Both men and women have their own families. What's the best ending for after making love at work?

First: "She has a family and I have a family. She is my best friend of the opposite sex, but we did something we shouldn't have done. Although I feel guilty about my wife, I can't let her go. " My name is Cheng Feng, and I'm 30 years old. My wife and I have been married for five years and have a three-year-old daughter. My wife is gentle and lovely, probably because she gave birth to a child. In recent years, she has become unkempt, out of shape, and has a bad temper.

We are all drifting north of Beijing. Fortunately, with the help of our parents, we bought a house and a car in Beijing soon after we got married. When everything went well, I abandoned my marriage. She is my colleague. Let's call her gardenia. She is two years older than me. She is married and has children. When we are colleagues, we are always friendly. There is no denying that I had a crush on her at that time. She is intellectual, gentle and dignified, and I like the feeling of being with her. For men and women with families, after making love has only one best ending: becoming a stranger.

After she came to the company for half a year, colleagues began to spread our story behind her back, saying that our relationship was very good, beyond the normal colleague relationship. I'm not angry at these rumors, but I'm happy. Gardenia must have heard it, but she didn't tell me and treated me as before. After that, I felt that she felt different about me. One afternoon after work, we were all working overtime. When everyone left, she came to my station and said she would resign. I asked her why, and she said she didn't want me to be influenced. Her eyes lit up when she said this. I couldn't help holding her hand and she slipped away. That was three years ago, and she resigned soon after that.

After Gardenia resigned, we chatted every day and met for dinner every once in a while, but we kept our distance. Her husband knows me, and my wife knows her, but they all think we are just good friends of the opposite sex. This happened before the New Year in China. I asked her out to dinner and wanted to invite her to dinner at the end of the year. On the same day, my wife went to other places to attend the annual meeting of the company, and my daughter gave it to her mother-in-law. Gardenia's husband is on a business trip. Because of the busy business, the children are at grandma's house.

We drank some red wine at dinner. With the strength of wine, I suggest not going home tonight. Let's have a long talk somewhere. Gardenia didn't speak, just nodded slightly. As soon as she drank it, she went to the top and blushed She looks beautiful. I took gardenia to the western restaurant upstairs in the hotel. As expected, we had sex. Going home the next day, we didn't mention it on WeChat, but Gardenia's attitude towards me became extremely cold. Later she said, let's get along well. I don't want to influence your wife.

And gardenia after making love, they feel guilty when they see their wives, but they still can't help thinking about her. Around the Spring Festival, the epidemic suddenly became serious. I was worried that Gardenia didn't have a mask, so I went around looking for someone to buy her a mask. My wife saw my mask purchase list and asked me if I was too close to gardenia. Even if you are good friends, keep your distance. Because we had a cold war for two days, and now I'm confused. As a family member, can we really only be strangers after having sex with friends of the opposite sex? As can be seen from Cheng Feng's narrative, he had a good impression on Gardenia in the second year of marriage and the year when his wife was pregnant.

As we all know, it is not easy for women during pregnancy, and it is not easy for men. However, some men can keep the bottom line, and some men will secretly desert. Cheng Feng is the latter. A man has a good impression on women outside marriage during his wife's pregnancy, but that's all: First, his wife can't meet his emotional needs and needs to seek comfort outside marriage. Second, this man is in turmoil, and his wife's pregnancy gives him an excuse to look at Cheng Feng's description of his wife. After giving birth to a child, she is out of shape and has a bad temper. She used to be gentle and charming.

At this time, there was a gentle and lovely woman who always liked her, and Cheng Feng was tempted. But did Cheng Feng really fall in love with her opposite sex friend Gardenia? I don't think so. From beginning to end, he loved himself. Gardenia is just another side of his wife. He has always liked gentle and intellectual women. If you understand this, I think Cheng Feng doesn't think she met her soul mate in marriage. In fact, most people will have sex with someone who happens to be similar to their partner. Marriage and family therapists generally believe that extramarital affairs are an illusion that operates in an artificial environment.

Think deeply. Why did gardenia give Cheng Feng the cold shoulder after they had sex? Because she saw the relationship between two people, but it was an illusion she made herself. So is Cheng Feng. Only by understanding this can she return to her family as soon as possible from the absurd extramarital affair. Cheng Feng should also understand that marriage is not a child's play. As husband and wife, they should share the responsibilities of the family, instead of shirking their responsibilities and abandoning their wives because of selfishness. A man who gets married after having sex with a friend of the opposite sex has only one best ending: being a stranger and returning to his family. Don't let this relationship affect your wife, or you will be at your own risk.