How much gift do I need to give each other when I get married in Tianjin?

In the past two years, the average family man in Tianjin has given her 40,000-60,000 yuan (dowry money+gift money), which should be given to her, but in front of her parents. It is the basic condition for a man to leave home. If there is no house, the woman may not agree to get married. The woman's family usually pays twice the gift money. That is, if the man gives the woman 50,000 yuan and the woman takes 654.38+10,000 yuan (depending on the specific situation of the family), the total is 1.5 million yuan. There is also that the woman does not pay or pays less for a car. I just gave her 50,000 last year, and her family just gave her 65,438+10,000, a * * * 1.5 million, and then went to buy household appliances. I don't have a car at home.