Precautions for bridesmaids. . . What should I do and what can't I do as a bridesmaid?

Ever since I told my cousin that she was going to be the maid of honor at my wedding, my cousin was very worried that she would screw up. She said that she had never been a bridesmaid and didn't know what to do that day. Finally, drop me a line and I'll see what you want me to do. I feel dizzy. Although the bridesmaid is really responsible for completing all kinds of tasks assigned by the bride, you can't say that you want others to ask you to do it. You should take the initiative to solve things for the couple. So, in order to enlighten my cousin to be a bridesmaid, I became a bridesmaid three times. Let me tell you what the bridesmaids did that day. Speaking of the wedding day, perhaps the bridesmaid is the busiest and hardest person. Couples may not be very tired all day, because they are more excited and many things are done by others. As for the best man, he can almost rest with the groom when eating, but the bridesmaids are really busy from morning till night, so here are the things that bridesmaids should do in all aspects of the day.

1, wedding in the morning

Usually bridesmaids need to arrive at the bride's house early. If you live far away, you will naturally arrive at the bride's house the night before. When the bride puts on makeup, in fact, the bridesmaids have a lot of things to do. They don't just stand by and watch the bride put on makeup.

First of all, we should count and pack all the clothes that the bride needs to prepare that day, some small red envelopes, clothes that she needs to wear when she goes home, etc. Because the bride has no time to take care of these things, the bride's parents probably don't know whether to wear these clothes, so the bridesmaids she wants should be taken care of. Especially in clothes, you must not miss anything, otherwise the day will be very hectic.

Secondly, we have to come up with many small problems to embarrass our groom and sisters, but we can't take the bride away so easily. And for the fun of taking pictures with the camera later, we have to embarrass the groom a lot. However, bridesmaids should also pay attention to the time. If the trouble lasts for a long time, it's best to be infernal affairs, put some water and let the groom come in quickly.

Finally, the newlyweds must be with the bride when they offer tea, because the red envelopes given by their parents are not easy to put away, and the newlyweds should also respect their mothers after giving their fathers a New Year call. If they still have red envelopes in their hands, it will be very inconvenient. At this time, the bridesmaid had better take the red envelopes from the bride and help her concentrate them in the red envelope bag prepared by the bride, which is also convenient for the bride to count the red envelopes after the wedding.

2. Noon banquet

The banquet at noon is actually more relaxed. As long as everyone is responsible for eating quickly, it is good to store energy. But at this time, the bridesmaid still has something to do, that is, pay attention to whether the bride has any special needs, such as going to the toilet ... Because the bride is covered with white gauze during the day, because the skirt is loose and it is difficult to go to the toilet, so if the bride wants to go to the toilet, the bridesmaid should also keep up quickly and be responsible for helping her put away all the gauze to prevent her clothes from getting dirty.

3. Afternoon location

On location in the afternoon, the responsibility of bridesmaids can be said to be very simple. If the bride has any idea about the location, then the bridesmaid is responsible for holding all the necessary props and paying attention to whether the bride's clothes are available. Also responsible for answering the bride's phone. Because usually on location, family members will contact some dinner activities, and newcomers may not have time to answer when they are busy filming. At this time, the bridesmaid will act as a megaphone, answer the phone and convey it in time.

4. Preparation before dinner

The bridesmaids also have something to do before returning from the location and before the dinner begins. It can be said that it is time for all staff to take active actions.

The first thing is to remind the best man to order a working meal for the couple and the staff before the dinner. If they don't have enough to eat, they will be very tired if they struggle for another two or three hours, so we must remember to remind them to solve this gastrointestinal problem.

Secondly, I am responsible for helping the makeup artist put on the wedding dress for the bride. Nowadays, many wedding dresses are in the style of straps. If only one person wears it, time may be tight. Therefore, the bridesmaid should also give a hand and be a little assistant to the makeup artist to help her complete the makeup modeling and costume preparation of the bride as soon as possible.

5. Welcome at night

The evening can be said to be a physical fitness test. The most tiring thing for bridesmaids to accompany newcomers is to tidy up the bride's skirt. Now it can be said that almost every bride will wear a long drag when greeting guests on the wedding day. When welcoming guests, once you move a little, your tail will fall off. In order not to damage the image, bridesmaids have to squat and tidy their tails all the time, which can be said to be quite tired. However, this is also something that must be done. The bridesmaid's duty is to make the bride beautiful on that day, so it is natural to spend more snacks.

6. Dinner in the evening

At the banquet in the evening, it is also difficult for bridesmaids to rest. If the process requires it, the bridesmaid should also follow up the whole process. At the same time, every time the bride changes clothes, the bridesmaids should follow up and go out to help. In the last toast, the bridesmaid poured the wine from the bottle, so it can be said that she still can't rest.

The bridesmaids have a lot of things to do that day, and they should pay attention to many things themselves.

1, need to prepare a pair of comfortable low-heeled shoes.

As I said above, the bridesmaids had a very difficult day. Moreover, the protagonist of the wedding is a newcomer, so the bridesmaids naturally don't have to highlight themselves too much. Therefore, if you don't have to wear high heels, you'd better not wear them. If you wear high heels, it is not only easy to grab the camera with the bride, on the other hand, it is estimated that your feet will be tired at the end of the day and it will be uncomfortable for you. Therefore, it is necessary to prepare a pair of comfortable low-heeled shoes.

You need to pay close attention to everything about the bride.

On the wedding day, the couple can say that everything should be presented perfectly to everyone, especially the bride. So bridesmaids should pay attention to many things. For example, when the bride was picked up by her younger brother, did she walk naked and whether her skirt would be lifted? When on location, the clothes wrapped around the chest will slide down more easily because of running and jumping, so will the underwear inside be exposed? When you go back to the hotel to change clothes after the location, you also need to prepare a soothing mask in advance, so that the bride's skin can get some rest and nourishment, which is more convenient for later makeup. At the dinner party, if the bride hasn't eaten anything before, she can also bring some food to the dressing room when she changes clothes before toasting, so that she can quickly put a cushion first to prevent the discomfort caused by drinking on an empty stomach. In addition, there are some details that bridesmaids should pay attention to. In short, always pay attention to the bride and do it as soon as you see something to do.

3. Need can accept some grievances.

The bridesmaid is not only tired that day, but also may not be comforted and understood by others. But when toasting, maybe everyone will get bridesmaids, too. At this time, bridesmaids should try their best to be patient and bear some small grievances as much as possible, so that newcomers will appreciate you. If you play with a straight face and lose your temper just because you are a little tired, it will be very bad for the newcomers.

About bridesmaids, it is not particularly difficult. As long as you have enough patience and care, and a mood of wishing the couple happiness and doing something for them, you will definitely become a qualified and excellent bridesmaid.