Henan woman tucao husband didn't go to work for 7 years. Husband: I have a deposit of10 million, so I don't have to go to work.

A woman in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, cried to reporters that as a woman, she had to support her whole family.

Her husband Xiaofeng, as a sane person, stayed at home for seven years. No matter how she and her parents-in-law persuaded her, her husband was unmoved and even refused to communicate.

After the mediator learned the basic information, he immediately drove to Xiaoyan's home and met the legendary husband Xiaofeng. When the mediator asked Xiaofeng why she didn't work for seven years, Xiaofeng's answer left everyone speechless.

The beginning of the story

Xiaofeng and Xiaoyan met through blind date. Xiaofeng graduated from medical college. Xiaoyan dropped out of school to work after junior high school. At present, she works as a cashier in a supermarket.

Although Xiaofeng is a college student and only a factory girl, she feels that Xiaofeng meets her own standards after contact, and both parents agree with her.

Under the intentional matchmaking of both parents, the newlyweds finally went to the palace of marriage. They thought that they had married a good family and could eat less. However, married life is unacceptable to Xiaoyan anyway.

The husband and wife have two children, one is seven and the other is three. It stands to reason that the family is happy and the days should be more and more hopeful.

But Xiaoyan found her husband's behavior very strange, and often locked herself in her room and refused to communicate with others.

After a long time, they even quit their jobs and stayed at home to play games every day. After seeing it, the two old people also communicated with Xiaofeng many times, but in the end they all broke up in discord.

Xiaoyan can only bite her teeth and shoulder the heavy responsibility of a family, responsible for the expenses of two children and the family. She goes to work as soon as she wakes up every day and doesn't come home from work until very late. It's been too long.

Xiaoyan even feels that she is in a widowed marriage, and her husband has no spiritual or material help for her.

The mediator sympathizes with Xiaoyan's experience. Generally speaking, in a family, men earn money to support their families and women are beautiful, but when Xiaoyan comes, things are just the opposite. Why? Is it really like Xiaoyan said?

Following Xiaoyan to her home, the mediator met Xiaofeng, but in the conversation with Xiaofeng, the mediator learned something different.

When the mediator asked you why you didn't go out to work, Xiaofeng replied:

Because I am not short of money, I don't think it is necessary. If I have no money to go out to work, I'm out of my mind.

The mediator was speechless when he heard this statement. What is Xiaofeng's lack of money? After in-depth understanding, the mediator learned that Xiaofeng was actually a second generation.

I got 8-figure compensation for the demolition of my old house. Even if I put this money in the bank, I will get an interest of 500,000 to 600,000 a year. There seems to be no shortage of money.

According to Xiaofeng's idea, he is fully capable of living a free life and there is no need to go out to work.

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Xiaoyan, however, does not think so. She thinks that her husband is just fooling around at home, and she takes on the heavy responsibility of the family.

To this end, the two sides often quarrel, and some trivial things can be quarreled, even several times a day. Over time, Xiaofeng lost the patience to communicate with his wife and became silent.

Xiaoyan believes that all the contradictions between the two are caused by her husband not working. If the husband can go out to work like other men, then this will not happen.

The husband didn't want to answer his wife's accusation at all. When he saw her husband like this again, his wife got angry and stopped fighting. She also called her father-in-law to support the scene.

Xiaofeng's parents met the mediator, and they also looked like they hated iron to produce.

According to them, Xiaofeng was very clever and obedient when he was a child, but I don't know from which day on, Xiaofeng began to become withdrawn, holding everything in his heart and unwilling to communicate with his family.

Even after graduating from college, I once ran away from home. This walk is seven years. Seven years later, I came back and got the demolition money. Under the arrangement of two old people, I met Xiaoyan and finally got married.

According to Xiaofeng's father, Xiaofeng broke their hearts. Now that he is old, he has to go out to do odd jobs every day to help his family, while his son stays at home all day and is unwilling to communicate with the outside world.

Over time, it is easy to get out of touch with society. The two old people are fine, but Xiaofeng is in his prime. What can he do in the future?

Hearing these words, Xiaofeng sat on the sofa and told another story.

According to Xiaofeng, he has been under strict supervision since he was a child and has no freedom at all. Daily life is very depressing.

Until I went to college, I didn't have any right to choose my major at all. Parents didn't listen to his advice at all, and took the initiative to apply for the excellent medical major in their eyes.

Xiaofeng worked hard to finish his major that he didn't like. Forced him to go on a blind date after graduation. He raised many objections, but they were all ignored. Finally forced to marry Xiaoyan.

Although both parents are optimistic about this marriage, Xiaofeng doesn't think so. He feels that the two people are not at the same level in terms of education, vision, pattern and world outlook.

As the saying goes, it is normal for two people to have contradictions.

Xiaofeng also said that he had actively communicated many times, but in the end he couldn't convince the other party. It is better not to talk about it, and even started the plan of divorce.

When it comes to work, Xiaofeng is equally determined. For him, it doesn't matter how much money is, as long as it is enough. And there are 8-figure demolition funds at home. Even if you don't eat or drink for a lifetime, you can ensure that the whole family has enough food and clothing.

Besides, I am not idle at home alone. On the internet, he taught himself all kinds of software, as well as English and French. Looking after two children at home at the same time, he is responsible for daily life and school transportation.

My wife doesn't care about these things at all. She does nothing when she comes home from work every day, which shows that she works too hard.

Since Xiaofeng has an 8-figure deposit, why is Xiaoyan too tired to keep her mouth shut and say that she is responsible for all the expenses at home?

