My husband's sex video made my marriage collapse.

I am 25 years old, and our son is over 20 months old now. I found out that my husband was cheating on me. Once, I had several memory cards on my mobile phone, and I said I didn't need them. I used it. One day, I watched it. In the video, it seems to be in a hotel with white sheets. It's a woman in a hotel, naked, talking to him while taking a shower. Ask him what you are doing and he says, "I'm using my cell phone?" I also heard his voice. I collapsed as soon as I heard it.

I see the date is February 6, 2009. At that time, I was pregnant. That day was the day when I went home to meet my parents.

I asked him angrily, "What happened to this video?" He said, "It's definitely not mine. Maybe my buddy recorded it? If so, you can't show it to me. "

However, I don't think I can face him now. I feel sick looking at him. I don't think he is clean and perfect. He had a woman before, and I don't care. Actually, I thought he would correct it when we got married. Our shop will open tomorrow.

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First of all, thank you for your trust in me. First of all, I would like to express my understanding and sympathy for your experience.

Now after such a long time, your child is only 20 months old. Can I get a divorce? I think you should think about it, think more about your own happiness and the happiness of your children.

A truly honest man may only be with one woman in his life. As the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots! It seems that your husband is really dishonest. In fact, during a woman's pregnancy, it is also a dangerous period for a man to cheat. Now, you can't make this person whole. It is ok to choose divorce, but it is not necessarily what you want, which is why you are so entangled in pain.

If you want a real divorce, collect all the evidence. If you want to find the perfect love, try to leave him. If you can't get a divorce, let it go quickly and don't make the pain worse.

I suggest you talk to him first, make an agreement with him and give him some color to see see. Of course, you can give him another chance. I hope this lesson will make your husband restrain himself.

It's no use being sad. What we need to do now is to do your business well. With women's self-reliance and self-confidence, I believe men will also show special respect to you. Learn to protect yourself and make life better.