as both sides are willing to accept it.

In real life, people with higher education will not take the "bride price" as the capital to talk about marriage, nor will they blackmail each other because they can't get the bride price. On the contrary, in some marginal rural areas and mountainous areas, there are more "bachelors", and the families of girls who can't marry their daughters-in-law and are poor in cities are more concerned about the amount of bride price.

Speaking of bride price, I think of my childhood. 1982 Before we got engaged, 350 yuan was the only gift at home for my daughter-in-law. On my way home, she gave me 350 yuan back. She also said, "I want you, not your money." ...

People who really love each other don't care about the amount of bride price, but whether two people can care about each other, tolerate each other, respect each other, love each other and grow old together. As a woman, you should know how to respect and love yourself. Never be a financial monopolist or a spiritual beggar. The bride price has always been a topic of discussion. How to achieve the best of both worlds, so that a loving couple can enter the marriage hall as soon as possible and complete the turning point of life. The man should marry and the woman should marry. Peacocks no longer fly southeast because they can't get the bride price money.

What the bride price wants is not money, but an attitude of the man. Do you agree? The bride price is not much, but a man's promise.

Marriage is a lifelong thing for two people, and the bride price money can only be said to be a promise from the man to the woman, a promise that he dares to face for a lifetime.

The bride price money has changed in many places. The higher the bride price, the higher the price. The lower the bride price, like a dwarf's head, he wronged himself. Many parents always want to prepare for their daughters' future needs, so as not to be wronged in the future, but to ask for more. After this village, there is no such shop. I never consider men's feelings. Where does the bride price money come from? They never consider the cause and effect, and always feel at ease.

According to the actual situation to solve practical problems, pointing out that the bride price money is understandable, but it is a bit unreasonable to say something according to the man's economic strength. As the saying goes, "I made a kiss and changed my heart". Put yourself in others' shoes. You should marry your daughter, but you can't let your daughter be full of people inside and outside. How to face future parents-in-law?

What the bride price wants is not money, but the man's attitude. If you are uneasy about playing cards often, you should consider your own self-interest. To put it mildly, the bride price is not money. What is this? It's the hard-earned money of the man's family, saved through his teeth for his son's marriage, and borrowed by relatives and friends. Do you think the man's attitude needs to be heavily in debt I think it's almost enough, just what you want. Why bother tens of thousands? Is there no room for bargaining?

Material Gu Ran is important, but it should be based on the actual situation. If the man is penniless, it really makes no sense. Within the scope of family ability, the man gives a promise and the man takes responsibility. Family happiness comes from mutual understanding and tolerance, and love should be soul mate. As long as this person is sincere and does not play tricks, honesty is more important than anything else.

A real example, let's see how people achieve "the bride price is not the money, but the man's attitude".

Not long ago, a girl in our village got married. The man's family asked her parents how much the bride price was. The woman's parents said: The bride price money is up to you, and the rural general market will do. There is no point in not having a penny. The man's family has always been confused. Why is there no approval?

On the wedding day, the man's family came with 100 thousand bride price money. When the daughter got on the wedding car, the parents wrapped up another 60,000 yuan, together with the bride price money of the man, 16. 1 10,000 yuan, and gave it to the newlywed groom. The daughter is puzzled. Why did the bride price money come back from the man's home? My daughter's father said this: this money is the pension money of other people's parents. You young people have hands and feet, and you should create your own future. When you have money in your hand and have the ability to be filial to your parents, then we will accept it with confidence. Children suddenly feel too young, and parents are really great.

Neighbors think that the woman's parents are really powerful, so that the child will not be wronged when he marries the man, but the two families will be closer.

Friends, through the cases witnessed by the author, I also feel ashamed, how atmospheric and reasonable. Why can some people keep the bride price money for themselves? Is bride price money really a girl's hard-earned money? How much is the bride price? Can expensive bride price really make children happy? The author believes that it is better to do what you can. The happiness of a child's life cannot be measured by a bride price. It should be considered from many aspects. It's not too much to ask for a little bride price, but try to smile perfectly.

Disagree. The bride price itself is the seed money for the young couple to start their lives, but now it has become the reason for some mother-in-law to chip in to buy a car and a house for her brother-in-law. The bride price in a good place is brought back as a dowry after the woman gets it. It is used to start the basic life of husband and wife, not to force the man to death. Now it has put the cart before the horse.

Nowadays, the bride price has always been a hot topic of discussion. I don't agree that the bride price is not money, but the man, but I don't object. Hong Hong spoke with the personal experience of her two generations. I got married in the 1990s. At that time, basically the bride price given by the man was around 10 thousand.

At that time, because my husband pursued me, I gave up my girlfriend who had been in contact for three years, and it was time to talk about marriage.

Because he met me, he gave him up. At that time, his parents spent a lot of money and did not agree with him to give up. Of course, he wouldn't listen. So his parents never spent a penny on me.

