"I won't marry you until the bride price is 30 thousand." On the wedding day, the bride will sit on the ground. Do I still want to marry her?

I can always hear people complain about how hard life is after marriage, saying that life after marriage is different from what I imagined. Therefore, some people feel fear and panic about marriage. In fact, these are normal reactions.

Because marriage is grounded, it is different from what most people think. It is full of fireworks and daily necessities, which can make people feel bored and quiet. How it behaves is actually how couples operate.

If you want to enter the marriage life, you must first go through a step, and that is the wedding. The function of the wedding is to announce to the relatives and friends of both husband and wife that they have become legal couples and can enter the marriage life. It can be said to be a very solemn and sacred ceremony.

However, it is difficult to get married now. Getting married now is not only about two people's deep feelings, but also some external conditions.

For example, material conditions should be rich, and marriage should have a house, a car and a bride price. These are all the marriage conditions put forward by loving women and men. If you can't satisfy them, it's impossible to get married.

Weddings also require a lot of manpower, material resources and financial resources. For example, the money spent on the wedding day can almost empty the savings at home. There are many examples of families losing their money because of weddings.

What's more, some unexpected events on the wedding day now make people feel unprepared, and some of them are even more unacceptable. The wedding can be said to witness the process of a couple getting married, and also witness some ugliness of human nature.

On the wedding day, some people sat on the floor and started bidding, some people broke off their marriage on the spot, some people made a scene, and some even smashed the venue. These things make people unprepared and even more uncomfortable.

Because in our hearts, marriage should be a sacred thing, but these things let us see the other side of marriage, the ugliness of human nature.

I wrote this article today because of the contribution of reader Abin. He said that something unexpected had happened to him. If you say it, everyone thinks it's just a story. But Abin said that it really happened to him.

Because of this, his marriage was doomed from the beginning. Now he has just been married for half a year, but his relationship with his wife has begun to deteriorate. Abin said frankly that the reason is.

Abin is 24 years old this year. Young as he is, he has been married for half a year.

Abin's hometown is rural and his parents are farmers. A Bin/Kloc-graduated from high school at the age of 0/8. Because I didn't go to college and refused to farm with my parents at home, I followed my friends to work in the city, which took more than four years.

Although Abin is young, he knows how to be frugal. All the money earned by other people's work is squandered, and only A Bin keeps it secretly. Looking at the more and more balance on the bank card, Abin doesn't mention how happy he is. Because he knew the money could be used to get married.

At the age of 22, Abin met Yuling, and the two collided with the spark of love. Abin and Yuling are in love.

Two people talked about love for more than a year and decided to get married. So Abin took Yuling back to her hometown.

The two families are similar, but they are not far apart. When the two families met, their marriage was finalized.

Abin's family bought a house in the county, and then gave 50,000 pieces of wedding gifts, which is the same amount in the local area. Yuling and her family also agreed.

Next, Abin's family began to prepare for the wedding day.

On the wedding day, Abin was happily taking a group of people to visit relatives at Yuling's house, but Yuling gave him a difficult problem.

There is a game link when picking up the bride, that is, the groom will ask the bride to open the door, and the groom will usually prepare some red envelopes for the bride's home. Abin prepared a lot of red envelopes and sent them out.

But Yuling refused to open the door after the red envelope was issued, so Abin had to beg her to open the door quickly.

Unexpectedly, Yuling said to him, "Open the door, but the bride price will be increased by 30 thousand."

Abin was furious on the spot. Where can I get you thirty thousand dollars at this time? But no matter how much he begged, Yuling refused to open the door.

Abin was angry and hated. He called his parents. My parents were silent for a while and said, "Promise her that it is impossible not to get married at this juncture."

Abin is short of breath. He knew that his parents must have borrowed money from outside, but for the wedding, Abin had to put up with it.

After Abin agreed, Yuling opened the door, which made Abin take her away.

After arriving at the hotel, the wedding began. Abin was angry, so he thought of a way to embarrass Yuling.

At that time, the host prepared a link, which was to offer tea to both parents. When it was Yuling's turn, Abin picked up the receiver and said, "Dear friends and relatives, the daughter-in-law I married today is a good woman. When I brought the bride, she overcharged me by 30 thousand. I have no money, but my parents have money. You must thank my parents for giving Yuling tea this time! Tell you what, just kneel down and offer tea. If you kneel down, you will get 30 thousand dollars. "

Hearing Abin's voice, Yuling and her parents' faces changed and became very embarrassed. After all, it is not a glorious thing to add a bride price temporarily.

The guests at the bottom were talking noisily, and Yuling stood there wondering what to do. At this time, the host saw the embarrassing atmosphere and hurried to the circus. Abin's parents also waved their hands and said there was no need to be so formal, which brought the situation under control.

But all the relatives and friends who came here knew about it, which made Yuling's family pale.

After the wedding, Yuling and Abin had a big fight. Abin didn't spoil her either. He took out thirty thousand dollars and threw it in her face. He said, "Don't be afraid of other people's comments. You want money and a good reputation? There is such a good thing in the world! "

Because of this incident, the relationship between Abin and Yuling has been bad. Life after marriage is also very bad.