I have never chatted with a girl who worked in a company before, but I have been chatting very well recently, and when I sit with her and chat, she will often hold my hand and talk to me.

Case 1

I went to the restroom in a bar, and there was a girl I didn’t know who was in a hurry. I was in front, but I let her go first, before the girl entered the restroom and closed the door. He also specially thanked me and smiled.

After she came out, she washed her hands at the sink and met me again. We had a brief chat, and then we went back to her seat to play together. (Because my kind actions left a good impression on the other party)

Case 2

A girl I didn’t know walked down from the second floor to the first floor in a bar, wearing high heels. , a little wobbly, I walked in front of the girl, looked back at the girl, and told her to be careful, she smiled, I stepped forward and said: "Be careful, I saw a girl just roll down the stairs last time." Then when the girl responded well, I supported the girl and sent her back to her seat.

Case 3

I was shopping for something and said to my boss: "Write me a receipt." The boss said he couldn't write, so I turned to the boss's friend next to me and said: "She I'll write it eventually." Then he started chatting with the girl, and finally made it to the girl when he left.

Case 4

My friend Liu Fei and I were checking in in front of the hotel. There were two girls next to us who were also checking in. The girl asked the waiter, "How do I get to the Botanical Garden of the Chinese Academy of Sciences by car?"

Me: "You can go to Banna Bus Station and take a bus"

Then the girl BLABLAd with me. When we completed the check-in procedure, the girl took the initiative to keep me and left me the next day. Two girls were kidnapped and brought back to the hotel.

Case 5

I went to KFC to eat and saw two girls about to go out. When they were a few steps away from the door, I moved ahead. I opened the door and held it open for them. When they saw me opening the door to let them out first, they smiled and said, "Thank you." I acted like a doorman and bent down, then said, "You're welcome."< /p>

Finally, after the other party leaves the door, you go up and ask the girl for the code.

There are too many similar cases, but you will find that these relationships with strangers are all established. In a certain space, this is easy to achieve

Return to the elevator (by the way, I often chat with strange women who ride in the same elevator)

As a man, you must be a gentleman. Under normal circumstances, you should be the first to enter the elevator, then hold the button to ensure that the people behind you enter, and be the last to exit the elevator.

When waiting for the elevator, be humble. Be aware that people next to you may also notice you. Please pay attention to your clothing, speech and behavior, and even if your target is next to you, the content of your chat with your colleagues can attract them. For example, a colleague asks you, "Have a holiday." Where did you go to play? ”

The more exciting, interesting and special you say, the easier it is to attract girls’ attention. (But don’t brag deliberately)

I even had dinner in a restaurant once, and a friend called me and asked Why should I go to Dali?

I said loudly: "To pick up girls"

Then everyone in the restaurant, including the guests and the waiters, looked at me with a smile. The waiter always thought I was funny and kept laughing. By the way, I occasionally kept the restaurant staff happy because I ate in the restaurant.

Of course, you can't. Like me, interesting travel destinations or travel stories can attract people around you, but don’t be pretentious or too loud to deliberately attract other people’s attention.

In fact, when waiting for the elevator and in the elevator. You can already attract a girl's attention. If you are lucky enough to take the elevator alone with a girl or wait for the elevator alone, establish a relationship with the girl through your actions and words.

For example, when you get into the elevator, ask the girl which floor you are on.

For such a kind act, if the girl expresses gratitude and is in a good mood, then chat with the girl.

Under this kind of behavior, you can talk about anything (preferably with eyes. (without contacting or influencing girls).

For example:

A “Hey, you are something special? "(For example, there is something special about her, thus introducing the topic.

One of my students used it: "Where is this ice cream of yours? It's a bit special. It's the first time I've seen it." The girl replied: "It's also my first time eating it. I'm in XXXX." The premise is that it's really special)

B “How many days off do you have? "(For example, when a holiday is approaching, she also knows that you work somewhere in this building, so it's OK. If you are more capable, the girl will reply: "Five days." You can reply: "Same as us, but I There is a buddy who started BLABLA after four months of XXXX. If you can’t find interesting topics, it’s me. I’ve already been on vacation for a year, haha)

With girls After chatting, if the conversation goes well, you can just stay.

If you are still a novice, just have a simple chat and don’t think about leaving anything behind, because we will meet again in the future.

If you use or Momo to search for the other party, you can add the other party and introduce the unfinished topics in the chat.

For example, you are chatting with a girl and you find out that the other person is from Sichuan (anyone from the Northeast is OK)

Add this and ask: "I just chatted with you and found out that you are from the Northeast. Do you know Are there any authentic Northeastern restaurants nearby? I would like to eat Northeastern cuisine when gathering with friends."