This 80 million, Xiaofeng didn't go into his pocket and didn't give it to his wife?

But according to the mediator's understanding, it was unexpected to find out the truth of the matter.

Xiaofeng said that he never touched the demolition money from beginning to end, but directly hit his wife's card and was kept by her.

His daily expenses have never been asked from his wife or parents. They are all personal savings. Xiaofeng also bought Audi for his wife when she goes to work.

After all, how can an ordinary migrant worker afford Audi with a salary of two or three thousand a month?

Since the demolition money is in the hands of my wife, there is absolutely no need to go out to work. The so-called work is too tired to spend time with family and children. In Xiaofeng's view, they are all excuses, just avoiding responsibility.

Xiaoyan felt wronged when she heard this. She thinks that a person's value is labor. No one stayed at home for seven years, staring at the computer screen every day.

When colleagues or friends ask her, she is embarrassed to speak. She can't tell anyone that her husband has lost his job.

And Xiaoyan's main appeal is communication. She hopes that her husband can communicate with her in everything, instead of coming home from work like a cold machine every day, just like staying in a hotel, without any warmth at home.

Xiaofeng is very angry about this. He thinks that he has done almost everything a good man can do, but his wife is still aggressive.

You said to make progress, Xiaofeng taught himself to stay up late every day, and you said to take care of his family. Xiaofeng is almost a full-time husband, basically taking care of children, doing housework, washing and cooking, and Xiaoyan doesn't have to worry about it.

You said that men become bad when they have money. Well, the 8-figure demolition fee is all on your card, and Xiaofeng has no bad hobbies. How many men in the world can do this?

But Xiaoyan still said that she was too tired and paid too much for this family, but her husband didn't play a considerate role. They talked and talked, and the smell of gunpowder gradually became strong. The mediator quickly eased the atmosphere and let both sides calm down.

According to the current situation, the mediator speculates that the situation of Xiaofeng and Xiaoyan is actually different from that of ordinary families.

With the most basic material security, the spiritual level pursued by the two men is quite different, but neither of them is willing to give in, which leads to frequent quarrels and frictions.

At this point, in fact, some mediators will not. Xiaofeng has done almost everything she can except for not going out to work, but why is Xiaoyan still so dissatisfied? Is there anything behind this?

The mediator has one more question at the scene. If all the demolition funds are in the hands of his wife Xiaoyan, then Xiaofeng has not gone out to work for seven years. Where did she get the money?

According to the mediator, Xiaofeng had been away from home for seven years before.

In these seven years, Xiaofeng has suffered almost all hardships and experienced the vicissitudes of the world. However, with his excellent ability and excellent professionalism, he successfully killed a bloody road in the Internet industry and saved a lot of money in seven years.

As for how much money there is, Xiaoyan doesn't know, nor does Xiaofeng's parents, but according to Xiaofeng's words, it is only higher than the demolition amount.

No wonder Xiaofeng is so confident that he can stay at home for seven years and do what he wants.

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Previously, the mediator thought that Xiaofeng was just a simple old man, but according to the current situation, this is not the case at all.

Xiaofeng earned money by herself, and her parents didn't spend any money on demolition. Besides, Xiaofeng has so many deposits and hasn't caught any bad habits.

Then why are Xiaoyan and Xiaofeng's parents still aggressive and unwilling to respect Xiaofeng's choice?

After all, everyone in the world has their own way of living. If it does not affect others, it should not be criticized in itself. If the material foundation can be guaranteed, it doesn't seem to be an unforgivable event.

Xiaofeng also revealed to the mediator that he had said many times that he wanted to go out and buy a house to live by himself. Since neither side can change, let's just go our separate ways and not interfere with each other.

However, it was strongly opposed by his wife and parents, and Xiaofeng did not continue to insist.

Xiaoyan secretly wants to know how much money her husband has, but Xiaofeng always keeps silent on this topic.

Isn't it enough to spend eight figures on demolition? For an ordinary family, not to mention the 8-figure demolition fund, even if it is a million-level, as long as it is not investment or gambling, it can basically eat and wear.

Xiaoyan hopes Xiaofeng can truthfully account for all his deposits. what is the purpose? Do you care about your husband, or do you have other plans?

According to the mediator, Xiaoyan has actually expressed her wish for divorce many times, but the two have not divorced yet. Is it related to Xiaofeng's own savings? As for the demolition money, if divorced, how will the money be distributed?

According to the general situation, in fact, the money can be used as a household, but if divorced, Xiaoyan will find it difficult to get the money, because it is not the property of husband and wife, but the property before marriage.

Moreover, the house demolished is the name of Xiaofeng's parents. Strictly speaking, the money belongs to Xiaofeng's parents, and it is even more impossible to share it equally after divorce.

But if Xiaofeng regards this money as an investment, then no matter whether it is a loss or a profit in the end, it is actually the property of husband and wife at this time.

It's just that Xiaofeng doesn't seem to be interested in these things, just studying his own path wholeheartedly.

I have to say that sometimes people are more popular than others. A man with an 8-figure deposit, who doesn't smoke, drink, bar or gamble, whose daily interest is learning to take care of children, isn't that a good man?

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If I can meet such a man as a husband, I wonder how many women will wake up laughing in their dreams.

Xiaoyan is incredibly picky. She drives an Audi given by her husband, and her husband has an 8-digit deposit in her card. She works as a cashier with no technical content every day, shouting bitterness and tiredness.

But, you know, no one forced you to go to work. With this money, it's not bad to open your own shop. For husband and wife, only mutual tolerance and support can go further and this marriage will be healthier.

Living in endless quarrels, even a person with a good temper will explode one day.