Starve to death in a hotel.

In the winter of 2009, a 23-year-old young man in Xinyang City, Henan Province starved to death at home. The young man who starved to death in his own home is called Suo Yang, which means: Keep the child forever. This lock not only locked Suo Yang's life, but also ended his life.

For those who have never been able to grow up in a greenhouse, laziness is equivalent to burying a person alive, while Suo Yang's family is poor and his living conditions are difficult.

However, such an environment has achieved the title of the first lazy person in Henan and the first lazy person in the country, and the ultimate reason is still the doting of parents. Spoiling is not the original sin, but the laziness of living with this "duty" tempts people to fall.

A closed life

The arrival of Suo Yang added hope to this poor family. It is a new beginning for this family that parents specially find experts to name this new life.

When Suoyang was 8 years old, his father still picked him up with a burden and wouldn't let him walk in the fields. As the saying goes, "Look at the old at the age of three". At this time, Suo Yang was as ignorant as a child.

At this time, children in rural areas are generally precocious, and they know how to help their families when they are young, but Suo Yang's parents are very upset, and the children will never let him help their families. Every time Suo Yang's parents come home from work, they cook for him on time, and his mother feeds Suo Yang herself.

Suo Yang is old enough to go to school. People who are spoiled at ordinary times can't stand any injustice at school. After being criticized by the teacher once, Suo Yang went home and started crying. Parents didn't ask Suo Yang why he just indulged unconditionally.

In this way, Suo Yang's parents rushed to school angrily and had a big fight with the teacher. Although the teacher explained clearly, they insisted. In this way, the teacher didn't notice such a special person, Suo Yang dropped out of school at home.

The beginning of tragedy

13 years old, which is the turning point of Suo Yang's life. After dropping out of school at home, he stayed at home and didn't want to communicate with others. His parents are still hands-on, his mother is still feeding Suo Yang, and Suo Yang's eyes have no light.

/kloc-at the age of 0/3, he still lived a life of reaching for clothes and changing food as always, but his father died of liver disease, and the burden of life fell on his mother alone, making the already poor family worse.

After my father died, my mother shouldered the burden of taking care of Suoyang and all the families, and Suo Yang remained the same.

He doesn't know what happened to his father. He didn't feel any sadness either. His father died before he was sensible. But after his father died, he still didn't teach him the skills to be a man, and his mother indulged him without a bottom line. This periodic laziness is also the beginning of Suo Yang's life tragedy.

Guilty love is coming.

When all disasters come, people don't even have time to react when they panic. 18 years old, Suo Yang's mother finally left him because of long-term overwork.

The death of his mother made this child, who had been hiding under the wings of his parents, face the first difficulty in his life. But he knows nothing, can't cook, can't work, and can't get along with people.

/kloc-for 0/8 years, he has been living in a small world composed of his parents. He never thought of taking a step forward. He lives in his own world, knowing nothing and learning nothing.

He lost the feelings of a normal person, so his mother's death deprived him of a person who was cold enough to dress him and hungry enough to feed him. He felt no pain.

Lazy people find it troublesome to draw a circle. Without parents' care, even if there is food at home, Suo Yang won't do it himself.

fall down

Laziness is the beginning of life death. Suo Yang, who has nothing, leads a muddled life every day. My cousin Yang Deyu took him home because he was worried that he could not live independently. Suo Yang, who went to her cousin's house, didn't change herself because of her parents' death, and still waited for others to take care of herself.

My cousin saw this situation and asked him to follow him to the construction site. The fatigue on the construction site made Suo Yang, who had never worked before, unable to persist. A few days later, he fled back from the construction site. This time, Suo Yang gave up the last chance to choose life.

Suo Yang returned to the village. In order to make a living, Suo Yang was introduced to a hotel in the county by villagers and began to work as a waiter.

However, according to the hotel staff, Suo Yang did nothing after he came here, and let others wait on him. In this case, he was sent home. After that, Suo Yang never thought about looking for a job.

People in the village felt sorry for him and sent him some meat and vegetables. Suo Yang hung them under the house. He started selling things from the seller and went to the restaurant to eat after selling the money, but never cooked by himself. In this way, there was nothing to sell at home, and Suo Yang began to beg.

Fireworks that have never bloomed before

Suo Yang often has no food to eat. Whenever this time, he will go to his cousin's house for a meal, then run back to his house to sleep for two days after eating, and so on.

Until the winter of 2009, this year's winter was particularly cold. After several heavy snows, my cousin couldn't see Suo Yang, so he hurried to Suoyang's house to see him. At this time, Suo Yang had passed away.

People in the village found smelly meat, moldy vegetables and rice noodles in Suo Yang's home. But for Suo Yang, these things are always complicated, because the lazy man feels heavy even his own clothes, let alone let him cook and eat by himself, and he will eventually die because of his laziness.

He was only 23 when he died, but he lost his life because of laziness at the best time of his life.

Suo Yang, who should have his own wonderful life, is unwilling to face life and make changes because of his parents' lazy personality formed by unconditional love.

His parents' doting finally became an obstacle to his progress in life. Neither did his parents teach him the skills of living alone. And his satisfaction with the safe house given by his parents also prompted him to die eventually.

From Suo Yang's tragic life experience, we can learn that it is natural for parents to care for their children, but excessive care will turn into doting.

Parents play a leading role in educating their children. As parents, you can love, but you should grasp the scale. Education itself is a long-term thing. If parents can't educate their children themselves, then children can't have good development.

If it can't be the right direction to guide children's life, then parents' love for children will eventually become children's harm. Parents want their children to grow up under their wings, but flowers that have not experienced wind and rain will eventually wither when the greenhouse no longer exists.

Only through wind and rain can we meet the rainbow. If Suo Yang's parents know that their son will die of laziness in the future, maybe they will change the way they educate their son. However, life is impossible, and people only have one life.