How long does it take to get a wife in rural Shaoyang, Hunan?

There is a saying in Shaodong Shaoyang: "If you adopt a daughter, you will not lose money." (1) But this is not the case. Every married woman has to post a lot. It's hard to say how much it will cost. In Shaodong, Shaoyang, Hunan, you don't value or need any bride price money. As long as you send money, ranging from thousands to tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands of rich people will send you away, but some will increase, some will decrease, and some will increase by hundreds of thousands, depending on her parents' family conditions. (2) Buy some gold jewelry for your girlfriend: rings, earrings, etc. It is also appropriate. (3) Of course, the more money you give your girlfriend, the better, but the money is actually your girlfriend's own, and your mother-in-law won't want you, which means the money is actually your own. (4) Send her brothers and sisters a few hundred yuan to several thousand yuan, and they will send you back when you go. (5) Other relatives only need to send you one hundred to several hundred, and you won't lose money if you go to his house and they send you away. (6) The average matchmaker is more than RMB 1000. (7) The other is your husband and wife's own expenses, such as wedding photos, wine, furniture and so on. Generally ranging from 20000 to 100000 yuan. Among them, the cost of hosting a banquet is not much, generally ranging from 500- 1000 for a table. The engagement wine is free, and it may cost a little money. Marriage wine, relatives and friends will come to give gifts, and there is nothing to lose. (8) Look at your family situation, there is no need to compare, look at your family conditions. (9) There is another saying in Shaodong Shaoyang area: "No matter how big the mud is, no matter how big the dam is".