How should girls deal with the uncomfortable drinking culture?

Change your attention and withdraw as soon as possible. Because girls, as participants in the banquet, can only protect themselves. In the banquet culture that they don’t like, they can either divert their attention, let themselves persist until the end, evacuate quickly, and be prepared for such an unbearable banquet. Reduce the frequency of attendance, or find reasons to leave as early as possible.

When I was in college, we had frequent dinner parties because of the student union. Whether it’s to celebrate or to comfort, we often attend our internal dinner parties. The wine table between students is not too overdone. They are all about eating, drinking, and having fun. It is also casual and happy. When drinking, they were just having fun and having fun. However, at such gatherings, everyone is more or less friendly, so many people leave in the middle of the party. If you don't like this and it's not a particularly formal occasion, just leave as soon as possible.

Later, because of the sponsorship, a few of us went to have a dinner with the boss. I was the only girl, which was really embarrassing, and no one paid much attention to my existence. I smoked very hard, which made me particularly disgusted. Many of the things they said were not serious, which made me very uncomfortable. Then I made an excuse to go to the toilet and stayed outside for a long time. Like this, I can't change it, I still have to participate, so I just come out for a while every time to get some fresh air.

There are so many different types of wine table culture that you don’t like. Not everyone will abide by it. If it weren’t for work reasons or their own positions, few people would obey the polite wine table culture. . I have not yet experienced the wine-table culture in the workplace that I hate so much. If I encounter it, I would be wiser.