Why can Son Ye-jin still find love at the age of 39?

In 2021, on the first day of the new year, Son Ye-jin and Hyun Bin’s candy spread from South Korea to China. Although both of them were born in 1982 and are almost 40 years old, they found each other at this age. Men and women in the entertainment industry are well-maintained. This is a pair of handsome men and beautiful women, who match each other in appearance.

Son Ye-jin keeps using 'um', 'haha' and happy emoticons on Instagram to express her inner joy and shyness. Finally, she said: "Because it's so embarrassing and weird. I'm very grateful to have met such a good person, and I will definitely try to cherish it."

The short official announcement immersed her in sweet love. The status is exposed. Suddenly I want to say something with emotion, no matter what age a woman is, she will always have a pink girl's heart when she encounters love.

Hyun Bin and Son Ye Jin’s official love announcement has made the entire Asian entertainment industry excited.

This reminds me of the grand wedding of Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo at the Shilla Hotel four years ago. That fairy tale wedding was the dream in the minds of all Kiliu Dawei and Jiang Muyan CP fans, with beauties and beautiful scenery, flowers and costumes, and celebrities from the entertainment industry all present.

But the lights went out, the ceremony ended, and Song Joong-ki and Song Hye-kyo, who retreated to real life, could not withstand the trivialities and conflicts of ordinary life. This enviable golden boy and girl's marriage ultimately only lasted. It ended in one year.

With this kind of lesson learned from the past, I can’t help but wonder, will this pair be able to reach the end of their lives together?

After consulting a large amount of information on the Internet, I have formed an impression that this is a very mature man and woman, and their union is definitely more stable than the two Song Dynasties.

Unless there are any irresistible disruptive factors, they are definitely going to get married, and their time together will definitely exceed that of the two Song Dynasties.

I think there are three reasons:

1. Compared with Song Hye Kyo, Son Ye-jin has higher artistic pursuits and a stronger desire for self-achievement.

When she was young, Son Ye-jin was as beautiful as the gentle breeze, and could not stop her fairy aura. She was called 'Son Seon-ah' in Korea. She made her debut at the age of 18. In 2003, she won the Baeksang Arts Awards and the Daejong Awards for Best New Actress for her outstanding performance in "If Love is Provided".

In the Korean entertainment industry where "acquired beauties" gather together, Son Ye-jin has carved out a life path that is unique to her.

There has always been a chain of contempt in the entertainment industry. Those who make movies look down on those who make TV series, and those who make TV series look down on those who make comedy and variety shows.

Therefore, in the Korean entertainment industry, there is a ranking of Chungmuro ??actors > movie actors > TV drama actors > singers > comedy artists > idols.

Although compared to Song Hye Kyo and Jun Ji Hyun, Son Ye Jin debuted relatively late. But she is one of the five most beautiful beauties in Korea, represented by Song Hye Kyo, and is the highest-ranking actress in the Korean film industry.

For an actress to achieve high artistic achievement, she must have endured and given up a lot.

To endure rumors, to endure pressure, to endure all the discomforts caused by the role entering the body; to pursue art, one must make huge sacrifices. Because behind the acting skills is a sincerity, actors must get into the character's heart to feel and bear emotional blows that ordinary people can't imagine.

What she gave up may be fame, profit, or status. In short, in order to become a top movie actress, she must have given up many short-term and fast ways to make money.

Today, the Korean media speaks highly of her: her acting skills do not require looks at all, and her looks do not require acting skills at all.

Having been in the entertainment industry for 20 years, she has become a Grand Slam Best Actress with three major awards in South Korea.

Beauty can reap short-term dividends, but the secret of a female star’s continued popularity after 20 years in the entertainment industry is definitely not superficial appearance.

She has beauty, acting skills, and is extremely hardworking.

Her current career achievements are due to her high sense of purpose and decades of self-discipline.

Although she won honors when she debuted and was blessed with good looks, Son Ye-jin has not rested on her existing achievements in recent years, and has continued to produce almost at the rate of one work per year.

Her efforts are not like those of ordinary actors who only focus on the pay but ignore the quality of their roles. Instead, she is on the road of constantly honing her acting skills and transforming, and most of her output is both well-received and well-received. Quality work.

