A birthday party costs 200 thousand, and parents can't tell how hard it is. After dinner, they will arrange for the children to play.

Now, because every family doesn't want children as desperately as before, parents love their children very much. After all, there are only one or two children, and parents have the energy to accompany and take care of them. The improvement of living standards has also brought endless benefits to children.

In order to prevent children from feeling "different" treatment, many parents are now trying their best to secretly compete, in order to make their children have face at all times! Just as many parents attach great importance to their children's birthdays now, such birthday parties are also occasions and opportunities for many parents to earn face for their children.

Recently, Ms. Li from Taiyuan, Shanxi Province was exhausted because of her son's birthday party. Under normal circumstances, it is understandable that children want to have birthdays. Parents can also ask their children to invite some friends who usually have a good time to dinner at home. This can make the feelings between these children closer and satisfy their wishes.

And eating a meal will not bring unnecessary trouble to the family, so many parents are not very resistant to their children's birthday parties at first.

But in Shanxi and other places, there is a custom. When their children's birthday is 12, parents must hold a grand birthday party in order to let their children live a healthier and happier life in the future. Although there is no scientific basis for all this, no parents are willing to let their children do "experiments" according to customs and sayings.

And this incident has also become an opportunity for some parents to show off. Over time, it has also evolved into an occasion for adults to compare with each other. These children have gradually deviated from the normal three views in the psychology of comparing with adults, which makes many children think that only the more money they spend and the more spectacular the scene is, is the time when they have the most face.

In addition, Ms. Yan, a woman in Taiyuan, is also facing the same dilemma as Ms. Li. Originally, her family life was not poor, but at the same time, she was not a rich family. If you just take your children to a meal, there is no problem at all, but the key point is that if you just take your children to a meal, their children will be looked down upon in the future, because the parents of other students will give them a birthday party comparable to a wedding.

Even so, after the birthday party, many parents will arrange for their children to go to the movies or amusement parks. After that, spend tens of thousands a day, just like playing.

A hotel in Taiyuan, the birthday party of a child aged 12, verified what Ms. Li and Ms. Yan said. I don't know, as soon as I entered the hotel, I saw decorative strips and red carpets, unique three-layer cakes, and various exquisite ceiling decorative strips, which certainly wouldn't be associated with children's birthday parties.

For the opening performance, some well-known performance teams need to be invited to make opening speeches. After the banquet dishes, such as Liaoshen and abalone, every table must be ordered, plus various photographic equipment and staff, the host and post-editing, a birthday party is really comparable to a wedding.

For such a birthday party, the staff of this hotel also said at the time that although it was for children aged 12, almost all parents had to pay 200,000 yuan for this whole set. If parents want to take their children to play after the party, it is normal to spend tens of thousands more.

12 years old, still only a primary school student. According to normal school standards, the children at this time are all in the fourth grade of primary school. Children at this time are the best time to start preparing for further studies.

However, in the comparison between adults, the truest side of children is gradually lost. You know, children are also "polite". When attending a classmate's birthday party, you must choose a gift. Although it may not be that expensive, it is also of great significance!

And who will bear the cost behind this? Undoubtedly, it can only be the parents of the child.

It's not the children's fault, it's the parents' fault. When children are old enough to study, they are made to put "face" first! It is the "face" that parents mistakenly think, so that the purest and kindest side of children is covered up by money! Such a bad atmosphere will not only destroy children's innocence, but also make their vanity stronger and stronger.

At this time, I want to ask the parents who compare with each other, to what extent can your strength and pockets make your children compare?