God's logic, he is fickle but he still loves you

Men in this world can be roughly divided into three categories: the first category is good men, the second category is scumbag men, and the third category is between good and bad men. This type of men is difficult to grasp. They are not absolutely good or bad. They are more like wandering in the gray area between black and white, or stepping into heaven and hell.

There is no man in the world who is not attentive. The only difference lies in the degree of effort and whether he will take action. Maybe many people will refute this sentence, saying how much their man loves you, how much he loves you, and so on. In fact, it's not that he doesn't care, it's just that you trained him well and his sense of responsibility and justice restrained him. Maybe he didn't meet a charming woman to seduce him.

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Xiao Tang is the most beautiful girl among my friends. The only shortcoming may be that she is too short, less than 1.6 meters. There is no one who is not handsome in the past. After that, I don’t know whether my taste changed or whether my appearance didn’t matter anymore. In short, the people I talked to were worse than the other. But one thing has never changed, that is, she likes people with personality, and doesn't like people who are just obedient and obedient to her. This is a disease that needs to be cured!

Ever since I established a relationship with Yan in college, I have been driven crazy with anger. Classmate Yan is a person who likes to talk flirtatiously. But the weirdest thing about the two of them was that they would send classmate Yan's chat records with other women to Xiao Tang. As a bystander, I really couldn’t understand what this was. I asked Xiao Tang countless times why she wasn’t angry, and she only gave me one answer. I would rather be injured by the cruel truth than live in a hypocritical world. Beautiful. At that time, I blindly believed that what I said was correct, but the chat record thing still felt weird.

What happened next shocked me even more. Classmate Yan picked out one of the many flirtatious girls and established a relationship with her. That's right, having two girlfriends at the same time. This is what we call a typical scumbag. Maybe many men have dreamed of it. But Yan’s brilliance goes beyond that. Both girlfriends knew about each other's existence and called Xiao Tang his "first wife." That girl was the undeniable third party. Do you feel confused when you see this? In fact, it's not confusing. Xiao Tang knows the reason why the mistress appears. In addition to classmate Yan being dissatisfied with Xiao Tang's height, there is also dissatisfaction with his sex life.

Friends should not interfere too much in your love life. One is willing to fight, the other is willing to suffer. I have always adhered to the principle of urging cooperation and not separation, but the trigger that angered me was that Xiao San wanted to go to our school to find classmate Yan, and classmate Yan only said one sentence to Xiao Tang: "She's here, you It's better to disappear." Seeing Xiao Tang appear outside my house and hearing the whole story, I was even more angry than Xiao Tang. You should know that before she confirmed her relationship with classmate Yan, she asked me for my opinion. My answer at the time was: "follow your heart." Now that I think about it, I want to slap myself in the face, decisively give up my principles, and persuade her to break up.

Who would have thought that she said: "She is a hotel, and I am home. No matter how much work he pays, he still has to go home." When I heard this sentence, I felt that this woman was really scary. I felt like she was either out of her mind or mentally twisted. That sentence "I love you, you are free" probably I will never be able to understand the profound meaning of it in this life.

The subsequent development of events was extremely exciting. I have always had a disdainful attitude towards the need for "conspiracies" in love. And Xiao Tang has reached the point of proficiency in love routines. Various techniques and routines were performed one by one. Classmate Yan fell into Xiao Tang's love "trap" step by step. Now classmate Yan and his mistress still have contact from time to time, but they can clearly distinguish what is love and what is desire. The relationship is also stable enough to talk about marriage. After all, the mistress can't get the upper hand, and the marriage partner can only be Xiao Tang.

This is a relationship that might have been resolved long ago with other people.

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Ms. Zhang is a sister I am not very familiar with. She added WeChat by chance and is limited to "like friends". He suddenly sent me a WeChat message late one night, telling me about his love that was destined to be fruitless.

Mr. Li is in his thirties and is Ms. Zhang’s boss.

He is funny, gentle and considerate. A mature man who charms most girls. However, he has a girlfriend who has a stable and loving relationship. The two have lived together for many years and have been in their seventh year of love. Ms. Zhang, who has just started working, is destined to be unable to escape Mr. Li's gentle offensive. Even though he knew he had a girlfriend, he still plunged into the whirlpool of love. This started an underground love affair that lasted for half a year. During this period, Ms. Zhang rarely contacted Mr. Li, not because she didn't want to, but because she was afraid that her real girlfriend would find out and make Mr. Li angry and terminate the relationship. As long as Mr. Li contacts her, it must be driven by desire, and he will inevitably have sex with her.

Miss Zhang tried countless means to break up the relationship and become the first wife, but to no avail. Mr. Li's relationship with his girlfriend is so good that he can't even put a needle in it. Ms. Zhang also persistently asked why she still maintained this kind of relationship with her girlfriend since she would never separate. Mr. Li also answered frankly that he had been friends with his girlfriend for so many years, but when he wanted to do something bad, his girlfriend always became very impatient, saying that he was tired and worried about work, and was really in no mood and had no extra energy.

Mr. Li’s answer is obvious. Ms. Zhang just did something his girlfriend didn’t want to do, and Mr. Li also gave her a better life in return, such as short-term travel in the name of business trip but actually having an affair. I will buy clothes and bags for Miss Zhang. Even when Ms. Zhang was sad, Mr. Li would take the trouble to comfort her and enlighten her.

But Ms. Zhang gave up after half a year. She did fall in love with Mr. Li, but Mr. Li only loved his girlfriend. When Ms. Zhang was chatting with me, she had unilaterally terminated this abnormal relationship. It can be seen that Miss Zhang is not stupid and hopeless, and she did not waste her great youth in a shady hotel.

I always thought that after meeting someone, a good man should only love her for the rest of his life. Whether the other half is faithful is the only criterion for testing whether he loves her or not. But after being baptized by two true stories around me, I now believe that the so-called good man is not one who has been among thousands of flowers and never touched a leaf. It was the petals stuck all over in the thousands of flowers, but he still held his favorite one in his hand and took good care of it.

I understand, but I still can’t accept this way of managing relationships. I just want to say that maybe for men, love and sex are completely different things. Hanging out with others does not prevent him from loving you. This This is probably the biggest difference between men and women.

When it comes to choices, everyone is different, and you can’t influence others. We can only say that everyone has their own ambitions! There are too many temptations in the world, just stay true to yourself.

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