In 2003, "If Love Has a Will", in 2004, "The Eraser in My Mind", and in 2006, "Age of Love". Although she made many innocent love movies in the early days, if you look carefully , and you will find that the characters are not the same, each has its own characteristics.

In any industry, there is a difference between excellence and excellence. Excellence is the accumulation and amplification effect of time, while excellence means actively seeking challenges and being able to make up your mind to painfully polish yourself. This is not the physical and mental pain that ordinary people can bear.

Son Ye-jin not only has professional abilities, but she also has requirements and expectations for her career as an actress. She once said: "Let yourself suffer, keep training yourself, and experience more things. If you do that, you will become the actor you want one day."

Just like Hao Lei once said: "The roles are not divided. She is a good actor who knows how to seize every role and hone her acting skills."

In 2013, she starred in the thriller "The Prisoner", and in 2014 she started acting in "Pirates". female. These two types of films were experiences that she had never tried before. But she studied with great concentration and polished it meticulously, allowing the character to penetrate her body and breathe the same fate as the character.

With her talent and hard work, Son Ye-jin became the only movie actress among the five beauties to enter the 'Chungmuro' cast, which is almost dominated by male actors.

On the other hand, Song Hye Kyo’s career path is more commercial and single-minded. On the one hand, it is due to the financial pressure of a single-parent family, and on the other hand, it is also the result of her giving up on deeply polishing herself and making active choices. .

Over the years, she has been in TV dramas, playing similar roles day after day, but she has never been able to enter the mainstream Korean film industry.

Although Song Hye Kyo is more famous overseas than Son Ye Jin, in Korea, Son Ye Jin is far behind Song Hye Kyo in the entertainment industry.

It’s a difference in career path, but also a different choice.

A woman who can bravely choose loneliness, depth and self-realization, correspondingly, she longs for purity in love, and her tolerance for love is relatively high.

2. Son Ye-jin feels more secure inside and lives a more fulfilling life.

Song Hye Kyo once wrote an article about 'money' in her autobiography "Hye Kyo's Time".

When she was young, she and her mother lived in a poor house and had to move frequently. Every time we moved, she was very sensible and helped with the housework. Later, after she debuted at the age of 15 and made money, she had the savings to buy a bigger house and used the remaining money to buy her favorite bags and clothes.

In terms of money, Song Hye Kyo felt so lacking that after her debut, she devoted herself to work crazily to make money. She looks weak, but in fact she is full of insecurities inside, and she always has a hard shell around her that cannot be broken by outsiders.

Because of her single-parent family, Song Hye Kyo developed a sensitive and stubborn personality, which is fatal in intimate relationships. Although she has had many relationships over the years since her debut, they all ended in failure, including that spectacular wedding of the century.

She once wrote an article analyzing her own feelings in a book: "There are two ways to break up with a boyfriend. If he disappoints me first, I will be very hurt. Then once we break up, I will not feel the same at all." If you don't miss it, you won't think about it again. But there is another situation. No one is sorry or disappointed. It's just that the timing is wrong and the conditions don't allow it. Love will only make both parties tired. In the end, we had to separate. What this kind of relationship left me was not the sequelae of love, but more of a regret!"

Emotionally, she is very emotional, and all her boyfriends were born out of drama. Affection.

Before she could tell whether she was falling in love with the character in the play or the actor himself, she fell in love without hesitation.

When choosing a mate, it all depends on emotion. After entering into a relationship, they lack the ability to give love and are unable to express their sincerity. Instead, they need infinite tolerance and patience from the other party. Deep down, she still placed more expectations on herself.

In her ranking of values, career is greater than love. So every time she ends a relationship, she can be decisive and not hold back. This is a little girl who is insecure and afraid to love and give.

I have always agreed with Li Xiaoyi’s words: “The right to speak about love is often in the hands of mature women. It’s not because they are older, but because they are more mature. Understand yourself and life first, and then look for it. The man who understands her and accepts the lifestyle she chooses."

