Talk before marriage, engagement, bride price and dowry.

Before marriage, we must talk about engagement, bride price and dowry.

First, about the engagement.

1. Is there an engagement ceremony?

2. Do you want to entertain guests when you are engaged?

3. How many guests will be invited to each party?

4. In a different place, in which city will the engagement ceremony be held?

5. If you are in the same city, which hotel should you choose for the engagement ceremony?

6. Who will pay for the engagement ceremony?

7. What is the routine procedure of the engagement ceremony?

Second, the issue of bride price and dowry.

1. How much bride price does the man intend to give?

2. How much dowry does the woman intend to return?

3. Does the bride price given by the man include three gold?

4. Does the dowry returned by the woman include the bride price of the man?

5. Is the bride price/dowry for children or parents?

6. When will the bride price/dowry be given respectively?

7. Will anyone from the two families participate in the bride price or return gift?

8. Are there any customs such as women buying clothes for men?

Third, the issue of wedding customs.

1. When is the wedding?

2. Is this an auspicious day?

3. Do it at noon or at night? Do you want to set a lucky time?

4. Is there a special link like brazier?

5. Did you pick up the bride from the hotel or the man's parents' house?

6. How many people do you want to pick up your relatives? What's the custom?

7. How much is the change fee? (unanimously agreed)

8. Are there any other special wedding customs at home?

Fourth, couples in the same city are getting married.

1. How many weddings are there? Do you have a party?

2. What is the overall budget for the wedding?

Who will pay for the banquet? How to distribute the rest of the money?

4. Where should the wedding hotel be chosen?

5. What is the standard of hotel/menu/drink?

6. What is the general form? Indoor or outdoor?

7. How many guests did both parties invite?

8. How many main tables are arranged? Who will sit at the main table?

9. Who received the gift?

Fifthly, the preparation of long-distance marriage between husband and wife.

1. How many weddings are there? Do you want to run it separately or together?

2. If you run separately, does the woman or the man do it first?

3. Is it necessary to hold a thank-you banquet in the workplace?

4. Run separately. Who will pay for the banquet?

5. Which guests need to be invited to each other's home?

6. Who will pay for inviting other guests?

7. What is the form of each section? Is it divided into Chinese and western?

8. Who will be given the gift money for each wedding?