Analysis of the personalities of the five sisters in "Ode to Joy", how to achieve love counterattack?

People who follow the drama think that Fan Shengmei is the most pitiable among the five sisters. I am not convinced. This has to talk about the issue of class. Fan Shengmei's arrogance and vanity actually come from her inherent class. Her father was hospitalized for surgery. When she finally broke the phone and failed to borrow money, she realized that she actually had no equal exchange value to others.

Yes, the word value is neither a heart-warming compliment nor a cold derogatory term. But behind it, it represents an inherent class.

1. When Qu Xiaoxiao treats love, she either breaks up decisively or stalks her

Among the five sisters, there are many people who hate Xiaoqu, so some netizens commented on her as " Scheming girl". In real life, she seems to be a person with extremely high IQ and EQ, and is considered the number one among the five sisters. Xiaoqu gives people the impression that her words are sometimes tactless and sarcastic, but in fact she is an alternative to the old-fashioned and warm-hearted rich second generation.

In her values, if she talks harshly to you, you will have a place in her mind. If Xiaoqu doesn't treat someone as a friend, she won't even bother to care about them. He was free to rise and fall in the world, while I looked around and sneered. She seems to be a representative of high EQ and low IQ.

The representatives of high EQ and IQ in the play are people like Wei Wei and Tan Zongming. Their precise sense of people and things makes them prosperous in life and business and dominate the world. However, it is generally difficult for this kind of people to completely trust someone. They will first test you with a colored eye to assess the situation. This kind of smart people can be said to be top-notch people. It has to be said that such people live very lonely lives. Because their hearts are no longer pure, they become burdened.

If the girl in your life wants to pursue such an elite, you really have to work hard. You must have both elegant and virtuous character and the ability to understand their psychology. In layman's terms, you need to be able to flirt as well as be emotional.

In the end, it is a great wisdom to be able to sleep in bed with handsome guy Zhao.

2. Love is not a rational thing. The rational Andy missed the singularity, but ushered in a new starting point

Let’s talk about the second Andy. The tragic experience she had as a child left a shadow of her childhood. Having received an American education early in her life, she has become a unique and strong woman in the business society. She is resolute and decisive in her workplace. Understand where your position is in the business society. She is a valuable person with a high degree of education and high IQ. As a money-making machine, she is really a profitable candidate.

She looks decisive, but her love life is blank. It is so blank that it can only be classified as having low emotional intelligence. She is very repulsive to intimate gestures, and that is because her childhood lacked fatherly and motherly love. If he and Wei Wei are combined, she will be happy, and she will be very happy. But Wei Wei's sensitivity and meticulous care will definitely fail after a long time. In their relationship, Wei Wei must have given up first. Because he will be very tired. For Andy, why not choose Tan Zongming, who has high EQ and IQ? That just automatically excludes Lao Tan in her own subconscious.

Lao Tan has cared for her for more than ten years. In the eyes of discerning people, the best relationship is to always be with her. But Andy is a novice when it comes to relationships, how could she possibly realize this. Otherwise, Wei Wei would not have a chance.

Off topic, are Andy and Wei Wei the same kind of people? Of course not! Andy is the kind of person who has experienced misery since childhood, but has a soft heart. She is idealistic at heart, which can be seen in her enthusiastic and generous help to the neighbors around her. However, Wei Wei was successful as a young boy and rose up after being miserable in middle age. When his girlfriend left him, he chose to look at life rationally, but he is a standard realist.

The relationship failure between Andy and Wei Wei is actually a passing between idealism and realism. It has nothing to do with right or wrong, because in real life there are very few people who can pursue both bread and ideals. And little. I feel sorry for them not being together. At least their initial combination made me see one more possibility in real life.

Andy ended up with Bao Yifan at the end of the play, and I agree with that.

3. A sultry girl should be direct and bold when it comes to love.

Next, let’s talk about Xiaoguan. Xiaoguan has been well-educated since she was a child. She is a girl with average IQ and EQ. She is not outstanding in appearance, but she has a very good quality. She is willing to make persistent efforts for career or love, no matter how much hardship she endures, she is willing to bear it.

The reason why Xiaoguan and Senior Brother Lin cannot be together is that Senior Brother Lin cannot make her have sexual impulses. This is what is called love at first sight. She has conditions for the love at first sight that Xiaoguan requires.

In real life, this kind of girl either moves into a higher class and marries a rich and handsome man, or she marries someone who is like herself, has a good tutor and a certain social status, which is considered a perfect class. In real life, these people are the happiest people alive. Men all like this.