Although Son Ye-jin works hard in her career, she never treats herself badly in life and enjoys life peacefully. When she is not filming, she also lives a wonderful life.

Every quarter, she arranges a trip for herself. When she stays at home, she arranges flowers, reads books, fishes, cooks... In short, she plans her life and time well.

I will not go on a diet deliberately, but I will pamper myself occasionally, eat ice cream, and feel the small blessings in life.

Although Son Ye-jin, like Song Hye-kyo, is prone to falling in love with male actors over dramas, she knows how to make rational judgments and is very restrained emotionally. In the past few years, she has been almost insulated from scandals in the industry, and there is only one romance that can be found on the entire Internet.

She longs for love, but will never rush into it based on emotional impulse. She has clear and clear requirements for her partner. She is a mature woman who understands herself and knows what she wants.

And true happiness will only come to such women who have a clear understanding of themselves. Because she enjoys being loved and has the ability to give.

3. Son Ye-jin and Hyun Bin are a pair of very mature lovers. Their official announcement of love is not an impulsive act ignited by love, but a two-way rush after rational thinking.

After all, separation is always painful. No matter how strong a man or woman is, it is difficult to avoid the inner trauma caused by the breakdown of marriage.

Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo’s marriage failed precisely because they were both children blinded by the filter of love. They were attracted to each other’s hormones and lacked rational thinking and weighing, so they hurriedly walked into the same place. A frivolous marriage, only after entering it did I realize that I had entered the wrong set of life.

One is the male god Hyun Bin, who is praised by Korean media as "Korea's four major public assets", and the other is South Korea's Grand Slam Best Actress. Their union is not only the matching of explicit values ??such as appearance, nor is it just the matching of reputation and status, the deeper reason lies in the mutual agreement of their intrinsic values.

There is an old gossip about Hyun Bin, Song Hye Kyo, and Son Ye Jin.

Hyun Bin was once in love with Song Hye Kyo, but they broke up because they spent less time together and separated more. It is rumored that Hyun Bin was very gentle and considerate towards Song Hye Kyo and gave a lot to her. Before Son Ye Jin officially announced their relationship, many fans were looking forward to the rekindling of their old relationship.

But after reading some information about Hyun Bin and Son Ye-jin, I found that Song Hye-kyo is not suitable for Hyun Bin. Son Ye-jin and Hyun Bin are actually more compatible in personality and habits.

Hyun Bin has a cold personality and is nicknamed the Iceberg God. In his early years, he got his start by playing the domineering president in "My Name is Kim Sam-soon". However, in his later career, he was not limited to the idol group in terms of career development. He actively tried to transform into a powerful group.

When it comes to business, he and Son Ye-jin have the same persistence and uphold the same career outlook.

Secondly, he belongs to the type of male artist who can hold his own. In the complicated and tempting entertainment industry, he never takes the initiative to provoke some flowers and plants, but focuses on his own field and passes the test. Live your life well.

He likes a simple and interesting life. In this regard, he and Son Ye-jin have the same outlook on life.

In the emotional relationship between Son Ye-jin and Hyun Bin, Hyun Bin is not in a role of blindly accommodating and giving.

Judging from their interviews and interactions, Son Ye-jin belongs to that type of female star with extremely high emotional intelligence. She knows how to use good communication to mobilize the atmosphere between each other, and will not always put the other party in a high-profile position. Too embarrassing a situation.

Love is not about one party endlessly accommodating the other, nor is it about blindly stepping on or praising the other. It is about letting both parties get along happily and feel psychologically equal to each other.

Having the same outlook on career and life, plus the attraction of hormones, this is the cornerstone of a solid union between Hyun Bin and Son Ye Jin.

Throughout the stable value chain between newlyweds and old couples, there is mutual need for each other. This is the real value of marriage.

A good marriage follows Buffett's value investment philosophy: once you buy, hold for the long term.

If at the beginning of love, men and women can rationally realize one thing: love is not only a physiological reaction of mutual affection, it also requires the matching of personality, values, outlook on life, and world view. The final destination of such a union of men and women is happiness.

Recognize the value of yourself and the other party clearly, and do not take action easily or give up easily.

Bless them in 2021!