My mother's birthday party will be held in the hotel, and my mother-in-law's birthday will be left unattended. What is the mentality?

To put it simply, as a daughter, my mother-in-law can directly tell the elderly to have a banquet, while as a daughter-in-law, it doesn't matter how she says it. She can only consult with her husband and son.

Tell me about my family.

My mother always asks us if we want to come back before our birthday. She invited us out to dinner and asked us what we wanted to eat. She was prepared in advance. Or we can discuss with her how to celebrate her birthday, whether to invite relatives or our family to have dinner together. If there is a big birthday or anniversary, we will also put forward suggestions for a big banquet, most of which can be passed directly.

Today is my mother-in-law's birthday. I can't remember the date. Every year near her birthday, she kept silent until the day before her birthday? Tomorrow is my mother's birthday, how to celebrate it? ? At this time, when I say where to eat and what to eat, my husband will say: My mother doesn't eat this or that; My father doesn't like eating in this house; My mother wants to do it at home. . There are so many conditions, please discuss them with your family. I'll eat for free.

My mother-in-law's birthday is in the hotel, but nobody cares about her birthday. What's her mentality? I think this mentality is normal, because this is my mentality. It's not because my daughter-in-law has no substantive function. Since it is useless, it is better to be silent.

My mother's birthday hotel banquet may be decided by other children there, even for your daughter-in-law. Why not? If you have any questions, you can also help your mother to have a big banquet in the same way.

Your daughter-in-law doesn't care about your mother's birthday, and you can't do it yourself. Were you doing it on your mother-in-law's birthday?

Anyway, your mother loves herself dearly. If you just want your daughter-in-law to be nice to your mother unilaterally, that's impossible. You should be good to your mother-in-law and your mother should be good to your daughter-in-law.