What is the process from engagement to marriage in Cao Xian County, Heze City? How much will it cost?

I just got engaged some time ago, and I will probably tell you:

I. Participation:

Gift money (the lowest is Wan Li's wife-17000 yuan; Three families send together-31800; Maximum ticket 100, three catties and three liang. I don't know exactly how many. )

Money for clothes: general10000;

Sanjin: I think, it is estimated that 10000 will not come down;

Engagement party: (banquet, cigarettes, wine, gifts) is estimated to be around 5000.

Second, get married:

Wedding photos, cars, homes, electrical appliances, catering, I don't know, I'm not married.

In fact, the most important thing is discussion. The engagement cost almost 35 thousand, but I didn't buy three gold, which are all things without value preservation. Suggest to discuss with your girlfriend and give 1 10,000. There are many places to spend money after marriage. I suggest buying less useless things.

Secondly, if you have money at home, you can give more, because after marriage, your daughter-in-law will bring these things back, unlike some places in the south, if you give them, you won't come.

The above is for reference only. I'm from Heze Dingtao, and there may be some gap between Caoxian and us.