Where should a girl do it on her first night?

Women, whether virgins or non-virgins, will be very nervous on their first night with their boyfriends: virgins, nervousness is inevitable, and that kind of anxiety, the feeling of being about to deliver, and the fear of something going wrong can be understood; For non-virgins, although they are no longer nervous or painful, there are still many problems to pay attention to.

the most important thing is not to let him succeed too casually. The fruit on the high ground is the sweetest, and what you get through hard work can always be cherished. On the contrary, if you can get it casually, no one may care. So is sex. On the first night, you'd better give him some difficulties, such as seduction, temptation, anti-seduction, refusing to return, welcoming and refusing. In short, like hide-and-seek, make him a little trouble, so that he will cherish you more and improve your sexual excitement.

I have a friend who told me that he dated a girl, and the girl was very fierce on the first night with him. She was bold and familiar with the moves. My friend was worried about whether the girl had too many boyfriends, and even doubted what she had done before. Obviously, although men like "sluts in bed", they still care.

However, if you behave coyly, it will be untrue, and at the same time, it is suspected of pretending. It is obviously uncomfortable and not smooth to pretend like this, and he will also be disgusted. Therefore, we should try to be calm and let nature take its course.

Secondly, a woman doesn't have to cater to her new boyfriend for the first night. A friend told me that she gets nervous every time she sleeps with her new boyfriend. Take the first time too seriously, and then, dress up very deliberately, even just bought underwear, the best, I hope to give the most beautiful myself. In this way, it's actually not very good, because nervousness can easily lead to disharmony between the two sides, so that he will feel, what's wrong with you? Don't want to do it?

Third, you don't have to pursue perfection on the first night. Generally speaking, it is normal to have a little regret on the first night, so that he will have a sense of progress when he cultivates and explores next time. If you ask him to be perfect the first night, in case he can't meet your requirements, you will definitely be disappointed in him in the future. In fact, it's good to get 8 points for the first time, but don't blame 6 points. After all, there are many days in the future, so you can train slowly.

fourth, act like you care about him. You can praise him moderately: don't compare him too much, don't compare him with your ex-boyfriend, and don't hurt him. Praise can make him feel great, but don't keep praising him, because that may not be true and make him feel that you are pretending to be perfunctory again. Although men are vain, they are still sober about their true abilities. < P > Fifth, who will deal with the mess of sex. A friend of mine suggested that the lady should take away those tissues and condoms before leaving the next day, so that men will think you will be considerate and take care of others. But I think, unless you are really a virtuous woman, you'd better not do this. Because, for the first time, it determines your future state. If you clean up the mess at this moment, I guess he will come to you later.

so, let him clean up by himself. If you are more feminist!