The invitations were all sent out, and my mother-in-law suddenly changed hotels for us. Should I be angry?

You should be very angry that your mother-in-law suddenly changed hotels for you after all the wedding invitations were sent out. After all, the invitation has been sent out. Changing hotels temporarily will bring a lot of trouble. It's really bad to interfere too much in your son's marriage. If you look at the problem from the perspective of your mother-in-law, you should care about your son's marriage.

But after all, my son and daughter-in-law have decided to get married, and both of them have the responsibility and ability to deal with most of the problems in life together. At this time, a more rational choice should be to maintain a "wait-and-see attitude." Whether as a mother or an elder, what needs to be done is more "help" than excessive "intervention" at the necessary moment.

With the transformation of love into marriage, the identity of the son has changed, and as a mother, the concept should also be changed appropriately. Two generations have some living habits, consumption concepts and so on.

However, don't interfere in the marriage affairs of too many sons and daughters-in-law, otherwise, contradictions will be difficult to get along with. I think, as a mother-in-law, I shouldn't interfere in the marriage affairs of too many children and daughters-in-law.