I got a marriage license, but I didn't even have a wedding. My mother-in-law didn't give me a penny, but she kept muttering that my family had no dowry.

My parents have always kept in mind that this daughter is not married and has not given a dowry. It was not until 20 1 1 that the wedding was reissued. Of course, I arranged it myself. I just invited my relatives to a late wedding reception.

My parents still gave me 50 thousand cash as a dowry in front of my mother-in-law and their folks. Since then, my mother-in-law has changed a lot, and I no longer say that there is no dowry at home.

Actually, I really want to spray her You didn't come to the bride price. Parents don't even have weddings. Why do you care about other people's dowry? So in any case, no matter how much, the man should give some bride price, which is affirmation and respect for the woman. Some mothers-in-law think cheap things are not good.

My sister married my daughter, but the man didn't give the bride price. Now this society! People always want hundreds of thousands of bride price, but my sister doesn't want any.

The man didn't have a wedding at that time, and he gave birth to two children before making up. My brother-in-law gave him 6.5438 million as a dowry and bought bedding.

On the wedding day, my sister set ten tables in the hotel, and the banquet was very rich. She went to the man's house, just like we usually do. Maybe it's their custom. My uncle said it was similar to our banquet in the 1970s and 1980s.

Let the facts speak for themselves. In the 1990s, 10, two generations did not want the bride price, but posted it upside down. What did you say?/Sorry? Not all people value money.

We seldom get back the bride price and don't marry him. Most of them are upside down.

Now it's nothing more than someone asking the man for a large bride price, and regardless of this family background, they just feel that they deserve to have a daughter.

There should not be many such parents. Everyone wants their children to be happy. The bride price was only nine Niu Yi cents at that time. I feel that I have a light in front of my relatives and friends, find a rich son-in-law, and then marry him and return it.

If the bride price is not returned, it is to see how much parents love their daughters. I quite agree with this sentence. If the man's family is obviously rich, but he doesn't want to give any bride price, it doesn't mean that he wants to be empty-handed He feels that the woman's family is easy to bully, and he doesn't give him face. If someone said how much money he spent on his wife, he would definitely say that he didn't need it. She uploaded it voluntarily. It seems that he has face, regardless of women's face. This disrespectful man really can't marry. In his mind, you are really worthless. If the man has no money at home, it is actually negotiable. Tell me about your actual situation and how much you can afford. The woman's family mainly depends on the attitude of the man's family, and the attitude will be approved by the woman's family.

The bride price can be based on whether a family or a person is reasonable, and the bride price depends on the character. Many times, the bride price demanded by the woman's family is just to test the attitude of the man's family. Many families are so savage that they don't treat their daughters-in-law as human beings at all. At this time, it can be seen that if it is a sensible family, it must be discussed. The bride price of the man's family is not a loss. Generally, the dowry of a woman's family will be more than that of a man's family. What is the man's family?

Not long ago, I saw a news that a doctor asked a pregnant woman to keep her baby safe during childbirth. The pregnant woman's family is absent, only her husband's family. The married husband's family actually said that they should care for their children. Fortunately, the doctor ignored the advice of her husband's family and directly protected the adults. The adult was lucky to survive. It is really chilling to think about it. His own life can't be in his own hands, but also depends on other people's opinions. Think again, if this pregnant woman marries her husband's family, when giving her up, the husband's family will consider whether it will spend a lot of money to find another wife if there is no daughter-in-law. At the beginning, all the money spent was wasted. In the face of money, the husband's family will consider more. If the daughter-in-law doesn't want money, don't even think about it. It doesn't cost money anyway. Just change it. That is the reality.

What the bride price wants is money, and more importantly, the man's attitude. However, some women have a big mouth on the issue of bride price, asking for10.002 billion. Some men's families can only give an attitude and can't afford to pay back.

Money is the foundation of love, and love without money will never be strong!

Disagree with this view. Obviously, it is the woman's parents who regard marrying a woman as a money transaction, which is no different from selling a woman. It is a bad habit handed down from the old society that a woman marries a woman and asks her husband's family for a bride price. It is popular in rural areas and rare in cities, which shows the importance of civilization.

Once this ethos is formed in poor rural areas, it will have a chain reaction, thinking that marrying a woman is like splashing water. If a son marries a daughter-in-law, he must get it back, or the family will be in financial deficit. Families with many sons will worry about not getting a wife for their sons. Families with many daughters think that their daughters will belong to other people's families sooner or later, and are unwilling to provide them with a good education and marry them off early.

At this stage of social development, equality between men and women, and the bad habit of asking for bride price should have been abolished long ago. Boys and girls are born the same and enjoy the same right to education. Girls should not be arbitrarily deprived of their right to education, nor should they get married prematurely in exchange for bride price. Love and marriage are voluntary things for both men and women. There is no need to test each other's sincerity with a bride price. If this is the touchstone, does the man also have the right to ask for a bride price?