What do you think of "I won't get married without a bride price today, it's up to you"?

More and more love in contemporary society will be measured by money, and there is no embarrassment in signing the price.

Especially on the issue of marriage, many people think that the bride price is a bargaining chip to test whether a man loves you or not.

Therefore, more and more people have no proper restrictions on the bride price, and even the phenomenon of breaking off marriage because of the bride price frequently appears on the wedding day.

Although the bride price is an indispensable and important procedure in the wedding ceremony, if it is overcharged, it will surely outweigh the benefits.

0 1、

Yang Qing is a beautiful girl, although her family is ordinary.

But she was born beautiful and had the capital to go to college, and there was never a shortage of suitors around her.

But Yang Qing's eyes are extremely high, and her consistent request is Gao Fushuai.

What's more, she is still young, so she feels that she has enough time to choose her future partner.

Later, as she expected, he appeared in her mind.

LAM Raymond comes from a superior family. He is an only child. This is also one of the important reasons why Yang Qing agreed with Raymond's pursuit.

Married to such a family, no brothers and sisters will compete with him for property.

Moreover, LAM Raymond fully meets his own requirements and is willing to invest a lot of money for himself.

Whatever kind of diamond ring he wants, he will buy it for himself.

Although Yang Qing once found his chat with other girls on her boyfriend's WeChat.

But Yang Qing thinks there is no cat that doesn't cheat. As long as he doesn't overdo it, she turns a blind eye.

02、

Soon, the two have reached the point of talking about marriage.

In Yang Qing's view, Raymond and Gao Fushuai are also willing to pay attention to themselves and buy many precious things for themselves.

This is the man she is willing to marry.

In LAM Raymond's view, besides money, Yang Qing is obedient and Yang Qing can get married.

If Yang Qing needs anything after marriage, he can also use money to meet it.

So the two hit it off and put the wedding on the agenda. Then the most important part of the bride price is naturally what Yang Qing values.

She thought to herself: LAM Raymond is usually generous to himself and won't be stingy with the bride price.

Indeed, the bride price given by LAM Raymond is twice that given by Yang Qing at other friends' weddings.

LAM Raymond did not forget to talk sweetly to Yang Qing at this moment: "You are my favorite woman. How can I embarrass you in front of your friends?" What's mine after marriage is yours. "In this case, Yang Qing was amused and smiled shyly.

The wedding took place as scheduled. The hotel and food booked that day were also good.

He kept showing off in front of his friends and said, "It's all said by one Feng. There is only one wedding. If you want to do it, you must give me the best."

Looking at the admiring expressions on friends' faces, Yang Qing was very satisfied.

Later, a friend suggested that the groom loves the bride so much that he should give her a little more bride price.

The heavier the bride price, the more attention and love the groom has for the bride.

Especially in such a surprise situation, we can see the groom's truest reaction.

Although Yang Qing thought Raymond had given a lot of bride price before.

However, in order to maintain this scene in front of friends, at the same time, Yang Qing thinks that Raymond likes himself very much, and he also agrees with his friends' unreasonable demands.

03、

When the procession to pick up the bride arrived, they passed all the way. When the bride was finally taken away, the bridesmaids booed and just discussed the surprise of the bride price.

Frankly speaking: "Without the bride price, the bride can't take it away today."

At first, Raymond fought guerrilla warfare patiently in the form of jokes, but in the end, Yang Qing saw the mocking expressions on his friends' faces.

In a rage, he said, "You don't love me anymore, so you don't want to add the bride price?"

LAM Raymond turned black when he heard this. He felt that such Yang Qingtai was unreasonable and insatiable.

You can spoil him by tinkering around the edges at ordinary times, but is it shameful for Yang Qing to say such things on such an important occasion today?

But in the end, he remained calm and said to Yang Qing, "After marriage, everything I have is yours. Let's talk about these things later! "

However, even so, Yang Qing still feels that she must save her face in front of her friends, and thinks that if Raymond really wants to marry herself, she will choose to compromise her demands.

Thinking of this, Yang Qing said rudely, "Well, Raymond, if you don't pay the bride price today, I won't get married. It's up to you! "

After hearing this sentence, Lin Leimeng could drop water with a surly face. He never imagined that Qing, who is tinkering around the edges on weekdays, could say these words so car-scrapping.

He doubted whether Yang Qing planned to arrange such a play, but another idea came to Raymond's mind. This is not to say that he doesn't want to marry Yang Qing. He just thinks that Yang Qing is the more satisfied woman.

But who knows, I still underestimated her desire and obsession to save face.

After realizing this, LAM Raymond threw his suit on the ground and said angrily, "Well, I'll go home then. Who gave you the face? If you love this marriage, I won't play with you. " Then he walked out without dragging his feet.

Yang Qing was confused directly, so he ruined his "ideal" marriage, that is, he understood that marriage can really be so fragile.

04、

Many years have passed and now Yang Qing is 30 years old.

But she is still single, and she also regrets losing an ideal and perfect marriage because of the sudden bride price on the wedding day.

In addition, she made such a scene at the wedding, which is also an anecdote after dinner in the local area.

Yang Qing hasn't had blind dates in recent years, but in the end, either she was dissatisfied or others despised her after knowing her background and history.

Unfortunately, there is no regret medicine in the world. When you grow up, you are all adults. If you make a decision, you have to bear the consequences.

Her friends, of course, were too unreasonable from the beginning.

But if it weren't for Yang Qing's connivance, her greed and vanity, she wouldn't be where she is today.

Although in the eyes of many people, the bride price is a sign that the man attaches importance to the woman.

But if you go too far, it will be counterproductive. Money is never the only criterion to measure feelings.

If a girl values it too much, then what you get must be mixed with impure factors.

So how happy are you?

The bride price depends not only on local customs, but also on one's own ability. It's best not to change your mind temporarily.

Marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished. Don't let the sudden bride price ruin your happiness.