I don’t have much words to say about Xiaoguan, because with good fortune and hard work, it’s hard not to be happy. A little spoiler, I heard from the original author that she found a policeman boyfriend, not Dr. Zhao. She and Dr. Zhao are indeed inappropriate in character.

4. Go on a rampage and face it optimistically, no matter love or life, there will be a good ending

Let me talk about Xiaoqiu. I have to say that Yang Zi's performance is outstanding, and she is also the character I feel most distressed about. It's great to portray such a third-rate talent from a small town. Third-rate talents come to big cities to work hard, but their IQ and EQ are not high, so what should they do? Work hard, which is what we often call hard work.

In the play, Xiao Qiu is deceived by a white scumbag and angers everyone, looking like he has no idea what is good or bad. Faced with the double trough of career and relationship, she faced it with positivity and optimism. Although a bit blind, it is the easiest to move people. She is actually a representative of many people who come to big cities to work hard.

This type of talent is the group that is most likely to get lost in real life. They have the enthusiasm and passion to change themselves, but they have no choice but not to understand social rules, because they always feel slower to react. In the eyes of discerning people, they just Like a clown. And she belongs to the majority of the social class. With no background or education, there is no way to rise in heaven or earth.

This type of people will have great mood swings because they are aware of the unfairness of society. Some people become angry youths, while some people work hard and eventually become well-off. When it comes to relationships and career, these people cannot have both of them. They must either work hard to build a career first, or be beautiful and marry a good family.

I have expectations for Xiao Qiu’s role. After all, she represents the majority, and her successful advancement can set an inspirational example for many losers. Xiaoqiu finally found an IT man who is also from the same hometown. I think it is a good destination.

5. There must be other reasons behind the arrogance and vanity

Finally, let’s talk about the gold-collar girl Fan Shengmei. She saw that her family favored sons over daughters, and she became a family. She has sacrificed so much silently, and I really feel sorry for her. There is a saying from ancient times that poor people must be hateful. Fan Shengmei is actually from the same class as Xiaoqiu, and she is also the majority in our lives. She is a person in the diaosi class with high IQ and EQ, which is why she is aloof, arrogant and vain.

Fan Shengmei can be said to have the highest EQ and IQ among the five sisters. Because she was burdened with the family, she forced herself to become a leftover girl. When it comes to love, she seems a bit utilitarian, and there is nothing right or wrong in this.

In life, there are many people who understand the Twenty-Four Histories, but there are very few people who can write their own destiny by themselves. Therefore, Fan Shengmei is burdened with the inequalities from family and education, and lives in different classes. This kind of smart people actually enjoy playing with class. Because, with her high IQ and high EQ, she can also accomplish what the rich second generation have accomplished, but she has to sacrifice a lot of her own things. Such as sincere love, such as distortion of values.

Fortunately, Fan Shengmei has not become snobbish, which is the only reason why I have a good impression of her. It's not easy for her, but she is a person who refuses to accept her fate. Accepting one's fate actually means recognizing one's position and doing what one should do in a down-to-earth manner.

She didn't, she wanted to take a shortcut, even if she had to exchange her precious things, she would not hesitate.

There are only two endings for Fan Shengmei, one is to start her own career by herself, and the other is to sacrifice her true love and choose to marry for fame and fortune. But in fact, she chose the first situation and knew how to cherish handsome boy Wang's feelings, and the two finally got married.

As a digression, there is an example among my friends. She lived the life she wanted, but lost the happiness of her marriage. Of course, we can't blame anyone. These five types of people actually represent our social classes. There is true love, but it is also based on bread. Strive together and enjoy the ready-made, the latter is more expensive.

In the choice of Fan Shengmei and Xiao Qiu, I value Fan Shengmei more, because her high IQ and high EQ are enough for her to achieve her career. But Xiaoqiu is likely to be miserable in the ups and downs of society.

Perhaps many years later, Xiao Qiu will become a person like Fan Shengmei. I am not afraid that you are stupid, but I am afraid that you will not dare to eat swan meat.

As for the happiness index of love in the play, if I want to rank it, Xiaoguan is first, Xiaoqu is second, Andy is third, Fan Shengmei is fourth, and Xiaoqiu is fifth. "Ode to Joy" is a light comedy with a happy ending.

As for the ranking of men, it is very different. Let me tell you something first. Tan Zongming must be ranked first. I have read the whole drama, including the novel. I think I will give a more objective answer based on reality.

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