There are only thirty crayfish in a plate. What is the big difference between "original" and "little three"

In the eyes of the world, what is the difference between the original match and the mistress?

The former is ugly and the latter is beautiful?

The former is old and the latter is young?

The former is innocent and the latter is evil?

The former is wronged and the latter is arrogant?

I have a new understanding of this problem after I have been chasing 30 dramas recently.

The answer to this question comes from the fact that Lin Youyou and Xu Huanshan ate a plate of crayfish together in the play.

0 1, the original match should last for a long time, and the mistress should enjoy it.

Gu Jia, the original wife of Xu Huanshan, the leading actor in the play, graduated from a prestigious school and was once an elite of foreign companies. After marriage, she encouraged her husband to resign from the company and the husband and wife started their own businesses together, which gave them a better economic foundation.

Later, in order to have children, let them have high-quality companionship and healthy growth, and let her husband have no worries, she started as a full-time wife for four years.

During these four years, she kept exercising because she wanted to stay healthy and spend more time with her son and husband.

She insisted on changing a high-end big house, so that her son could go to a better kindergarten and have a better development in the future;

She can bow her head and pull a face to apologize to customers, and she can go to her wife's circle to pull the list, thus solving the company's predicament and making great progress;

As soon as the child left, she had her own career pursuit, just to reduce her husband's financial burden, turn off the fireworks factory at home, stop letting her family take risks and keep her family safe for a long time;

When fatty liver was detected in Xuhuanshan, she immediately asked her husband to stop eating at night, and persuaded her husband that stopping eating at night is the most popular diet in Europe today, which can clear the stomach, expel toxins, promote sleep and help to rejuvenate the next day.

While her husband was still complaining about her decision, she immediately decided to stop eating with him. ...

In a word, no matter what decision or choice Yuan Pei makes, she works hard for the rapid development, health and happiness of children, husbands and families from the perspective of loving her husband, children and family.

Lin Youyou in the play is a quasi-mistress with a deep heart.

As a bottom-level employee of an amusement park, she secretly agreed to Xu Huanshan, who is mature, steady, handsome, rich and talented, and does not know how to refuse.

In the case of knowing that the other party has a wife and children, repeatedly tease and wait for an opportunity.

At the dinner table where she and Xu Huanshan ate crayfish together, her words revealed not only her diet view, but also her emotional view and values.

Before eating, Xu Huanshan has made his position clear. He had given up dinner, but as soon as the crayfish came to the table, Lin You advised Xu Huanshan, "Crawfish is the fattest this season. It's a pity not to eat them. If you stop eating them, you will have to wait until next year. "

When Xu Huanshan showed that the reason for his fasting was fatty liver, Lin You didn't care at all. He still picked up the peeled crayfish and handed it to Xu Huanshan's mouth, tempting: "Are you really not hungry?"

When Xu Huanshan told Lin Youyou about the benefits of fasting in Gu Jia, Lin Youyou laughed at Xu Huanshan: It's rare for a man to listen to his wife like this these days.

Then Lin You brainwashed Xu Huanshan with the story of "The Eighth Day Cicada":

Cicada's life span is only seven days. She would rather be a cicada who sings wantonly and only lives wonderfully for seven days. Don't be a lonely cicada, save your strength and live to the eighth day.

Finally, she came to the conclusion that a long life is boring and happiness is innocent.

Therefore, there is only one plate of crayfish, and the attitude of the original match and San Xiao to men is clear at a glance: the original match always thinks about giving and sacrificing himself, and planning a long and happy life with her husband and children; And Xiao San always thinks about temporary enjoyment and profligacy.

02, the original match always has to pay, and the third one just wants to possess.

Although film and television dramas are higher than life, they also come from life.

In real life, men who betray their marriage can also feel the difference between the original match and the mistress everywhere.

After three years of cheating, Mr. Chen divorced his original match, and now he pays a high economic price to get rid of his mistress and return to being single.

When talking about the difference between the original match and the mistress, he gave several examples in life, which sounded chilling.

Mr Chen and his wife are a poor couple. They started from a small workshop in the countryside and started from scratch. Later, they expanded their scale until mass production today. Coupled with several correct investments, the economy is rich.

But the original wife is frugal, and the other is a housewife for many years. She has no income, so she has to think carefully and get Mr. Chen's consent.

"I remember one time, she hesitated for many days and said that she wanted to buy a bag. I gave her a card and she returned it to me the next day. No flowers. She said that she spent 39.9 yuan on Pinduoduo to buy a very satisfactory bag; But Xiao San took my card and bought a 38 thousand bag on Valentine's Day. " Mr. Chen recalled.

"Children go to school, my wife will take a bus to pick up the children. It's inconvenient when it's windy and rainy, so I'll discuss buying her a car so that the children won't suffer, but considering that I'm working hard outside, the factory has the pressure of bank loans, and the children will spend a lot in the future, my wife won't buy a car; However, San Xiao asked for 200,000 cars and said that it was shameful to drive out. I promised to buy her a new car two years later. " Mr. Chen said.

