Is the gift from Ningde Gutian given in two times? Boyfriend Gutian's, he said to give half the engagement and the other half before the wedding.

So does doubting your boyfriend's personality make you lose confidence? Maybe it is. Maybe your boyfriend lied to you because he was afraid that you wouldn't get married if you got the gift money, or he could only say that if you get along well with him at ordinary times, you don't have to mind the latter part. I'm a woman, and that's what I did. The most important thing is that they get along well. There is no need to pursue this matter. If your boyfriend has enough money to afford it, then. Generally speaking, gift money is dead, and people are alive, depending on whether you are deeply in love.