Children's books involve pornography and violence: what can I do to protect you, my child?

Segment 1: The powerful impact made Niu Niu unconsciously raise her head and legs. When the shock wave spread like ripples in the lake at the moment, the burning and stabbing pain got into Niu Niu's heart.

The second paragraph: On Niu Niu's tight ass, she suddenly felt a whizzing cool breeze, and there was a crunchy sound of "pa", so Niu Niu was numb for one second and dumb for another.

How do you feel after watching these two clips? Do you think something is wrong?

Yes, that's right. You'll think it's a "Minions" playing the edge ball. It's nothing for adults to read, but what if this is the content of a children's book?

This is the text in "Little Doubao in Grade One" written by Bao Dongni, a children's literature writer. What does it mean to describe the details of Niu Niu being beaten by her father in such an indescribable way?

Is such tendentious writing really suitable for children? Not afraid of children's fantasies? You know, the child's imagination is originally unrestrained!

The third paragraph: Dad's palm is full of elasticity and rhythm, hitting Niu Niu's ass hard, and Niu Niu's heart is getting tighter and tighter with the ups and downs of the slap. The constant tingling and burning sensation makes Niu Niu breathe like a pot of pepper.

Let's look at this clip again. Is reading particularly violent? Are you sure you won't leave a psychological shadow on your child by describing the details of parents beating their children so explicitly?

To tell the truth, when I saw these words, my scalp felt tight, because my son had read Bao Dongni's works several years ago. I didn't expect her to be so irresponsible!

As parents, we all know how important it is to bring our children to know the world, but what should children do when they see something they shouldn't watch while reading and watching cartoons?

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Children like watching pornographic videos and books.

Weibo netizens reported the cartoon "Crossing the Line of Fire Legend" with their real names. He said that as an adult, I feel embarrassed when I read it, and I can imagine how much psychological fluctuation the child will have!

How did pornographic cartoons pass the trial because of their revealing clothes, explicit language and brushing their faces? Some netizens said that my younger brother in primary school loves to read this cartoon, hoping to seal it up soon.

What is more hidden than the video picture is that the text content is related to pornography. Some parents reported that there were pornographic books in the bookstore near the school. Law enforcement officers found that the beauty image on the cover of Yin Zhi cartoons was particularly eye-catching.

Once many children have seen such books and videos, they may be fascinated, not only wanting to buy such books, but also having the impulse to imitate and practice.

During this period, the news that a boy aged 13 killed a girl aged 10 in Dalian caused an uproar. Many people condemn why this boy was only taken in for three years, which is unfair to the victimized girl!

In fact, what we should think more about is why this 13-year-old boy is so bold as to trick girls into doing something wrong in broad daylight. Why is your brain so dirty at an early age?

Parents all know that it is very important to educate their children about sex, but parents should build a security line to prevent their children from falling into the whirlpool of pornography.

First, parents check their children's reading and video content. Parents can read books and cartoons in advance when preparing them for their children. If there is pornographic content, they can't watch it.

If the child accidentally sees it, ask the parents questions. Parents need to seriously warn the children not to read these contents and tell them clearly.

Second, parents should give their children sex education according to their age. Children will be interested in pornographic content because they don't understand it. Parents' sex education according to their age will effectively reduce their children's curiosity.

Parents cannot avoid sex education. If children can't get the correct knowledge from their parents, they will learn about it through these pornographic books and videos, which will affect their physical and mental development.

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Children imitate violence.

The cartoon "Bears haunt" should be the favorite of all children. The hilarious story between clever and honest Xiong Er and lumberjack Logger Vick in Xiong Dahe always makes children laugh.

But what if a child imitates Logger Vick and hurts people with a chainsaw? Two years ago, a 10-year-old girl in Shaanxi turned out a chainsaw while playing in the yard with her 5-year-old sister.

Without thinking, the girl saw the chainsaw on her sister's face, causing deep wounds on her nose and right face. The doctor said it would leave a scar after healing.

What is even more frightening is that there are three boys under the age of 10 in Jiangsu, who even imitated the plot of "roast sheep" in the cartoon Pleasant Goat and Big Big Big Wolf when playing in the wild.

One of the boys tied the other two brothers and boys to a tree with a rope, and then lit the weeds under their feet. The two boys were badly burned because they could not escape.

It is precisely because cartoons are for children that children's imitation ability is particularly strong. They simply don't know what behavior can't be imitated, so there are no lovely pleasant goats on TV now.

However, parents can't put the responsibility of preventing children from watching violent cartoons on TV stations. After all, children are their own and need parents' screening and guidance.

First of all, parents stop their children from watching violent pictures in time. Parents should not think that it is easy to show cartoons to their children, but try to take time to watch them with their children.

When you see a bloody and violent picture, you can close the picture in time and tell your child that the picture can't be seen. If the child wants to watch it, parents can warn him that he will have nightmares.

Secondly, parents tell their children which behaviors cannot be imitated. Some scenes of playing with fire and water are inevitable in cartoons. Parents should promptly warn their children that these behaviors cannot be imitated.

Parents should not say it easily. They can tell him what the serious consequences are in the form of pictures and videos, which will make children feel awe and cut off their curiosity about imitation.

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Protecting children is the responsibility of parents.

The writer Hu Yong once wrote a story that his twins were listening to Snow White. A sweet little girl read aloud, "Take Snow White to the Woods, kill her, and bring me her lungs and liver."

This sentence sounds really violent. My mother thinks that such fairy tales are not suitable for children who are too young to read, while my father thinks that children must face the cruelty of human society and human nature.

As we all know, the more children grow up, the more they know about the real society, but it is the responsibility of parents not to let their children get in touch with these unpleasant contents too early and let them have a pure childhood.

Children are absolutely not allowed to read books, cartoons and games suspected of violence. After all, children's imitation may lead to irreparable consequences.

Letting children get involved in pornographic books and other indecent contents too early will also have a great negative impact on children's body and mind, which is not conducive to children's forming a correct sexual concept.

Perhaps parents can't ban the spread of these pornographic and violent contents, but at least we have kept the "last mile" of children's growth and prevented them from going astray.

As Yu Dan said, education is the starting point, the companion, the idea and the encouragement. The ultimate perfection is the personality and soul of every child.

What does the child look like, and the parents are directly responsible, then we should start by guarding the child and let the child have a clean and upright growth environment.