"I used to scold my wife for being poor and worthless, only knowing how to save money. My family buys clothes during the Spring Festival. I always buy them with the elderly and children, but she doesn't buy them. When I go to a restaurant to eat, as long as it is the food ordered, she tells me to eat less, and she won't eat it; Even if she cooks an egg or lays a poached egg at home, she never wants to give herself one. I have always planned to buy a house in the future, send my children to college, find a job, get married and provide for the elderly ... There are many places to spend money. But what about mistress? I raised her, almost all her family. As soon as she buys clothes, the whole family has a share. Eating in a high-end hotel, the whole family comes; I also want to lend money to her sister to buy a house and buy a car for her brother. " Mr. Chen lamented.

When Mr. Chen deeply felt the difference between the original match and the mistress, it was too late. His seemingly incompetent and cowardly wife insisted on divorce and got enough house and money for the elderly. The children are all adults, there is no dispute.

When Mr. Chen used the company's economic problems, debt crisis and even the risk of imprisonment as an excuse, he took the opportunity to extort a sum of money and cut off contact with him.

A few days ago, Mr. Chen saw Yuan Pei dancing in the square dance downstairs.

"Since the divorce, she seems to be younger and more comfortable. Yes, now she doesn't have to take care of children, support the elderly (her in-laws have passed away) and wait on her husband. She is a clean and capable person. Now she is quiet and comfortable, which is the best time. I asked her to remarry three times, but she refused. Now the children hate me, and the old people hate me. I can't take care of the elderly. Mr. Chen regrets it.

03. The person who originally wanted you, the mistress wanted your money.

After four years of cheating, Mr. Li divorced his original match and remarried a year ago.

"Before I found a mistress, I had had enough of the original." Mr. Li introduced it.

Mr. Li was originally a teacher. His attitude towards life is serious and meticulous. He demands perfection, pays attention to rules, and is non-negotiable.

"When I go out to socialize and drink, she will be flustered, call my friends who drink, and blame others for not sending me home and ignoring my fatty liver. She said that something happened to me when I was drinking. She couldn't spare others and made me lose face in front of my friends. " Mr. Li said.

"I play mahjong massage at night, and she will find a mahjong parlor and pedicure shop to take me home and set the rules. After 10:00 at night, my door was locked and I could never go home again. At home, I have to go to bed before 10:00, and I also talk about the benefits of going to bed early like a monk chanting. " Mr. Li recalled.

"I got up late for a while in the morning, and she also talked about it; After dinner, lying on the sofa for a while, she doesn't like it either; She is not allowed to eat too much meat; After drinking too much and saying a few words, she was also afraid that I would offend people and retaliate; Going home late, I am worried that something will happen, and there are often life-threatening chains ... In short, there is no freedom at all. " Mr. Li shook his head.

"Occasionally, one day, if I go to bed early and get up early, I can play badminton with her for a while, eat at home for three meals a day, smoke fewer cigarettes and give up drinking for three days. She will smile and ask me if I feel good, and I will be encouraged and even rewarded like a student. I am also looking forward to the happy life of the two of them in their later years, but I only feel constrained and restricted, and there is no happiness at all. " Mr. Li admitted.

Finally, Mr. Li cheated, which is not difficult for him who is rich in economy, status, smart and mature.

"With San Xiao, San Xiao lit a cigarette for me and bought me wine. During the communication, San Xiao accompanied me and drank too much. San Xiao drove me. " Mr. Li recalled.

"As long as I pay and want to eat, San Xiao will buy it; Xiaosan is always with me whenever she wants to do anything, and she is also happy to enjoy freedom and waste her life with me. In just four years, the beer belly has risen, the head is bald, the legs and feet are heavy, and the temper is hotter. Every physical examination is red. " Mr. Li lamented.

"Once I got drunk, I went to the trunk of the car to get something. I didn't pay attention when I opened it. The trunk bounced and hit my forehead. I fell to the ground with my head on the ground and passed out immediately. San Xiao thought I was dead. After calling my original match and 120, it's gone. " Mr. Li said.

At the first sight of waking up, Mr. Li saw his ex-wife angry and worried.

After a while, the doctor came to explain the condition, saying that it might affect the brain in the future, and he should keep exercising for a long time, and gave many rehabilitation suggestions according to Mr. Li's age and physical condition.

"My ex-wife recorded it on her mobile phone, sorted it out, printed it and posted it on my bedside, comforting me:' Never mind, listen to me, everything will be as good as before.' "Mr. Li's eyes are moist.

It was also at that moment that Mr. Li made up his mind to get back together with his ex-wife and got it a year later.

I don't know if two examples in countless TV dramas or articles can make people who are still on the wrong track lose their way.

At the same time, I hope everyone can compare the difference between the original match and the mistress proposed in the article, and judge for themselves whether the person who accompanies him has a clear conscience with his own blessings or the evil of selfish desires.

I hope the above words can encourage my readers.

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